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My Younger Self Series – Ustadh Yusuf

50 Life Hacks For My Dear Younger Self

“Your future is not ahead of you, it’s trapped within you.” — Myles Munroe

What are the ultimate life hacks and strategies that really pay off?

Here are 50 of my best life hacks and strategies that have served me well.

To put it another way, my Future Self thanks me for them.

These life hacks are the culmination of life experience, insight from mentors, personal development training, trial and error, and several hundred books.

I’ve also combined my life hacks with some powerful quotes to add an element of timeless wisdom.  I’ve also targeted strategies that can help you at different stages in life, whether you are just starting out, or you’ve been around the block.

If you feel you’ve lost your way, several of these life hacks and strategies will help you get back on path.  If you internalize these life hacks for your Future Self and put at least a few into action, you’ll give yourself an immediate and instant source of advantage.

As you explore the list, find three life hacks you can use right now to ignite a breakthrough or two, and take your life, and your Future Self, to the next level.

#1. Never Stop Learning

Learn from everyone and everything.

Be like a kid in the candy store and learn from everybody around you.

Everybody you know has their unique gifts.   Learn from them, even if it means learning how NOT to do something.   Also, people like to share what they’re good at, so eat it up.

Never be above learning, and learn from every one you can.  Don’t let your ego get in the way, no matter how smart you are.

Focus on building your portable equity.  Your day is filled with learning opportunities if you are open to them.

You can teach an old dog new tricks. If you stay open.  If you keep trying new things.

You’re growing or dying.  There’s no in-between.

Never close your mind.  Stay open to new worlds and new possibilities.

#2. Invest in Yourself

This one will pay you back every time.

You are your best investment, and you take you with you wherever you go.

As Robin Sharma says, “Investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make. It will not only improve your life; it will improve the lives of all those around you.”

It’s too easy when you finish school and start a job to say, “I’m done with learning.”   If you want to keep earning, you have to keep learning.

#3. Drive from Your “WHY”

Every day you make a choice about how you show up in this world – at work, in your business, in life.   Have a cause that drives you and a belief that inspires you.

We fall short when we focus on what we do, and not what we stand for.

Life’s short.  Then you die.

Make it matter.

Your purpose is power and it’s fuel for your passion,

Drive from your purpose.

But where do you find it?

Look inside.

Find the answer to the question, “Why do you do what you do?”

Peel away at an onion until you get to the inner core.  Find your fire inside.  That’s where your strength to move mountains comes from, and your purpose is the torch that lights the way for others to help you in your cause.

#4. Decide Who You Are

Define yourself.

Don’t let others define you or what you’re capable of.

My favorite answer to “Who are you?” is from Scott Adams:

“You are what you learn.”

#5. Decide Who You Want To Be

In the Last Lecture, Randy Pausch asks us to decide if you’re Tigger or Eeyore

Own your choice and live it like you mean it.

One day when I was running around the different halls within the campus – rushing to get to class on time, one of my mentors stopped me and asked, “How do you want others to experience you?”

Not like a chicken with its head cut off.

More like James Bond and on top of the situation.

How do you want others to experience you?   How do YOU want to experience you?

Start from there, and drive from that.

You’ll immediately start creating more of the experiences that you want, and less of those that you don’t.

#6. Live YOUR Life

Who’s life do you want to live?  The one your parents or your friends want for you?  Or, the one that fairy tales taught you?  Or the life that the media tells you?

It’s your life.  Live it on your terms.

Don’t live other people’s lives.  Don’t try to keep up with the Joneses.   Do what makes you happy.  Know what you want, and what you need.   Don’t let other people’s expectations for you rule your life, or limit the life that you want to lead.

People pleasing wears you out, unless you find a way to please yourself first.

#7. Live Your Life from the Inside Out

Start from the inside.

Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world.

We get what we project, and the world reflects back at us.

Here are a few words of wisdom from Earl Nightingale:

“It’s so easy to forget ultimate in the rush and hurry of daily life, especially for young people. So often, we’re merely responders, so to speak, simply reacting to stimuli, to rewards and punishments, to emergencies, to pains and fears, to demands of other people, to superficialities. It takes a specific, conscious effort, at least at first, to turn one’s attention to intrinsic things and values. Perhaps seeking actual physical aloneness. Perhaps exposing one’s self to great music, to good people, to natural beauty, and so forth. Only after practice do these strategies become easy and automatic so that one can be living totally immersed in his or her river.”

Immerse yourself in your river.

#8. Live Your Values

“Rather than love, than money, than fame, give me truth.” — Henry David Thoreau

The key to The Good Life is spending more time in your values.

To live your values, you need to know your values.

When you know your values, you simply need to connect what you do each day back to your values.

The smart way is to connect what you do at work to your values.  For example, if you like to learn, then use each day as a learning opportunity, or a chance to master your craft.  Or, if you value excellence, then raise the bar.   Or, if you value beauty, then do more beautiful things and produce more works of art.

#9. Drive from Your Life Style

For so many people, life makes more sense when they find a job where they can spend more time in their values and matches what they want their life style to be.

If you don’t like to travel, then don’t choose a job that requires a lot of travel.

If you don’t want to work crazy hours, then don’t choose a job where a crazy schedule comes with the territory and is the nature of the beast.

It’s easy to fall into the trap of chasing the idea that the grass is greener, or that the glory of the job is worth it, or that climbing the ladder will make life so much better.

Then reality hits.

Going up the ladder, doesn’t necessarily mean spending more time doing what you love.   Going up the ladder, doesn’t mean life gets better or easier.  In fact, it often means more sacrifice and more responsibility that you might not want at this point in your life.   Worse, it might mean you spend a lot less time doing what you love and spending a lot less time in your strengths.

Be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it.

#10. Be Yourself

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”  — Bernard M. Baruch

Besides the fact that everybody else is taken, you’re the best person for the job.

But don’t “just be yourself.”   Really, bring out yourself.

Know what you bring to the table and how to flex what you’ve got.

Share your unique gifts with the world, by spending more time in your strengths.   Do more of YOUR art.

Live your values.  Know YOUR wants and needs.

Stay true to you.

The more authentic you are, the stronger you’ll be in everything you do.

#11. Know Thyself

“He who knows others is wise; he who knows himself is enlightened.”  — Lao Tzu

To be yourself, you need to know yourself, and what you’re capable of.  And, limitations, and opportunities for growth, too.

The more you know yourself, the more you grow yourself, and the more you can bring out your best.  And, the more you know yourself, the more you can also understand and appreciate others, and deal with differences.   This will help you connect better and build better bridges.

So you think you know yourself?

Let’s take a quick check …

Do you know WHY you do what you do?  Do you have your short-list handy of your top values that shape your priorities in life?  Can you name your top 5 strengths?  Do you know your preferred learning styles?  Do you know your preferred thinking styles?  Do you know how you like to deal with conflict and your preferred conflict management style?  Do you know your NLP meta-programs that you use to drive your mind?  Do you know your personality and work environment type that shape your career path?

#12. Be Your Own Best Friend

“You’re always with yourself, so you might as well enjoy the company.” — Diane Von Furstenberg

If there’s one person to have in your corner, it’s you.

Be your best coach, not your worst critic.

You take you with you wherever you go, so it’s worth figuring out how to lift yourself up, not beat yourself up, and how to have a strong sense of self-worth.

The more compassionate you are with yourself, the more compassionate you’ll be with others, and you get what you give.

If you don’t think your worth it, here’s new for you …What separates the people that have a strong sense of love and belonging from those that don’t?

They think they’re worth it.  That’s it.

The choice is yours.

#13. Seek Simplicity

Simplify.

It’s way easy to make things more complex than they need to be.

Seek simplicity.

Simplicity is the key to sustainability.

Drive towards it.

If you keep things simple, you can better adapt to change.   You can also focus more on what’s important without getting lost in distractions and weeds.

#14. Measure Your Life by the People Whose Lives You Touch

“Five hundred twenty-five thousand six hundred minutes.” that’s the number of minutes in a year … “525,600 minutes – how do you measure, measure a year? … In daylights, in sunsets, in midnights, in cups of coffee. … In inches, in miles, in laughter, in strife. In 525,600 minutes – how do you measure a year in the life?”

How do you measure your life?

You don’t measure it in mansions or yachts.

And, you don’t need to climb a mountain to find the truth.

You can measure your life by the people whose lives you touch.

#15. Embrace the Challenge

You know the saying, “Easy come, easy go.”

And, “Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.”

Do the tough stuff.  Embrace the effort.  It’s how you grow.

You’ll often look back and you’ll be proud of yourself for all those moments and all those times where you leaned in to your challenges, and gave it all you got.

For so many things in life, you’ll need to remind yourself the following:

It’s not easy.  But, it’s worth it.

#16. Never Give Up

“If you’re going through Hell, keep going.” – Winston Churchill

Giving up is easy.

Don’t.

Keep getting up to bat.

Never shut down for good.

It’s not how hard you fall.  It’s how high you bounce.

When you fall, get up again.  As the saying goes, “Fall seven times, stand up eight.”

#17. Focus on What You Control, and Let the Rest Go

Every time life feels out of control, remind yourself to focus on what you control.

And, let the rest go.

When you act on what you control, you build momentum.

More importantly, when you exercise the things within your control, you remind yourself that you are powerful and resourceful.

#18. Take Action

“Life is like a game of chess.  To win you have to make a move.” — Allan Rufus, The Master’s Sacred Knowledge

As Tony Robbins reminds us, “It’s not knowing what to do, it’s doing what you know.”

Our power is our ability to act.  Exercise it.  Life’s not static.  Lead a life of action.

Taking action helps you deal with change.  A lot of success in life is about reducing the gap between knowing what to do, and actually doing what you know.   Taking action keeps you from wallowing in misery, and it helps build momentum.

If you’re worried that you missed the boat, remind yourself of this timeless Chinese proverb:

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.”

#19. Ruthless Focus, Relentless Execution

Voltaire said, “No problem can withstand the assault of sustained thinking.”

It’s true.

Likewise, no challenge can withstand our sustained action.

When it comes to making things happen on a consistent basis, no single strategy has served me better than extreme focus and relentless execution.

Act on your best idea, in some small way.  Over time, with sustained focus, relentless thinking, and little actions, you compound your effort into greater results.

Keep in mind, that sometimes the best way to get great results is to take massive action.

In the words of Dan Brown, “Everything is possibleThe impossible just takes longer.”

#20. Choose Your Response

“All change happens with a choice.” — Tony Robbins

Don’t let other people push your buttons.

Expand the space between the stimulus and the response.

Stephen Covey said it best:

“In the space between stimulus (what happens) and how we respond, lies our freedom to choose. Ultimately, this power to choose is what defines us as human beings. We may have limited choices but we can always choose. We can choose our thoughts, emotions, moods, our words, our actions; we can choose our values and live by principles. It is the choice of acting or being acted upon.”

As one of my mentors puts it, “You are the sum of your decisions.”

Exercise your choices.

When it comes to making big change and making big choices, put yourself into a position where failure is not an option. Tony Robbins shares this advice:

“If you want to take the island – burn the friggin’ boats!”.

#21. Enjoy the Journey and the Destination

““Life is like skiing.  Just like skiing, the goal is not to get to the bottom of the hill. It’s to have a bunch of good runs before the sun sets.” – Seth Godin

It’s one thing to focus on your destination.

It’s another to enjoy the journey as you go.

Do both.

Find a way to make the journey worth it.

Sometimes, you won’t actually reach your destination.   You’ll want to look back and know that you made your journey worth it, you stopped to smell the flowers along the way, and if you had to do it all over again, there’s a good chance you’d do it the same way.

#22. Be Here Now

“Where are you? …. HERE.  What time is it? … NOW.  What are you? … THIS MOMENT.” – Peaceful Warrior

Be here now.   Your choices are in the moment.

You can choose what you focus on.   You choose whether to worry or take. action.

Now is a great time to act.

Right here, right now, you can think the thoughts that serve you.

Throughout the day, you’ll have learning opportunities and leadership moments.

In the moments throughout the day, you can connect what you do and how you do it back to your values.

In this moment, do you know what you want, what you think, and what you feel?

#23. Cultivate an Attitude of Gratitude

“Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have.” —Schachtel

Acknowledgement and appreciation are the most powerful rewards on Earth.

You can cultivate your attitude of gratitude by being thankful for the good choices you make during your day.  Acknowledge and appreciate when you make the tough call, do the right thing, or take the high road.

Tony Robbins starts his day from a place of strength by reminding himself what he’s grateful for.

Whenever you can’t find a way to be grateful for what you’ve got, remind yourself how things can always be worse, and if you look for examples, you’ll find plenty.  There is always somebody worse off than you.

#24. Create a Feedback Loop

“Feedback is the breakfast of champions.” —  Ken Blanchard

The fastest way to improve with skill is to get a feedback loop that gives you data to learn and improve from.

Find ways to build learning loops, where you can iterate on something, and get a little better each time.

If you’re not getting the insight you need, fast enough, or relevant enough, then tighten your loop.

#25. Form a Personal Board of Directors

Find people in your life that you trust to give you deep feedback on ways to improve.

They may even know you better than you know yourself.

Find the people and friends who are willing to offer you insight and guidance on how to bring out your best.

#26. Give Your Best Where You’ve Got Your Best to Give

Spend more time in your strengths.

It’s one thing to play to your strengths when you get the chance.

It’s another thing to deliberately find ways to spend a lot more time in your strengths.

John Wooden’s secret to a happy life was peace of mind.  His secret to peace of mind was giving his best, every chance he got.

#27. Stay Hands-On

Use it or lose it.

Don’t be afraid to roll up your sleeves and dive in. It’s part of learning.

You learn more by doing, and that you’re never above any job.  And he would add that the more you know about the job at all levels, the more capable you are as you go up.

#28. Surround Yourself with Catalysts

Robin Hood had his Merry Men.

Build your wolf pack.

Some people we know, just happen to bring out our best.

Somehow, when you’re around them, you smile a little more.  You feel a little stronger.  You walk a little taller. You shine a little brighter.

They are your catalysts.

Surround yourself with the people that lift you.

#29. Embrace Change

“It is not the strongest of the species that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.” — Charles Darwin

Change is a constant in our lives.

If we embrace it, we can use it as an opportunity to let go of what’s not working, and carry forward what is.   We can also use it to reinvent ourselves.

#30. Anticipate It

The best way to predict the future is to create it.” — Peter F. Drucker

Be what’s next.

Think ahead.    Anticipate.

A lot of the same things happen every day, every week, every month, every year.   Watch for the patterns.  Make them work for you.

You’d be surprised how many things we think are random can be traced back to a simple flow of events that weren’t random at all.

When you get in the habit of looking head, you set the stage to help yourself prepare for changes that may come your way, long before they start to show up.

#31. Age or Mature Like a Fine Cheese

Some people let time wear them down.

Others put time on their side.  They get better with age.

Imagine if you got just a little better each day, how quickly that adds up over time.

Imagine you a year from now, better in so many ways, through better choices, better habits, and better thoughts.

#32. Seek Progress, Not Perfection

“The perfect is the enemy of good.” – Voltaire

Perfection is a great way to paralyze yourself.

Improvement over time beats seeking perfection out of the gate.

Think of perfection as a journey, not a destination, and enjoy the journey as you go.

#33. Add More Life to Your Years

“And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” — Abraham Lincoln

Life’s short.

You can try to add more years to your life, but first add more life to your years.

Otherwise, what’s the point.

#34. Raise Your Frustration Tolerance

Imagine if you found out that your frustration tolerance level was the main thing holding you back from enjoying life a little more each day?

Think of all the little thing that bug you each day.

Maybe it’s the traffic.  Maybe it’s people you know.

Maybe it’s a lot of little things throughout your day, that all seem to rub you the wrong way.

Imagine if you suddenly raised your frustration tolerance, and all the little things that bugged you no longer pushed your buttons?

This is one of those big choices in life that affects you every day.

#35. Take One Step Back to Take Two Steps Forward

I remember the pain of learning to type.  I thought my two-finger method was fine.  I hadn’t realized how much faster I could be.

But getting there was painful.

Speed didn’t come easy.  It was like taking a step back.  Eventually, taking the step back paid off, and now I get the benefit on a daily basis.

A lot of things you learn can be like that.  Learning is awkward.

But the results are worth it, if you stick with it.

#36. Change the Things that Aren’t Working for You

“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” — Albert Einstein

As Tony Robbins reminds us, “If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.”

If things aren’t working for you, change them.

Change yourself first.  The fastest person you can change in any situation is you.   If you’re not getting the results you want, try changing yourself first.

Change your rules.  It’s easy to create a bunch of rules for yourself that make success impossible, or always out of reach.

Change your environment.   As Deepak Chopra , “You can’t make positive choices for the rest of your life without an environment that makes those choices easy, natural, and enjoyable.”

Change your relationships.  As W. Clement Stone says, “Be careful the friends you choose for you will become like them.”

Change your metaphors for life.  Is your life a comedy?  A tragedy?  A sitcom?  An epic adventure? A dance?

Change how you represent things.  Change what they mean to you.  When you change how you represent things, you change how you experience them.

#37. Ask Better Questions

If you want better answers in life, ask better questions.

What are some better questions you can start asking yourself?

Exactly.

#38. Keep Reinventing Yourself

Life’s not static.  Neither are you.  Embrace your changes and make them work for you.

Life is a continuous process of reinvention.

Sometimes, it means becoming more of who you are.  Sometimes, it means becoming more of who you were born to be.   Other times, it means choosing more of who you want to be.

#39. Do More of What You Love

One of the best questions a mentor once asked me was:

“What do you want to spend more time doing?”

I had been so wrapped up in figuring out my career moves that I lost sight of the basics.   After thinking it over, I got clarity around the things I liked to do the most.   This made choosing my next moves a lot easier, because I now knew what I wanted to fill my day with.

Figure out what you want to spend more time doing.

Then, find a way to do more of it.

#40. Model the Best

“If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” – Isaac Newton

You can start from scratch or you can start from examples. By starting from examples, you can “Stand on the shoulders of giants” and leapfrog ahead. More importantly, you can use the examples to model from and inspire and guide yourself with skill. They will help you avoid dead ends and glass ceilings.

You can always choose to ignore what other people have done. But that should be an explicit decision. One of the best ways to speed up success is to build on the patterns and practices that work.

Success always leaves clues.

You can learn from the success of others to tune and prune your own success path.

#41. Use Mentors as the Short-Cuts

Mentors are the ultimate short-cut.

Find mentors who have “been there, done that.”   They can shave years off your journey and help you avoid dead ends.

The best mentors will know how to tailor their experience and insight in a way that helps you play to your strengths and accelerate your success.

#42. Break the Loop

Our little loops can make us or break us.

Whether it’s an action or a thought, if it doesn’t serve you, break the loop.  Don’t dig the ruts deeper.

When the loop starts, catch yourself and choose whether you need to start, stop, or continue something.

It’s easier said than done, but awareness it the first step.

#43. Build Better Habits

As the saying goes, “First, you make habits, and then your habits make you.”

Your routines and rituals can serve you well.   Your daily little actions add up over time for the compound effect.

Do something once or twice and it’s a one off.  Do it three times, and you might be on to something.  Do it for 21 days in a row, and it just might stick.

Be careful in your little choices.   The thoughts you think, the things you drink, the stuff you eat, and the little things you do.  Habits can be insidious and act like a slippery slope.

#44. Do the Opposite

Sometimes the best thing you can do is to “do the opposite” of what you’d normally do, to periodically surprise people and have them see you in a new way.

It’s easy in life to fall into routines that don’t serve us.

The fastest way to change our game is to rattle our own cage and shake things up.

If you’re always late, try being early.

If you’re always slow, try changing your pace.

If you’re always fast, then try slowing down.

If you’re the person that always says, “No” to things, try saying more “Yes.”

If you always find what’s wrong with things, try finding what’s right.

If you lack your confidence, try strutting more of your stuff.

Doing the opposite of what you normally do, might lead to your next best breakthrough.

Worst case, you’ll learn more about you, you’ll learn more about balance, and you’ll put more options under your belt for how you show up or how you respond in life.

#45. Find Your Arena for Your Best Results

For 45 minutes, a violinist played his heart out in a subway station.   During that time, thousands of people walked by.   No applause.  No recognition.

Two days earlier, that same violinist, Joshua Bell, one of the world’s best musicians, sold out at a theater in Boston where the seats average $100.

In the one arena, nobody appreciated his performance.  Nobody expected the world’s best musician to be performing right there in front of them in a subway station.

Change the arena, and suddenly Bell’s world-class performance is recognized and rewarded.

As my one mentor put it to me, “Never measure your worth by the attention of people who are not paying attention.”

Sometimes you have to change your container.

You might be the world’s worst boxer, but the club’s best bouncer.

Maybe you’re a lousy novelist, but the word’s best children’s author.

Maybe you’re a second-rate teacher, but one of the world’s best entrepreneurs.

The ugly duckling wasn’t so ugly when he found out he was actually a Swan.

Don’t be a fish out of water.

When you’re in your element, it’s night and day.

#46. Root Yourself in Your Mission, Not Your Position

Jobs change.

Missions are durable.

If you lose your job, you can find other ways to live your mission.

For example, if my mission was to help people live healthier lives, but if, for whatever reason, I couldn’t be a doctor, I would find other ways.

#47. Live Without Regrets

Go for it.

“It is not the things we do in life that we regret on our death bed. It is the things we do not. Find your passion and follow it.” — Randy Pausch

Did I live, did I love, did I matter?” – Brendan Burchard

“Our lives are defined by opportunities, even the ones we miss.” — F. Scott Fitzgerald

“You get this one moment to regret all the things you said you’d do but never did, and then it’s over.  You die or you live.  If you live, the look in your eyes is never the same.” — Gabrielle Bouliane.

#48. Take the High Road

Don’t get sucked into other people’s drama.  Don’t get sucked into your own drama.  Don’t spiral down into name calling, and blaming.

Step away from it.

Seek higher ground.

Don’t get pulled down, or stoop to their level.

#49. Be Your Own CEO

Apply business skills to life.

Business can teach us a lot.  The most important thing they can teach us is how to be sustainable.  You can use the same tools that create a strong, sustainable business, to create a strong, sustainable life.

If you know your vision, mission, and values, you have a strong foundation.  Strategy skills teach us how to make the most of what we’ve got in terms of time and resources.   We can innovate in our lives to do things better, faster, cheaper, much the same way we innovate in business.   We can also reflect on and improve our performance in more objective ways, much the way a business does.

#50. Treat Work as Your Ultimate Form of Self-Expression

Work is a great place to show up how you want to be.

It’s your chance to make your soul sing.

It can be your ultimate dojo for personal development and your arena for your best results.

If you want to be an artist, do more art on the job.

You’re an individual with a unique set of strengths, weaknesses, and experiences. Maybe only your closest friends know your true strengths.

Maybe you don’t show your strengths at work.

Why not? No matter what the task is, you can leave your mark.

When you live your values on the job and you give your best where you have your best to give, you are operating at a higher level.

Your Habits Predict Your Future

Well, that’s my roundup of 50 of my best life hacks.  I hope they serve you well.

I’d like to leave you with a quote from William Arthur Ward:

“Our words reveal our thoughts; our manners mirror our self-esteem; our actions reflect our character; our habits predict the future.”

My Younger Self Series – Michelle

My Younger Self

My name is Michelle Paula Akute, an energy planner and engineer passionate about sustainable development and renewable energy. But long before the titles and responsibilities, I was simply a young girl trying to find her place in the world.

As a student at Alliance Girls High School, I believed that if I worked hard enough, everything would fall into place. What I did not realize was that hard work also comes with pressure — the pressure to perform, to excel, to never disappoint. I rarely gave myself permission to struggle openly.

Choosing Electrical and Electronic Engineering at the University of Nairobi was one of my earliest tests of courage. I walked into lecture halls where women were few, and expectations were high. I remember moments of doubt — quiet moments when I wondered if I truly belonged there. Engineering was demanding, and it stretched me intellectually and emotionally.

One lesson I learned early is that belonging is not about how many people look like you in a room. It is about knowing you have earned your seat at the table.

Self-doubt became another challenge. Even when I was doing well, there were times I questioned myself. Was I truly capable? Was I just lucky? Over time, I discovered that confidence is not something you wake up with one day. It is built slowly — through preparation, through persistence, and through choosing to show up even when you feel unsure.

When I pursued my Master’s degree at the University of Flensburg, I faced a different kind of stretching. Moving into an international academic environment pushed me beyond what was familiar. I had to adapt to new systems, new perspectives, and sometimes new ways of thinking. It was uncomfortable at times — but it expanded my vision. I began to see that energy planning was not just technical work; it was about communities, sustainability, and the future of our planet.

Returning home to work at Kenya Power and Lighting Company, I started quietly. I learned. I observed. I made mistakes. I grew. Leadership did not happen overnight. It developed gradually — through discipline, integrity, and consistency. I learned that preparation matters more than position, and that listening carefully can be more powerful than speaking loudly.

There were seasons when progress felt slow. Seasons when I felt the weight of responsibility. Seasons when balancing ambition and self-compassion was difficult. But every challenge taught me something valuable: resilience is built in the unseen moments.

Looking back, I realize I spent too much time worrying about whether I was enough. The truth is, growth is not dramatic. It is steady. It is quiet. It is built one decision at a time.

To the young person reading this — especially the young woman wondering if she belongs in science, engineering, leadership, or any space that feels intimidating — I want you to hear this clearly:

You belong.

You do not need to have everything figured out.

You do not need to be fearless.

You only need to take the next step with courage.

There will be challenges. There will be doubts. But those moments do not disqualify you — they develop you.

Trust your preparation.

Stay curious.

Stay grounded.

And most importantly, do not shrink yourself to fit into spaces that were never meant to limit you.

Your journey may feel uncertain now, but one day you will look back and realize that every challenge was shaping you for something meaningful.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Michelle Paula Akute

My Younger Self Series – Simiyu

“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better,”

My name is Job Simiyu, and this is the story of my younger self and the journey that has shaped who I am today.

I was born on 3rd September 2003 in a small village called Menu, in Bungoma County, Kenya. I grew up as the only son of Patrick Simiyu and Agnes Khaemba, surrounded by eight sisters. Being the only boy in a large family placed responsibility on me from a very young age. Even as a child, I understood that much was expected of me.

My father was, and still is, a peasant farmer who depended on small-scale farming to provide for our family. Life was difficult, but my parents tried their best with the little they had. However, in 2007, when I was still very young, my life changed completely. My mother became seriously ill and was eventually paralysed. From that moment, my childhood took a different direction.

As a young boy, watching my mother lose her strength and ability to work was deeply painful. Our home was filled with worry and uncertainty. Medical needs increased, yet our family income remained very low. I watched my father struggle every day in the farm, trying to care for my paralysed wife and provide for his children. Even though I was young and did not fully understand everything, I felt the fear, pain, and heaviness in our home.

My Education Journey

I began my primary education in 2007 at Chwele Boys Primary School, where I studied until 2019. My younger self faced many educational challenges. There were frequent times when school fees could not be paid, uniforms were missing, and basic learning materials were unavailable. I was often sent home because of fees, and those moments were painful and embarrassing, especially when I saw other children continuing with their studies without interruption.

Despite all this, my younger self refused to give up. I knew, even then, that education was my only hope of changing my life and helping my family in the future. I studied whenever I got the chance and learned patience during times of hardship.

In 2020, I joined Kaptanai High School, where I studied until 2023. Secondary school life was even more challenging. Fees were higher, my mother was still paralysed, and my father’s farming income was not enough to meet our needs. Many times, I felt overwhelmed and close to giving up, but I reminded myself of how far I had already come and why I started.

Through resilience, discipline, and determination, I managed to complete my secondary education and passed my Form Four. For my younger self, completing Form Four was not just an academic achievement—it was a victory over hardship and despair.

Faith and Values

From a young age, my faith in God became my strongest foundation. I grew up as a God-fearing person, and prayer became my refuge whenever life felt too heavy. My younger self learned to depend on God for strength, hope, and direction.

Because of the struggles I faced while growing up, I developed strong values early in life. I learned the importance of honesty, humility, hard work, patience, perseverance, respect, and responsibility. These values continue to guide me today.

Life After Form Four

After completing Form Four in 2023, I hoped to continue with college education. Unfortunately, financial challenges made this impossible at the time. This was very painful, especially because education had always been my dream. However, my younger self had already learned not to give up easily.

Instead of losing hope, I chose to remain patient and determined. I believe that education and success are journeys, not one-time events. I continue to trust in God, work hard, and seek opportunities that will help me grow and support my family.

Conclusion

From 2007, when my mother became paralysed, to the day I completed Form Four, my younger self walked a path filled with pain, struggle, faith, and perseverance. Life was not easy, but I remained resilient and focused.

My story reminds me that where I come from does not define where I am going. Through faith, determination, and strong values, I believe I will succeed.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Job Simiyu

My Younger Self Series – Herbert

“One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again.”

I was born in Chewangoi, Mt. Elgon, but life did not allow me to grow up where I was born. I found myself in Chepkube, at my grandmother’s home, where my childhood truly began.

My school journey started at Kamosong Primary School, and it was never easy. My grandmother was old and a widow, struggling to provide even the basics, including school fees. Life was hard. We were five grandchildren, and we went through a lot of suffering. We were beaten brutally by our uncles, chased out of the house at night, and forced to do hard labor while still very young.

What hurt me most was not knowing where my parents were. I was abused, yet no one ever told me where my mother or father was. Deep inside, I knew I had a home somewhere, but I didn’t know where it was. Because of that, I endured all kinds of pain and torture. Eventually, my cousins could not take it anymore—some girls got married as early as 15 years old, while the boys ran away to look for work. I stayed behind because of one thing: school.

From nursery to Class Eight, the journey was extremely tough, but God gave me strength. When KCPE results were released, I performed well. My marks opened doors to many big secondary schools—something I had always dreamed of. Sadly, that dream did not come true.

After the results, my grandmother took me to the place she said was my real home. I was very happy, believing I would finally meet my parents for the first time. But my happiness did not last long. When I arrived, I was told that no one knew where my father was.

Still, God did not abandon me. My father’s brother and his family accepted me and treated me like their own child. For the first time, I felt peace and happiness. I will always be grateful. May God bless them.

My secondary education began at Kabkara Secondary School, where I completed four years. Life there had ups and downs, but I managed. After that, I joined Matili College, but due to lack of fees, I was forced to stop my studies.

I then decided to look for a job, and that decision brought me to Nairobi, where I live to this day.

Dear my younger self, I want you to know this: life will test you in ways you never imagined, but do not give up. When you are alive, accept to go through thick and thin. One day, God will lift you from grass to grace. Keep believing. Your story is still being written.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Herbert Chemiat

My Younger Self Series – Stellah

Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time

Dear Younger Stellah,

I know you may not understand it now, but every challenge you are facing is shaping you into a strong, resilient, and purposeful woman. One day, you will look back and realize that the girl who walked the dusty paths to Mabuusi Primary School carried within her a destiny far greater than she could imagine.

You will grow up in a world where expectations sometimes outweigh opportunities, but you will not be defined by your surroundings. You will be defined by your determination, your discipline, and your faith. You will learn early that education is not just a requirement — it is your ladder. And you will climb it, rung by rung, even when it feels heavy.

You will work harder than many, sacrificing sleep and comfort to study, prepare lessons, and mentor others. At times, you will doubt whether your journey is worth it. But hold on — because soon, you will step into classrooms not as a student, but as a teacher. You will stand in front of young minds who will look at you with hope, trust, and admiration. And you will teach them, guide them, and inspire them just as you once wished someone would inspire you.

You will walk into Marist International University College with dreams and walk out on 24th October 2025 with a degree in your hands — a symbol of your persistence and courage. You will teach in junior academies, boys’ schools, and girls’ high schools, touching lives and shaping futures.

Younger Stellah, you will discover that your heart beats for mentorship. You will realize that helping young people find direction brings you joy, and reading and writing become your quiet sanctuary. You will become a woman who speaks confidently, who manages classrooms with respect, who plans lessons with passion, and who collaborates with colleagues with grace.

Life will not always be easy. But you will survive. You will rise.
And one day, you will become a woman that younger you would be proud of.

So hold your head high, little one.
Your journey has just begun — and it is beautiful.

With love and gratitude,
Your future self,
Wabomba N. Stellah

My Younger Self Series –  Edwin

My name is Edwin Kirui Tekei, the second-born in a family of nine siblings. I grew up in a humble home where love and hard work were the roots of everything we did. My father worked as a plumber, often moving from one place to another looking for jobs, while my mother is a mama mboga who sells vegetables at our home village market. They have always done their best to provide for us, even when times were tough.

From a young age, I dreamed of becoming a land surveyor. I was fascinated by how land is measured and mapped, and I wanted to help in developing better communities. Unfortunately, due to financial constraints, I couldn’t pursue that dream. It was painful at first, but I learned to accept that sometimes life leads us in different directions.

With time, I developed a new passion — teaching. I came to realize that being a teacher is not just a job; it’s a calling. Teaching gives me a chance to guide, inspire, and shape young minds. It’s a noble profession, and I believe through it, I can make a real difference in society.

Life hasn’t been easy. One of the biggest challenges I’ve faced is lack of connections and opportunities. Sometimes, even when you work hard, progress seems slow because of who you know or don’t know. But I’ve learned an important lesson — to stay optimistic, patient, and focused. I’ve also discovered that farming can be a strong foundation for the future. It keeps me grounded and gives me hope that success can grow from the soil, just like a seed.

I believe that every struggle is a lesson, and every setback is preparing me for something better. My dream now is to keep learning, keep growing, and keep moving forward — no matter how hard life gets.

Love,

Your Future Self – Tr. Edwin Kirui Tekei

My Younger Self Series –  Abdikadir

My name is Abdikadir Sharif Mohamed. I grew up during a time when my country was torn apart by civil war, which forced many families to constantly move in search of safety. For years I was separated from my parents, yet I never abandoned my education. Wherever I went, I continued my studies until I completed the Qur’an. Later, my family and I returned to the capital, where I resumed my studies; this time I entered high school.

My dream was to study abroad. I left Somalia for Uganda, where I encountered people from diverse backgrounds, both in terms of language and culture. Soon after, the COVID-19 started, and then government closed educational places and my progress toward start university stops there. I then moved to Kenya, planning a journey that would eventually take me to the United States, but unluckily, it couldn’t get approved. After two and a half years, I returned to Somalia, feeling that I had lost so much time.

However, I was never become alone—my mother constantly encouraged me to never give up. With her support, I decided to restart my education inside Somalia and enrolled at Jamhuriya University. At first, it was very difficult, especially when I saw my old classmates already in their final year of university. For two weeks I stayed home, overwhelmed by discouragement. But one morning I decided to return to the university, and that decision changed my life.

I slowly adapted to university life, I took on various roles within the IT student union, and in my third year I became president of student union. I also served as an assistant lecturer, teaching several subjects and working alongside different lecturers.

Since childhood, I have always loved playing and watching football, and I have also been deeply passionate about playing video games.

If I could give one piece of advice to the next generation, it would be Don’t compare yourself to others. also Change the plan but never change the goal.

Love,

Your Future Self

My Younger Self Series – Abdullahi

Dear Abdullahi,

You may not realize it now, but you came into this world in Mogadishu in 1996, at a time when the air was heavy with war and uncertainty. carrying the weight of responsibility without always having a voice. Life tested you early, but what you didn’t know then is that those very struggles were shaping the resilience, discipline, and strength that would one day define you.

I remember my childhood struggles. I trembled whenever I had to speak in front of people. I often failed to complete my assignments on time, not because I lacked ability, but because I hadn’t learned discipline or time management. I relied only on memorization, thinking it would be enough. It wasn’t. That mistake taught me my first big lesson: planning and consistency matter just as much as knowledge.

I remember my teenage years too. I was blessed with friends who motivated me, but I also chose others who pulled me away from my goals. I wasted time on football and social media. I studied only to pass, never striving for excellence. Yes, people respected me, and I respected them, but I missed out on opportunities to shine. That’s when I learned the people around you can either elevate your growth or anchor you to the ground.

University became my turning point. I transformed my mindset and committed myself fully to learning. I worked hard, discovered new skills, and pushed myself to compete for top positions. I won awards, built confidence, and proved to myself that determination can change the direction of an entire life.

After graduation, I was fortunate to find work quickly. At my job, I built a reputation for integrity, punctuality, and dedication. Colleagues respected me, and I earned promotions not only in position but also financially. Each step forward reminded me of the lesson I now carry everywhere: discipline, respect, and hard work always open doors.

Looking back, I see that my life has been a journey of mistakes, lessons, and transformation. Childhood taught me discipline. My teenage years taught me to choose wisely. University taught me focus. And adulthood taught me the power of consistency.

With gratitude and strength.
Your Future Self Abdullahi.

My Younger Self Series – Hani

You’re going to fall down, sometimes it will hurt, but get back up.

Dear Younger Self

When I was a child, around the age of 10 years. I attended a Quran school. After completing my Quran studies, I enrolled in a literacy centre where I learned mathematics and how to write in the Somali language. Once I had gained those basic skills, I joined a primary school named Khadija Model where I started grade 3.

I continued my studies there until middle school. Later I transferred to another school where I completed my secondary education.

At home, I enjoyed helping my mother with household chores and also used to work in a small family owned shop. I was always passionate about my education and worked hard to achieve good academic results.

The biggest mistake I made during my childhood was being late to school sometimes, so late that I would be denied entry. This let to me missing important lessons and educational opportunities. This could have helped shape my future. I also wasted a lot of time on games and meaningless conversations instead of focusing on my dreams and education.

What I have learned is that education is the key to life. If you want to achieve great things, you must be persistent, responsible and patient in the face of small challenges. Today, I realize how much valuable time I wasted and this is one of the biggest mistakes I made.

To little Hani, I say whatever happens, be patient, keep learning and remind yourself every day that you are building your future. If you make a mistake, know that it can be corrected. Just don’t repeat again. Don’t be afraid to ask for help and never see education as a burden. See it instead as a golden opportunity.

As I grow older, I dreamt of studying business administration at university so that I could become a successful businesswoman. I also planned to pursue a master’s degree and eventually open my own shoes company where I would brand the shoes with my name – something like – Hani Company.

My Younger Self Series –  Fathi

As I reflect on the time when I was young, with an open heart and boundless dreams – I write to you this letter to remind you of the value of time, the importance of patience and the wisdom found in mistakes.

These will be moments when I feel lost, fearful of the future and unsure of myself. But know this, all of it is part of my growth. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. I might fail, but each failure is a lesson. What I feel today does not define who I will become tomorrow.

Always remember to stay true to yourself. Don’t bend over backward to please others at the cost of forgetting who you are. Be kind to yourself and never compare your journey to someone else’s. Everyone has their own timing, their own tests and their own unique path.

Please keep dreaming, reading, learning and surrounding yourself with good people. Don’t be discouraged by obstacles – they are temporary and you are stronger than you think. Time will pass and you will grow beautifully into someone who finally understands herself.

Whatever lies ahead, you will overcome it with honesty, faith and consistent effort. You are worthy of love, success and every beautiful thing coming your way.

Keep moving forward with courage in your heart.

Love,

Your Future Self.

My Younger Self Series – Leila

Dear Past Self,

My name is Leila Abdiaziz Mohamed, a young woman born, raised, educated, and now working in my beloved home country — Somalia.

Of course, if I were to speak about my childhood experiences, I couldn’t possibly sum it all up here. My story is vast and layered. But one thing has always remained true: I have a strong spirit — a heart that never turns away from challenges, and a mind that stays focused on its purpose, no matter what comes my way.

I vividly remember those mornings when I’d leave the house for school, and the people sitting outside would call out to me:

“Don’t you ever finish school?”

And yet, I kept going. Because to achieve success, I knew I had to be prepared to endure whatever life threw at me. And I did. Some of the dreams I had back then, I’ve already achieved. And the rest? I still hold hope that they’ll come to life in the days and years ahead.

Alhamdulillah, Allah blessed me with the most wonderful parents and siblings anyone could ask for — always by my side, cheering me on. I owe special gratitude to my dear mother, Shamsa Mohamed Ali, and my father, Abdiaziz Mohamed Abdi. I love you both deeply. I can never forget our eldest, Dr. Zahra Abdiaziz Hamash — your encouragement has always been my fuel, both in the past and for the journey still ahead.

Today, I am a university lecturer. The opportunity to teach has shaped me, strengthened me, and helped me build the kind of patience and character I need to pursue the life I want. I’ve faced my share of challenges, including hearing comments like:

“You’re just a girl — what are you learning all this for?”

But those words never broke me. They never changed my goals.

As a young girl, I had a deep love for education. I wanted to go far. I wanted to become the kind of woman that other girls could look up to. And by the mercy of Allah, I’ve become that woman. My dreams didn’t stay dreams — they became my reality.

I’ve always loved swimming, reading, watching movies, and spending time with people I can learn from — people whose experience adds value to my own. If there’s one piece of advice I’d offer anyone chasing their goals, it’s this: be patient. Let no challenge distract you from your purpose. Keep going, no matter how hard the road may seem.

And lastly, I want to give special thanks to my cousin, my big sister, and my closest friend — Maryan Ibrahim Garcade. You’ve been my strength, my support, and my safe place. I love you, dear sister. Thank you for being by my side — in every way, always.

With love and gratitude,

Leila Abdiaziz Mohamed

My Younger Self Series – Maryama

My name is Maryama. I am a girl who grew up in a comfortable life compared to the children of my own age. Our family consisted of a mother, father and five children. I am the eldest in our family.

If I look back on the sweet life of my childhood, it was a life with a special meaning. As Maryama, I grew up the way girls of my own age were raised with the loving care of both my parents.

If I reflect on my educational background, in Somalia we have a tradition of sending children to Quranic school when they are old enough to understand and speak. When I finished the Quran school, I was sent to the primary school. I still remember that special day, starting school in the third grade.

My academic journey has brought me countless memories. I have met friends who have always been my friends and we have learned together. Also, in my life journey, I have make friends who have shared life with me. We have made friends at every stage. In the environment where I grew up, I had girls who I can never forget their games, stories, laughter and wise advice.

Similarly, in the Quranic school stage, I made friends with various girls and boys who have shaped my academic life in different ways. I was fortunate to have met students who will never leave my heart and have become true friends.

A special memory from when I was little being the time when my little sister – Maida, joined the family. A sad memory was when me and some of my classmates were attacked on the street by thieves who wanted to steal our mobile phones.

My childhood memories were too many to mention, most being more than just personal stories.

Love,

Your Future Self.

Personal Development Series … Great Personal Development Quotes

Personal development is the process of achieving and expanding your full potential.
I’ve created a collection of some of the most empowering personal development quotes of all time.
The gang’s all here … Covey, Emerson, Robbins, Ziglar, and more. It’s a cornucopia of personal development wisdom at your fingertips.
You are your best investment.
After all, you take you with you wherever you go. Whether you are growing greater at your strengths, reducing your liabilities, or expanding what you are capable of, personal development is a path.
It’s a path of personal greatness, and a way to be YOUR best.
Explore and Expand What You’re Capable Of
What are the key patterns we see when we look across these personal development quotes?
Personal development is a journey, not a destination.
Dream big, develop yourself, unleash your potential, play well with others, play to your strengths, enjoy the process, share your unique gifts with the world, and grow your greatness by testing yourself, expanding yourself, learning and improving.
Personal Development Themes
I’ve organized the personal development quotes into some key themes:
Character, Effectiveness, Emotional Intelligence, Empowerment, Influence and Impact, Learning and Growth, Productivity, Self-Awareness, Strengths, and Thinking.
There are lots of ways to slice and dice it, but I found this set to be particularly effective for both filtering and synthesizing personal development quotes.
One of the best ways to use this collection is to find three quotes you can use that either inspire you or empower you in some new way.
Top 10 Greatest Personal Development Quotes

  1. “Absorb what is useful, Discard what is not, Add what is uniquely your own.” — Bruce Lee
  2. “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” — Viktor Frankl
  3. “Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” — George Bernard Shaw
  4. “The only journey is the journey within.” — Rainer Maria Rilke
  5. “They must often change who would be constant in happiness or wisdom.” – Confucius
  6. “We must become the change we want to see.” — Mahatma Gandhi
  7. “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.” — Will Durant
  8. “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  9. “What we think, we become.” – Buddha
  10. “Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” — Napoleon Hill
    Personal Development Quotes on Character
    “A good criterion for measuring success in life is the number of people you have made happy.”
    — Robert J. Lumsden
    “A good heart is better than all the heads in the world.”
    — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
    “A man who finds no satisfaction in himself will seek for it in vain elsewhere.”
    — La Rochefoucauld
    “Ability may take you to the top, but it takes character to stay there.”
    — William Blake
    “Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Be humble always and identify with the common man; even when success and achievements want to make you proud.”
    — Bishop Leonard Umumna
    “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”
    — Dr. Seuss
    “Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved.”
    — Helen Keller
    “Everybody wants to be somebody; nobody wants to grow.”
    — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
    “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.”
    — Reinhold H. Niebuhr
    “I do not think there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance. It overcomes almost everything, even nature.”
    — John D. Rockefeller
    “I don’t have to be what nobody else wants me to be and I am not afraid to be what I want to be.”
    — Muhammad Ali
    “I praise loudly; I blame softly.”
    — Queen Catherine II
    “I studied the lives of great men and women, and I found that the men and women who got to the top were those who did the jobs they had in hand, with everything they had of energy and enthusiasm and hard work.”
    — Harry S. Truman
    “I will speak ill of no one and speak all the good I know of everybody.”
    — Andrew Jackson
    “Insist on yourself.
    Never imitate.”
    — Ralph Waldo Emerson
    “It is your attitude, not your aptitude, that determines your altitude.”
    — Zig Ziglar
    “I’ve never seen a monument erected to a pessimist.”
    — Paul Harvey
    “Knowledge will give you power, but character respect.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want.”
    — Jim Rohn
    “Let this be the criteria by which you measure all things: Is this an act of love?”
    – Unknown
    “Optimists are right. So are pessimists. It’s up to you to choose which you will be.”
    — Harvey Mackay
    “People tend to think that happiness is a stroke of luck, something that will descend like fine weather if you’re fortunate.
    But happiness is the result of personal effort.
    You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it.
    You have to participate relentlessly.”
    — Elizabeth Gilbert
    “The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will.”
    — Vince Lombardi
    “The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.”
    — Jimmy Johnson
    “The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows it under his feet.”
    – James Oppenheim
    “The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.”
    — William Arthur Ward
    “The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions.”
    – Confucius
    “The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges.”
    — Martin Luther King Jr.
    “The way to gain a good reputation, is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear.”
    – Socrates
    “What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others.”
    – Confucius
    “We are what we frequently do.”
    – Aristotle
    “We first make our habits, and then our habits make us.”
    — John Dryden
    “What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.”
    – Confucius
    “What you habitually think largely determines what you will ultimately become.”
    — Bruce Lee
    Personal Development Quotes on Effectiveness
    “All fixed set patterns are incapable of adaptability or pliability.
    The truth is outside of all fixed patterns.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Be like water making its way through cracks.
    Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way round or through it.
    If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.”
    — Benjamin Franklin
    “Fear less, hope more, eat less, chew more, whine less, breathe more, talk less, say more, hate less, love more, and good things will be yours.”
    — Swedish Proverb
    “For it matters not how small the beginning may seem to be.
    What is once well done, is well done forever.”
    — Henry David Thoreau
    “Forget yourself and start to work.”
    — Gordon B. Hinckley
    “Fortunate is the person who has developed the self-control to steer a straight course towards his objectives in life, without being swayed from his purpose by either commendation or condemnation.”
    — Napoleon Hill
    “He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much.”
    — Bessie Anderson Stanley
    “In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins, not through strength, but through persistence.”
    – Buddha
    “Life is a series of problem-solving opportunities.
    The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you depending on how you respond to them.”
    — Rick Warren
    “People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing.”
    — Dale Carnegie
    “Put your heart, mind, intellect, and soul even to your smallest acts.
    This is the secret of success.”
    — Swami Sivandanda
    “Striving for success without hard work is like trying to harvest where you haven’t planted.”
    — David Bly
    “Success is doing ordinary things extraordinary well.”
    — Jim Rohn
    “Success is every minute you live. It’s the process of living.
    It’s stopping for the moments of beauty, of pleasure; the moments of peace.
    Success is not a destination that you ever reach.
    Success is the quality of the journey.”
    — Jennifer James
    “Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.”
    — Winston Churchill
    “Success is not measured by what a man accomplished, but by the opposition he has encountered and the courage with which he has maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.”
    – Charles Lindberg
    “Success is not so much what we have, as it is what we are.”
    — Jim Rohn
    “Success is not the key to happiness.
    Happiness is the key to success.
    If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.”
    — Albert Schweitzer
    “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become.”
    — Jim Rohn
    “Success is the sum of small efforts repeated day in and day out.”
    — Robert Collier
    “Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome while trying to succeed.”
    — Booker T. Washington
    “Success it the progressive realization of worthwhile, predetermined, personal goals.”
    — Paul J. Meyer
    “Success often comes to those who dare to act. It seldom goes to the timid who are ever afraid of the consequences.”
    — Jawaharlal Nehru
    “Successful and unsuccessful people do not vary greatly in their abilities.
    They vary in their desire to reach their potential.”
    — John Maxwell
    “Successful leaders see the opportunities in every difficulty rather than the difficulty in every opportunity.”
    — Reed Markham
    “The best rules to form a young man are: to talk little, to hear much, to reflect alone upon what has passed in company, to distrust one’s own opinions, and value others that deserve it.”
    — Sir William Temple
    “The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”
    — Steven Covey
    “The man who will use his skill and constructive imagination to see how much he can give for a dollar, instead of how little he can give for a dollar, is bound to succeed.”
    — Henry Ford
    “The secret of success is consistency of purpose.”
    — Benjamin Disraeli
    “The test of a successful person is not an ability to eliminate all problems before they arise, but to meet and work out difficulties when they do arise.
    We must be willing to make an intelligent compromise with perfection lest we wait forever before taking action.
    It is still good advice to cross bridges when we come to them.”
    — David Schwartz
    “There is only one way to succeed in anything, and that is to give it everything.”
    — Vince Lombardi
    “To be successful, you must decide exactly what you want to accomplish, then resolve to pay the price to get it.”
    — Bunker Hunt
    Personal Development Quotes on Emotional Intelligence
    “Don’t let the negativity given to you by the world disempower you.
    Instead give to yourself that which empowers you.”
    — Les Brown
    “Energy and persistence conquer all things.”
    — Benjamin Franklin
    “Enthusiasm is the steam that drives the engine.”
    — Napoleon Hill
    “Enthusiasm spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment.”
    — Norman Vincent Peale
    “Flaming enthusiasm, backed by horse-sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success.”
    — Dale Carnegie
    “Nothing is so contagious as enthusiasm.
    It moves stones, it charms brutes.
    Enthusiasm is the genius of sincerity, and truth accomplishes no victories without it.”
    — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
    “People often say that motivation doesn’t last.
    Well, neither does bathing … that’s why we recommend it daily.”
    — Zig Ziglar
    Personal Development Quotes on Empowerment
    “Action is the foundational key to all success.”
    — Tony Robins
    “Always bear in mind that our own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing.”
    — Abraham Lincoln
    “Anything in life worth having is worth working for.”
    — Andrew Carnegie
    “Do, or do not. There is no try.”
    – Yoda
    “Do not be tense, just be ready, not thinking but not dreaming, not being set but being flexible.
    It is being ‘wholly’ and quietly alive, aware and alert, ready for whatever may come.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
    — Ralph Waldo Emerson
    “Don’t be afraid your life will end; be afraid that it will never begin.”
    — Grace Hansen
    “Don’t dream it. Be it!”
    — Richard O’Brian
    “Follow your bliss!”
    — Joseph Campbell
    “Follow your honest convictions, and stay strong.”
    — William Thackeray
    “For every mountain there is a miracle.”
    — Robert H. Schuller
    “I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul.”
    — William Ernest Henley
    “I don’t count the days, I make the days count!”
    — Muhammad Ali
    “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”
    — Henry David Thorough
    “If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else. It will spread into your work and into your life.
    There are no limits.
    There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “If you are going through hell, keep going.”
    — Winston Churchill
    “If you can imagine it, you can create it.
    If you can dream it, you can become it.”
    — William Arthur Ward
    “If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it.
    If you don’t ask, the answer is always no.
    If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.”
    — Nora Roberts
    “In life, as in a football game, the principle to follow is: Hit the line hard.”
    — Theodore Roosevelt
    “It does not matter how slowly you go so long as you do not stop.”
    – Confucius
    “It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.”
    – Seneca
    “It takes a strong fish to swim against the current. Even a dead one can float with it.”
    — John Crowe
    “Kites rise highest against the wind – not with it.”
    — Winston Churchill
    “Knowledge without follow-through is worse than no knowledge.”
    — Henry Charles Bukowski
    “Leap and the net will appear.”
    — Julia Cameron
    “Live out your imagination, not your history.”
    — Stephen Covey
    “May you live all the days of your life.”
    — Jonathan Swift
    “Never be afraid to tread the path alone. Know which is your path and follow it wherever it may lead you; do not feel you have to follow in someone else’s footsteps.”
    — Eileen Caddy
    “People are always blaming circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances.
    The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want and if they can’t find them, make them.”
    — George Bernard Shaw
    “The history of the world is the history of a few people who had faith in themselves.”
    — Swami Vivekananda
    “The man who moved a mountain was the one who began carrying away small stones.”
    — Chinese Proverb
    “The secret of success is to be ready when your opportunity comes.”
    — Benjamin
    “There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.”
    — Denis Waitley
    “To hell with circumstances; I create opportunities.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “To move the world, we must first move ourselves.”
    – Socrates
    “We will either find a way or make one.”
    – Hannibal
    “Whatever you vividly imagine, ardently desire, sincerely believe, and enthusiastically act upon must inevitably come to pass.”
    — Paul J. Meyer
    Personal Development Quotes on Influence and Impact
    “Dependent people need others to get what they want.
    Independent people can get what they want through their own efforts.
    Interdependent people combine their own efforts with the efforts of others to achieve their greatest success.”
    — Stephen Covey
    “It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed.”
    — Napoleon Hill
    “Keep away from small people who try to belittle your ambitions.
    Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you too can become great.”
    — Mark Twain
    “Many hands and hearts and minds generally contribute to anyone’s notable achievements.”
    — Walt Disney
    “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.”
    — Oprah Winfrey
    “Try to forget yourself in the service of others.
    For when we think too much of ourselves and our own interests, we easily become despondent.
    But when we work for others, our efforts return to bless us.”
    — Sidney Powell
    “Virtue is not left to stand alone.
    He who practices it will have neighbors.”
    — Confucius
    Personal Development Quotes on Learning and Growth
    “A master lives in the world of transformation, not the world of loss and gain.”
    — Dr. John Demartini
    “Be not afraid of growing slowly; be afraid only of standing still.”
    — Chinese Proverb
    “Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one.”
    — Chinese Proverb
    “Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life.”
    — Herbert Otto
    “Collect as precious pearls the words of the wise and virtuous.”
    – Abd El-Kader
    “Develop success from failures.
    Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.”
    — Dale Carnegie
    “Do not despise the bottom rungs in the ascent to greatness.”
    – Publilius Syrus
    “Don’t fear failure. Not failure, but low aim, is the crime.
    In great attempts it is glorious even to fail.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Don’t let the fear of striking out hold you back.”
    — Babe Ruth
    “Each problem that I solved became a rule which served afterwards to solve other problems.”
    — Rene Descartes
    “Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed on an equal or greater benefit.”
    — Napoleon Hill
    “Every day do something that will inch you closer to a better tomorrow.”
    — Doug Firebaugh
    “He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.”
    — Muhammad Ali
    “I don’t measure a man’s success by how high he climbs but how high he bounces when he hits bottom.”
    — George Patton
    “I like a state of continual becoming, with a goal in front and not behind.”
    — George Bernard Shaw
    “If we do not plant knowledge when young, it will give us no shade when we are old.”
    — Lord Chesterfield
    “If you aren’t making any mistakes, it’s a sure sign you’re playing it too safe.”
    — John Maxwell
    “If you learn only methods, you’ll be tied to your methods, but if you learn principles, you can devise your own methods.”
    — Ralph Waldo Emerson
    “If you want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate.”
    — Thomas Watson, Sr
    “In order to succeed you must fail so that you know what not to do the next time.”
    — Anthony J. D’Angelo
    “It is true that the mental aspect of kung-fu is the desired end; however, to achieve this end, technical skill must come first.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “It is wise to keep in mind that neither success nor failure is ever final.”
    — Roger Babson
    “I’ve always tried to go one step past wherever people expected me to end up.”
    — Beverly Sills
    “Never walk away from failure. On the contrary, study it carefully and imaginatively for its hidden assets.”
    — Michael Korda
    “Only those who risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”
    — T.S. Eliot
    “Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do.”
    – Confucius
    “Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors.”
    — African Proverb
    “So go ahead and make mistakes.
    Make all you can.
    Because that’s where you will find success.
    On the far side of failure.”
    — Thomas J.Watson, Sr.
    “Success is a journey, not a destination.”
    — Ben Sweetland
    “That which does not kill us makes us stronger.”
    — Friedrich Nietzsche
    “The fact is, that to do anything in the world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in and scramble through as well as we can.”
    — Robert Cushing
    “The highest reward for one’s toil is not what one gets for it, but what one becomes by it.”
    — John Ruskin
    “The men who try to do something and fail are infinitely better than those who try to do nothing and succeed.”
    — Lloyd Jones
    “The real voyage of discovery consists of not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.”
    – Proust
    “The successful man will profit from his mistakes and try again in a different way.”
    — Dale Carnegie
    “There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.”
    — Colin Powell
    “There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth — not going all the way, and not starting.”
    – African Proverb
    “Those at the top of the mountain didn’t fall there.”
    — Marcus Washling
    “To climb steep hills requires a slow pace at first.”
    – Shakespeare
    “To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom.”
    — Bertrand Russell
    “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.”
    — Mark Twain
    “Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.”
    — Ronald Osborn
    “We learn wisdom from failure much more than from success; we often discover what will do, by finding out what will not do; and probably he who never makes a mistake never made a discovery.”
    — Samuel Smiles
    “We must never be afraid to go too far, for success lies just beyond.”
    — Marcel Proust
    “We only become what we are by the radical and deep-seated refusal of that which others have made of us.”
    — Jean-Paul Sartre
    “What would you attempt to do if you knew you would not fail?”
    — Robert Schuller
    Personal Development Quotes on Productivity
    “A goal is not always meant to be reached; it often serves simply as something to aim at.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Art calls for complete mastery of techniques, developed by reflection within the soul.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “For anything worth having one must pay the price; and the price is always work, patience, love, self-sacrifice.
    No paper currency, no promises to pay, but the gold of real service.”
    — John Burroughs
    “Great works are performed not by strength but by perseverance.”
    — Samuel Johnson
    “If you don’t have daily objectives, you qualify as a dreamer.”
    — Zig Ziglar
    “If you go to work on your goals, your goals will go to work on you.
    If you go to work on your plan, your plan will go to work on you.
    Whatever good things we build end up building us.”
    — Jim Rohn
    “If you want to be happy, set a goal that commands your thoughts, liberates your energy, and inspires your hopes.”
    — Andrew Carnegie
    “It’s not the daily increase but daily decrease.
    Hack away at the unessential.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Make a success of living by seeing the goal and aiming for it unswervingly.”
    — Cecil B. De Mille
    “Motivation is what gets you started.
    Habit is what keeps you going!”
    — Jim Ryun
    “Never let your work drive you.
    Master it and keep it in complete control.”
    — Booker T. Washington
    “No one ever attains very eminent success by simply doing what is required of him; it is the amount and excellence of what is over and above the required that determines the greatness of ultimate distinction.”
    — Charles Kendall Adams
    “Nothing ever comes to one that is worth having except as a result of hard work.”
    — Booker T. Washington
    “Obstacles are those frightful things you can see when you take your eyes off your goal.”
    — Henry Ford
    “One must have strategies to execute dreams.”
    — Azim Premji
    “People with goals succeed because they know where they’re going.”
    — Earl Nightingale
    “Perpetual optimism is a force multiplier.”
    — Colin Powell
    “Sometimes our best is simply not enough.
    We have to do what is required.”
    — Winston Churchill
    “Success equals goals … all else is commentary.”
    — Brian Tracy
    “Success is 20% skills and 80% strategy.
    You might know how to read, but more importantly, what’s your plan to read?”
    — Jim Rohn
    “The bad news is time flies.
    The good news is you’re the pilot.”
    — Michael Althsuler
    “The merit in action lies in finishing it to the end.”
    — Genghis Khan
    “The path to success is to take massive determined action.”
    — Anthony Robbins
    “The question for each man to settle is not what he would do if he had means, time, influence, and educational advantages, but what he will do with the things he has.”
    — Hamilton Wright Mabie
    “The reward of a thing well done is to have done it.”
    — Ralph Waldo Emerson
    “The seat of freedom is reserved for the man who lives by his own work, and in that work, does what he wants to do.”
    — George Robin Collingwood
    “Unless you are willing to drench yourself in your work beyond the capacity of the average man, you are just not cut out for positions at the top.”
    — J.C. Penny
    “We are either progressing or retrograding all the while; there is no such thing as remaining stationary in this life.”
    — James Freeman Clarke
    “What we hope to do with ease, we must learn first to do with diligence.”
    — Samuel Johnson
    Personal Development Quotes on Self-Awareness
    “After all, all knowledge simply means self-knowledge.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Fear comes from uncertainty; we can eliminate the fear within us when we know ourselves better.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Heed the still small voice that so seldom leads us wrong, and never into folly.”
    — Marquise du Deffand
    “In learning to know other things, and other minds, we become more intimately acquainted with ourselves, and are to ourselves better worth knowing.”
    — Philip Gilbert Hamilton
    “Know thyself means this, that you get acquainted with what you know, and what you can do.”
    – Menander
    “Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.”
    – Aristotle
    “Make it thy business to know thyself, which is the most difficult lesson in the world.”
    — Miguel de Cervantes
    “No one can see their reflection in running water.
    It is only in still water that we can see.”
    — Taoist Proverb
    “Our business in life is not to get ahead of others, but to get ahead of ourselves.”
    — Zig Ziglar
    “Pay no attention to what the critics say; no statue has ever been erected to a critic.”
    — Jean Sibelius
    “The easiest person to deceive is one’s own self.”
    — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
    “The most difficult thing in life is to know yourself.”
    – Thales
    “The only journey is the journey within.”
    — Rainer Maria Rilke
    “To become different from what we are, we must have some awareness of what we are.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “To conquer oneself is the best and noblest victory; to be vanquished by one’s own nature is the worst and most ignoble defeat.”
    – Plato
    “To know oneself is to study oneself in action with another person.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “We see the world, not as it is, but as we are.”
    – Talmud
    “When you know yourself and your opponent, you will win every time.
    When you know yourself but not your opponent, you will win one and lose one.
    However, when you do not know yourself or your opponent, you will be imperiled every time.”
    — Sun Tzu
    “What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself.”
    — Hecato
    Personal Development Quotes on Strengths
    “Exert your talents, and distinguish yourself, and don’t think of retiring from the world, until the world will be sorry that you retire.”
    — Samuel Johnson
    “I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate.”
    — George Burns
    “I learned that the only way you are going to get anywhere in life is to work hard at it.
    Whether you’re a musician, a writer, an athlete or a businessman, there is no getting around it.
    If you do, you’ll win — if you don’t you won’t.”
    — Bruce Jenner
    “I refer to my hands, feet and body as the tools of the trade.
    The hands and feet must be sharpened and improved daily to be efficient.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “If we all did the things we are capable of, we would astound ourselves.”
    — Thomas Edison
    “It’s not that I’m so smart; it’s just that I stay with problems longer.”
    — Albert Einstein
    “Practice all movements slow and fast, soft and hard; the effectiveness of Jeet Kune-Do depends on split-second timing and reflexive action, which can be achieved only through repetitious practice.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “The happiest life is that which constantly exercises and educates what is best in us.”
    – Hamerton
    “Use what talents you possess: the woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.”
    — Henry Van Dyke
    Personal Development Quotes on Thinking
    “A fresh mind keeps the body fresh.
    Take in the ideas of the day, drain off those of yesterday.
    As to the morrow, time enough to consider it when it becomes to-day.”
    — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
    “A man’s dreams are an index to his greatness.”
    — Zadok Rabinwitz
    “All men who have achieved great things have been great dreamers.”
    — Orison Swett Marden
    “All successful men and women are big dreamers.
    They imagine what their future could be, ideal in every respect, and then they work every day toward their distant vision, that goal or purpose.”
    — Brian Tracy
    “Champions aren’t made in the gyms.
    Champions are made from something they have deep inside them — a desire, a dream, a vision.”
    — Muhammad Ali
    “Choose the positive. You have choice, you are master of your attitude, choose the positive, the constructive.
    Optimism is a faith that leads to success.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Empty your mind, be formless.
    Shapeless, like water.
    If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup.
    You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle.
    You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot.
    Now, water can flow or it can crash.
    Be water my friend.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Enter every activity without giving mental recognition to the possibility of defeat.
    Concentrate on your strengths, instead of your weakness … on your powers, instead of your problems.”
    — Paul J. Meyer
    “Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.”
    — Albert Einstein
    “I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination.
    Imagination is more important than knowledge.
    Knowledge is limited.
    Imagination encircles the world.”
    — Albert Einstein
    “If you think you can do a thing or think you can’t do a thing, you’re right.”
    — Henry Ford
    “Imagination is everything.
    It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.”
    — Albert Einstein
    “It is in the small decisions you and I make every day that create our destiny.”
    — Tony Robbins
    “It is the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief.
    And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen.”
    — Claude M. Bristol
    “It’s amazing what ordinary people can do if they set out without preconceived notions.”
    — Charles F. Kettering
    “No great improvements in the lot of mankind are possible until a great change takes place in the fundamental constitution of their modes of thought.”
    — John Stuart Mil
    “No man is ever whipped until he quits — in his own mind.”
    — Napoleon Hill
    “Nothing can stop the person with the right mental attitude from achieving his goals.
    Nothing on earth can help the person with the wrong mental attitude.”
    — Thomas Jefferson
    “Our greatest battles are that with our own minds.”
    — Jameson Fran
    “Real difficulties can be overcome; It is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.”
    — Theodore N.Vail
    “Shoot for the moon.
    Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.”
    — Les Brown
    “Some of the world’s greatest feats were accomplished by people not smart enough to know they were impossible.”
    — Doug Larson
    “That some achieve great success, is proof to all that others can achieve it as well.”
    — Abraham Lincoln
    “The biggest temptation is to settle for too little.”
    — Thomas Merton
    “The difference between success and mediocrity is all in the way you think.”
    — Dean Francis
    “The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short, but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.”
    – Michelangelo
    “The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be.”
    — Marcel Pagnol
    “The revelation of thought takes men out of servitude into freedom.”
    — Ralph Waldo Emerson
    “The spirit of the individual is determined by his dominating thought habits.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “The winners in life think constantly in terms of I can, I will, and I am.
    Losers, on the other hand, concentrate their waking thoughts on what they should have or would have done, or what they can’t do.”
    — Dennis Waitley
    “Thoughts and ideas are the source of all wealth, success, material gain, all great discoveries, inventions and achievements.”
    — Mark Victor Hansen
    “’What is’ is more important than ‘what should be.’
    Too many people are looking at ‘what is’ from a position of thinking ‘what should be’.”
    — Bruce Lee
    “Whatever we think about and thank about, we bring about.”
    — Wayne Dyer
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Personal Development Series … Personal Development Plan Guide and Example

What is a Personal Development Plan?A personal development plan is a document that outlines your goals for personal growth, as well as the actions you will take to achieve those goals.
It typically includes a list of specific objectives, action steps, timelines, and strategies for overcoming obstacles or challenges.
The purpose of a personal development plan is to help you become more self-aware, identify areas for improvement, and create a roadmap for achieving your goals.
Personal development plans can be used in a variety of contexts, such as professional development, academic pursuits, or personal hobbies and interests.
By setting clear goals and taking action towards them, you can improve your skills, knowledge, and overall quality of life.
Why Write a Personal Development Plan?
One compelling reason to write a personal development plan is that it can help you become more intentional and purposeful in your life. Without a plan, it’s easy to get stuck in a routine, feeling like you’re just going through the motions.
A personal development plan can help you identify your strengths and weaknesses, set goals that align with your values, and take action towards those goals.
It can also help you stay focused and motivated, even when facing obstacles or setbacks.
Another reason to write a personal development plan is that it can help you build self-awareness and self-confidence.
By taking the time to reflect on your strengths, weaknesses, and areas for improvement, you can develop a deeper understanding of yourself and your potential. This can help you feel more confident and empowered to take on new challenges, try new things, and pursue your passions.
Writing a personal development plan can also help you cultivate a growth mindset. Rather than seeing your abilities and talents as fixed or innate, a growth mindset emphasizes the idea that you can always learn and grow.
By setting goals and taking action towards them, you can develop new skills, expand your knowledge, and become a more well-rounded and adaptable person.
Ultimately, writing a personal development plan can help you create a more fulfilling and satisfying life.
By setting and achieving goals that are meaningful to you, you can build a sense of purpose and accomplishment. You can also develop stronger relationships, contribute more to your community, and lead a life that reflects your values and priorities.
How to Write a Personal Development Plan
While there are many ways to structure a one-page personal development plan, here is one example of a framework that can be effective:

  1. Start with a clear goal or objective for your personal development. This could be a skill you want to learn, a behavior you want to change, or a career goal you want to achieve.
  2. Identify specific action steps that you can take to work towards your goal. These should be tangible and measurable, such as reading a certain number of books, attending a workshop, or practicing a skill for a certain amount of time each week.
  3. Consider any resources or support that you might need to achieve your goal, such as a mentor or coach, additional training, or access to specific tools or technology.
  4. Set a timeline for your personal development plan, including specific milestones or checkpoints along the way to track your progress.
  5. Identify potential challenges or obstacles that you might face and brainstorm strategies to overcome them.
  6. Reflect on your progress regularly and make adjustments to your plan as needed.
    Remember that a personal development plan should be customized to your individual needs and goals, so feel free to adjust this framework to suit your specific situation. The key is to keep your plan focused, actionable, and measurable, so that you can make real progress towards your goals.
    Example of a Personal Development Plan
    Here’s an example of a one-page personal development plan:
    Objective: Improve my public speaking skills
    Action Steps:
    • Join a public speaking club and attend regular meetings
    • Practice speaking in front of small groups of friends or colleagues
    • Attend a public speaking workshop or training program
    • Read books or articles on public speaking techniques
    • Record myself speaking and review the footage to identify areas for improvement
    Resources/Support:
    • Find a mentor or coach who can provide feedback and guidance on my speaking skills
    • Join a supportive community of speakers who can offer feedback and encouragement
    • Read and practice on the speaking exercises on the telegram resource platform – https://t.me/somalienglishspeaker
    Timeline:
    • Attend public speaking club meetings weekly for the next six months
    • Practice speaking in front of small groups at least twice a month
    • Attend a public speaking workshop within the next three months
    • Read at least one book on public speaking within the next month
    • Record myself speaking once a month and review the footage to identify areas for improvement
    Potential Challenges:
    • Nervousness or anxiety when speaking in front of groups
    • Lack of time or competing priorities
    Strategies for Overcoming Challenges:
    • Practice deep breathing and visualization techniques to reduce anxiety
    • Schedule regular practice sessions in my calendar to ensure I make time for them
    Regular Reflection:
    • Check in with my mentor or coach on a monthly basis to review my progress
    • Reflect on my progress every three months and adjust my plan as needed.
    Unlock Your Potential: The Power of a Personal Development Plan
    A personal development plan is a powerful tool that can help you achieve your goals, build self-awareness and self-confidence, and create a more fulfilling life.
    By setting clear objectives, identifying action steps, and developing strategies for overcoming challenges, you can become more intentional and purposeful in your daily life.
    You can also cultivate a growth mindset, expand your skills and knowledge, and become the best version of yourself.
    Whether you’re pursuing professional success, academic achievement, or personal growth and fulfillment, a personal development plan can help you stay focused, motivated, and on track.
    So take the time to write your own plan, and start taking action towards the life you want to live.

Jambu’s 2025 Year Round Self Improvement Calendar

Day 1

Get Up an hour earlier, pray then exercise

Day 2

Write down 5 things you are grateful for

Day 3

Take a successful businessperson to lunch

Day 4

Listen to a personal-development audio instead of the news or music on your way to work

Day 5

Compliment five people today

Day 6

Direct-deposit a portion of your paycheck into savings every pay period

Day 7

Buy or download a book on a topic you typically wouldn’t read about

Day 8

Tell your spouse, parents and kids you love them

Day 9

Tell your best friends that you love them

Day 10

Start a journal

Day 11

Read and recite the holy book-preferably with someone else

Day 12

Buy a bunch of flowers for your better half

Day 13

Read something inspirational

Day 14

Practice listening more and talking less

Day 15

Call someone you need to forgive, or be forgiven by, and settle accounts

Day 16

Read aloud your favorite mantra loudly in the shower or the car

Day 17

Make a to-do list tonight so you can start right away in the morning

Day 18

Offer to run errands or help an elderly person

Day 19

Go for half-hour walk or run

Day 20

Pay for coffee or grocery bill for the person behind you at the supermarket

Day 21

Do that task your spouse has been asking you to do

Day 22

Focus on devoting the first 90 minutes of work to your highest priority tasks

Day 23

Eat healthy all day-no slipups

Day 24

Jot down five affirmations and schedule them into your smartphone as daily reminders.

Day 25

Make a good sized donation to your favorite charity

Day 26

Ask someone what he or she thinks about an important topic and listen

Day 27

Set a goal of making five people smile today

Day 28

Skip the TV news and save yourself 30 minutes of depressing topics

Day 29

Take 15 minutes to reflect on your life

Day 30

Write down the five best things that happened for you in the last week

Day 31

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8 Nuggets for Turning Adversity into Wisdom

“Never give up. Today is hard, tomorrow will be worse, but the day after tomorrow will be sunshine.” — Jack Ma

“Never give up. Today is hard, tomorrow will be worse, but the day after tomorrow will be sunshine.” — Jack Ma

Our world is filled with challenges, whether you are facing a job loss, or a devastating illness, or the death of a loved one, the key is turning adversity into wisdom.

It’s that wisdom that helps you develop your resilience and achieve indestructible happiness.

1. Learn How to Deal with Life’s Toughest Challenges

An undefeated mind is one that never gives up.

To possess an undefeated mind: is not just to rebound quickly from adversity or to face it calmly, even confidently, without being pulled down by depression or anxiety, but also to get up day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year, decade after decade — even over the course of an entire lifetime — and attack the obstacles in front of us again and again and again until they fall, or we do. 

An undefeated mind isn’t one that never feels discouraged or despairing; it’s one that continues on in spite of it. 

Even when we can’t find a smile to save us, even when we’re tired beyond all endurance, possessing an undefeated mind means never forgetting that defeat comes not from failing but from giving up.

2. Strategies Fail, but Missions Endure

One way to stand strong is to have a personal mission you believe in.

A personal mission gives you strength.

A strategy might fail, but you can find another way to continue your mission.

First, I told him, because strategies often fail.  Companies go bankrupt. Sculptures sit unsold. 

Teachers lose their jobs. 

A mission, on the other hand, endures. 

No matter how devastated we may feel when a strategy fails, no matter how much we may have loved doing it, if underneath that love also lies a commitment to the mission our strategy served, we’ll eventually be able to pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and find another strategy we loved just as much.

3. You’re Not Looking for Something That Excites You

The mission makes it meaningful.  The strategies make it exciting.

Figure out a meaningful mission and then find the strategies that light your fire.

You’re not looking for something that excites you. You’re looking for something that gives your life meaning, which you can best discover by means of something that excites you. 

I don’t know if even a sculptor gets excited about filling the world with beauty. 

He gets excited about sculpting — but only because that’s how he fills the world with beauty, the activity that makes his life feel most significant.

4. Use Adversity as a Springboard for Value

Don’t deny, dismiss, or ignore your problems.

Instead, find the benefits for yourself and others.

This means neither denying our problems exist nor denying they make us suffer. 

Rather it means learning how to use suffering as a springboard for creating benefit. 

For when confronted by harsh circumstances over which we have no control, we become capable of enduring them only by finding a way to create value with them.”

5. Regaining Self-Confidence

If you want to get your self-confidence back, take more action.   Trial and error teaches us what thinking and theories can’t.

Ironically, the best way to regain self-confidence when we find ourselves facing a problem, we have no good idea how to solve may be by flinging ourselves, however blindly; into action, doing whatever we think we can. … what we get from trial and error that rumination can’t provide is the chance to view things from vantage points we can’t acquire through theorizing alone.

6. Action Creates Feelings

The toughest thing to do when you’re down is to take action.

But that’s exactly what you need to do.

Unfortunately, as a result of becoming discouraged, we often lose the desire to take action. 

Perhaps a failed romance ruins our interest in dating, or a failed business ruins our interest in entrepreneurship. 

When this happens, people often naturally assume they need to first focus on rekindling their feelings before attempting further action. 

But research suggests that action creates feeling almost as often as feeling creates action.

7. Our Resolve Solves Problems

Our resolve determines our ability to solve problems.

If we think of a mission as a car that can take us to a more resilient place, then resolve, or commitment, must be considered the engine that makes it go. 

Indeed, the ability to soldier on when obstacles block our way to any goal, whether our life’s mission or our most trivial wish, has to be considered as much a part of resilience as the ability to survive and thrive in the face of adversity. 

Yet many of us fail to grasp the full extent to which our resolve determines our ability to solve problems, and as a result we often fail to focus on the mustering of resolve when setting out to accomplish a goal.

8. Smash Negative Beliefs to Pieces

Self-confidence is the key to your resolve.  Defend your self-confidence by defeating negative beliefs.

Nothing dismantles our resolve more quickly than the loss of self-confidence. 

For this reason, we have much to gain from conceiving of self-doubt not as a character flaw but as a mortal enemy. 

In fact, preserving our self-confidence represents the single most important and challenging part of any attempt to accomplish a goal, a fierce moment-by-moment struggle that requires us to smash to pieces even the most fleeting of our negative beliefs.

How To Use Reflection to Improve Your Performance

“Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.”

I’m a fan of self-reflection.

I think it can help you avoid being the frog in the boiling pot (that doesn’t know when to get out.) I think the trick is using the right sets of questions.

If you use weekly reflection, you can see the patterns in the problems you face and how you solve them. You’ll be able to see how your responses change over time.

Don’t Blame Situations for Your Troubles

Are you owning your actions and results?   Are you as proactive as you can be?

Watkins writes:

“Now focus on the biggest challenges or difficulties you are facing.

Be honest with yourself.

Are your difficulties situational or do their sources lie within you?

Even experienced and skilled people blame problems on the situation rather than their own actions.

The net effect is that they are less proactive than they could be.”

I suggest setting aside 15 minutes at the end of each week to reflect on the following questions.

1. What do you feel so far?

  1. On a scale of high to low, do you feel:
  2. Excited? If not, why not? What can you do about it?
  3. Confident? If not, why not? What can you do about it?
  4. In control of your success? If not, why not? what can you do about it?

2. What has bothered you so far?

  1. With whom have you failed to connect? Why?
  2. Of the meetings you have attended, which has been the most troubling? Why?
  3. Of all that you have seen or heard, what has disturbed you most? Why?

3. What has gone well or poorly?

  1. Which interactions would you handled differently if you could? Which exceeded your expectations? Why?
  2. Which of your decisions have turned out particularly well? Not so well? Why?
  3. What missed opportunities do you regret the most? Was a better result blocked by you or by something beyond your control?

Use what you learn to improve and get better where it counts.

Success demands these 6 things..

Success demands these 6 things..

  1. Hard Work

Don’t believe in luck, believe in hard work.

Stop trying to rush the process or searching for a shortcut.

There is none.

  1. Patience

If you are losing the patience, you are losing the battle.

First nothing happens, then it happens slowly and suddenly all at once.

Most people give up at stage one.

  1. Sacrifice

If you don’t sacrifice for what you want, then what you want becomes the sacrifice.

Everything has its price. The question is: Are you ready to pay it for the life you desire?

  1. Consistency

Consistency is what transforms average into excellence.

Without consistency, you will never achieve greater success.

  1. Discipline

Motivation gets you going, but discipline keeps you growing.

There will be days when you don’t “feel” like doing it.

You have to push through those days regardless of how you feel.

  1. Self Confidence

Confidence is, I’ll be fine if they don’t like me.

10 lessons from The Art of War by Sun Tzu:


1. Know your enemy and know yourself. This is the most important lesson in The Art of War. If you know your enemy and know yourself, you will not be imperiled in a hundred battles.

2. Appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you are weak. This is a lesson about deception. By appearing weak when you are strong, you can trick your enemy into underestimating you.

3. Attack where the enemy is unprepared. This is a lesson about surprise. By attacking where the enemy is unprepared, you can gain an advantage.

4. Make use of spies. Spies can provide you with valuable information about your enemy.

5. Use terrain to your advantage. The terrain can be a powerful tool in battle. By understanding the terrain, you can use it to your advantage.

6. Be flexible. The situation on the battlefield is constantly changing. You need to be flexible in order to adapt to these changes.

7. Concentrate your forces. Don’t spread your forces too thin. Instead, concentrate your forces on a single point of attack.

8. Strike at the enemy’s heart. The heart of the enemy is their will to fight. If you can break the enemy’s will to fight, you will win the battle.

9. Use deception. Deception is a powerful tool in war. By deceiving your enemy, you can gain an advantage.

10. Know when to retreat. Sometimes, the best course of action is to retreat. By retreating, you can preserve your forces for future battles.

These are just a few of the many lessons that can be learned from The Art of War.
This book is a classic for a reason. It is full of wisdom that can be applied to all aspects of life, not just war.

knowledge and wealth, which is better

Hazrat Ali (AS) once replied to a group of ten learned men who said, ‘We seek your permission for our putting a question to you.’

Hazrat Ali (AS) replied, ‘You are at perfect liberty.’

They said, ‘of knowledge and wealth, which is better and why. Please give a separate answer to each of us

Hazrat Ali (AS) answered in ten parts:

  1. Knowledge is the legacy of the Prophets; wealth is the inheritance of the Pharaohs. Therefore, knowledge is better than wealth
  1. You are to guard your wealth but knowledge guards you. Therefore, knowledge is better.
  2. A man of wealth has many enemies, while a man of knowledge has many friends. Hence, knowledge is better.
  3. Knowledge is better because it increases with distribution, while wealth decreases by that act.
  4. Knowledge is better because a learned man is apt to be generous while a wealthy person is apt to be miserly.
  5. Knowledge is better because it cannot be stolen while wealth can be stolen.
  6. Knowledge is better because time cannot harm knowledge but wealth rusts in course of time and wears away.
  7. Knowledge is better because it is boundless while wealth is limited and you can keep account of it.
  8. Knowledge is better because it illuminates the mind while wealth is apt to blacken it.
  9. Knowledge is better because knowledge induced the humanity in our Prophet to say to GOD ‘we worship thee as we are your servants,’ while wealth engendered in Pharaoh and Nimrod the vanity which made them claim godhead.

Let those who have ears listen…