That even if I react, it won’t change anything,
It won’t make people suddenly love and respect me,
It won’t magically change their minds.
Sometimes it’s better to let things be, let people go, don’t fight for closure, don’t ask for explanations, don’t chase answers and don’t expect people to understand where you’re coming from. I’m slowly learning that life is better lived when you don’t Center it on what’s happening around you and center it on what’s happening inside you instead. Work on yourself and keep your peace.
Monthly Archives: September 2023
12 Life Lessons To Carry You Through Life
1. Dr. Ben Carson said, “I struggled academically throughout elementary school yet became the best neurosurgeon in the world in 1987.”
LESSON: Struggling is a sign that you are on a verge of success. Don’t quit yet.
2. Bill Gates said, “I didn’t even complete my university education but became the world’s richest man.”
LESSON: School does not make you rich. School is only supposed to polish what will make you rich, not make you rich.
3. Christiano Ronaldo said, “I told my father that we would be very rich but he couldn’t believe me. I made it a reality.”
LESSON: Your words rule your life. If you mean what you have said, each word will come to pass. You get what you say.
4. Hear Lionel Messi! “I used to serve tea at a shop to support my football training and still became one of the world’s best footballers.”
LESSON: Believe in your dream. Don’t let your pain tell you how your future will look like.
5. Steve Jobs penned, “I used to sleep on the floor in my friends’ rooms, returning coke bottles for food, money, and getting weekly free meals at a local temple, I later on founded Apple Company.”
LESSON: That you are small today doesn’t mean you will be small tomorrow. Keep trusting God.
6. Former British PM, Tony Blair said & I quote, “My teachers used to call me a failure, but I became a Prime Minister.”
LESSON: Don’t let someone else’s opinions of you become your reality.
7. Nelson Mandela said, “I was in prison for 27 years & still became president.”
LESSON: You can be anything you want to be no matter where you have been or what you have been through.
8.REECE “I drove a taxi to finance my university education but today I’m a billionaire.”
LESSON: Don’t let your past decide the kind of future you need to have.
9. Harland Sanders, Founder of KFC said, “I was on the verge of suicide when an idea of opening a restaurant hit me after I retired as a cook in the Navy.”
LESSON: Nothing is ever too late. “Too late” is a language of failures. Your future can begin at any age. Don’t ever let AGE limit you.
10. Aliko Dangote said, “I worked for my uncle since I was a small boy, people looked down on me. I later on took a loan from my uncle to open a tiny shop. I worked hard to make ends meet. Now I am the richest Man in Africa.
LESSON: Failures or limitations of the past have no control over the greatness in you. To him that believes, all things are possible.
11. Barack Hussein Obama said, I am a son of a black immigrant from Kenya, I graduated from Harvard and later on became a Senator in Chicago. I was also the President of the most powerful nation on Earth.
LESSON: Never design your life like a garden where anyone can walk in and out. Design it like the sky where everyone aspires to reach!
12. Arnold Swarzzenegger said, I traveled to America in search of financial independence when I was 15yrs old. I became the world’s strongest man 7 times and Mr. Universe. I then got my Economics degree, then I became one of Hollywood’s best actors before I was voted twice as governor of California.”
LESSON: Don’t wait for everybody to believe in your ability and dreams.
Mastering English: 7 Benefits of Competency-Based Curriculum
Learning English is a skill that opens doors to countless opportunities, from personal growth to career advancement. While traditional language learning methods have their place, competency-based curriculum stands out as a highly effective approach. Here are seven key benefits of choosing a competency-based curriculum when learning English:
- Personalized Learning Path: Competency-based curriculum recognizes that learners have unique starting points and goals. It allows students to progress at their own pace, ensuring they receive the support they need precisely when they need it. This personalized approach enhances the learning experience and leads to more significant language acquisition.
- Mastery over Memorization: In competency-based learning, the emphasis is on mastering specific language skills rather than memorizing grammar rules or vocabulary lists. Students are encouraged to use English in practical contexts, leading to a deeper understanding of the language and better communication skills.
- Clear Learning Objectives: Competency-based programs often outline clear learning objectives and outcomes for each level or module. This transparency helps students understand what is expected of them and provides a sense of achievement as they meet each competency.
- Continuous Assessment: Competency-based learning involves continuous assessment and feedback. Students receive regular evaluations of their progress, allowing them to identify areas that need improvement and make necessary adjustments. This ongoing feedback accelerates the learning process.
- Flexibility and Adaptability: Whether you are a beginner or an advanced learner, competency-based curriculum adapts to your needs. You can spend more time on challenging concepts and move quickly through familiar territory. This flexibility accommodates diverse learning styles and backgrounds.
- Real-World Relevance: Competency-based English courses prioritize practical language skills that are directly applicable in real-world situations. This approach ensures that learners can confidently and effectively communicate in professional and social contexts, enhancing their language proficiency’s real-world relevance.
- Increased Motivation: Competency-based learning tends to boost motivation and engagement. As students see their progress in tangible ways, their confidence grows, leading to increased motivation to continue learning and improving their English skills.
In conclusion, a competency-based curriculum offers numerous advantages when learning English. Its personalized approach, focus on mastery, clear objectives, continuous assessment, flexibility, real-world relevance, and motivational benefits make it a powerful tool for language learners. Whether you are a beginner or looking to refine your English skills, consider exploring a competency-based curriculum to unlock your full potential in mastering the English language.
Harsh Truths I Know At 40, I Wish I Knew at 20
- Most of your friends aren’t really your friends. They are just along for the ride when it’s fun or convenient. Your real friends are there for you when you have nothing to offer.
- You’ll only see your loved ones a few more times. Remember: It’s later that you think.
- Most people don’t really care about you. The spotlight Effect says that we overestimate the degree to which other people are observing our actions. This should be liberating.
- You don’t need to have an opinion on everything. It’s perfectly reasonable to have no opinion on something that you haven’t researched or don’t understand.
- You probably won’t be remembered or have a legacy. In a few thousand years, chances are we will all be forgotten.
- You can tell everything you need to know about a person by observing (1)how they treat service workers and (2)whether they put their shopping cart back.
- You can get pretty damn far in life by just saying what you’re going to do and then doing it. No fancy hack needed.
- Most of us need fewer friends and more intellectual sparring partners. Friends are easy to come by, but intellectual sparring partners question our assumptions and force us to level up.
- Being kind to people is the only real life hack. Kindness remains severely underrated.
- We should all stop talking about how many books we read last year. It’s much more impressive to ready one book and have it deeply impact you than to read 100 books and not feel a thing.
- You should never bet against a person who just keeps showing up.
- Most of the people you look up to and admire are remarkably unremarkable. Their success is not due to some intrinsic difference, but some stellar combination of effort and luck.
- If it seems too good to be true, it probably is (and you should run away)
- You’re probably being held back by your unwillingness to ask. Remember: Closed mouths don’t get fed.
- Failure doesn’t always lead to growth. Sometimes failure just leads to pain. Sometimes the growth doesn’t come from the failure, but from simply outlasting the darkness.
- Waking up is the easiest way to improve your odds of success. You don’t have to wake up early to be successful, but you rarely find an early riser that isn’t winning.
- Hard work is not overrated. That’s ridiculous. 99% of successful people worked very hard.
- Showing up early costs very little and pays off handsomely in the long run.
- The world is not fair. Bad people win and good people lose – most of the time. The world may never be truly fair, but it will always belong to those who make the most of what they have before them.



