OUR LIFE’S PURPOSE!

“To draw, you must close your eyes and sing.” — Pablo Picasso

Which creative type are you … a Dreamer, a Doer, or an Incrementalist?

I was reading the book, Making Ideas Happen: Overcoming the Obstacles Between Vision and Reality, by Scott Belsky.  In the book, he explains three types of creative people: Dreamers, Doers, and Incrementalists.

The Dreamers are ideas people.  They dream things up.  The Doers execute.  They make ideas happen.  The Incrementalist can play either role.  They can dream up new ideas or help execute ideas.  While the Incrementalist sounds like the ideal scenario, the challenge is they are often stretched thin across multiple projects, because of their rare ability.  They often don’t get to go as deep as they want.

What I like about this frame is that it matches my experience.  I’ve seen a tendency for people to be either great dreamers, great doers, and in rare cases, great at both.  What I’ve also seen is that when people know their strengths, and the strengths of others, they can pair up more effectively:  Dreamers pair up with Doers, Doers pair up with Dreamers, and Incrementalists pair up with both.

The Dreamer

The Dreamer is an idealist.  They dream up new ways, new things, and new possibilities.  Belsky writes:

“As entrepreneurs, Dreamers often jump from one new business idea to another.  Even within an existing business, they are always imagining something new … The Dreamers in the not-for-profit world are idealists — and they are likely to become engaged in new projects at the expense of completing current ones.  Similarly, Dreamer artists are always starting new projects, often considering massive undertakings with a long-term grandiose vision.”

The Doer

The Doer gets things done.  They execute ideas.  They make things happen.  Belsky writes:

“Doers don’t imagine as much because they are obsessively focused on the logistics of execution.  Doers get frustrated when, while  brainstorming, there is no consideration for implementation.  Doers often love new ideas, but their tendency is to immerse themselves in the next steps needed to truly actualize an idea.  While Dreamers will quickly fall in love with an idea, Doers will start with doubt and chip away at the ida until they love it. (or, often, discount it.)  As Doers break an idea down, they come action-oriented organizes and valuable stewards.  An idea can only become a reality once it is broken down into organized, actionable elements.  If a brilliant and sexy idea seems intangible or unrealistic, Doers will become skeptical and appropriately deterred.”

The Incrementalist

The Incrementalist plays both roles.  They can drive like a Doer and they can dream like a Dreamer.  Belsky writes:
”Then there are the Incrementalists — those with the ability to play the role of both Dreamer and Doer.  Incrementalists shift between distinct phases of dreaming and doing.  When imagine runs amok in the Dreamer phase, the Incrementalist begins to feel impatient.  The developing sense of impatience brings on the Doer phase, and the idea at hand is pushed in execution.  And when the time comes to pull back and dream again, the return is a welcome relief from being buried in the managerial mindset.  Thus, an Incrementalist is able to bask in idea generation, distill the Action Steps needed, and then push ideas into action with tenacity.”

When it comes to collaboration, Belsky calls Incrementalists, the universal donor, because, while a Dreamer and Doer are best paired with each other, Incrementalists can pair up with either one.

The challenge for you is to figure out how what role you like to play the most and to pair up with others to bring out your best, while, at the same time, helping others flourish.

When people flourish it’s contagious.

Passion

So i decided to buy a diary late last year in an attempt to *organize my 2013* so as not to be as errattic as *2012*

The news is that as of today i only managed to scribble one or two notes until the 25’th of Jan. For me that’s commendable because i have never gone past the first week, but then again that is easily the most pathetic attempt of keeping a diary log.

Fastforward to today, so much has changed, so many things have come to pass(the abundance of grey hair on my head notwithstanding) but i am gratefull for God Almighty for bringing me thus far. Just as it could have been better, it could have well been worse and thats why i decided not long ago to live in the *NOW* in true allegiance to my mantra of *make everyday count*

Feels good writting, just pouring my thoughts into paper and sharing with the world. Over time I have nurtured the bookworm aspect of me and ended up treasuring it to the point I feel empty if I don’t constantly feed my brain on something/anything. It’s a valuable trait that i wished i had adopted much earlier in life-as they say knowledge is the key to success.

It’s also funny how i have learnt so much about others and very little about myself. Only when i stand in the mirror and contrast the wealth of knowledge garnered overtime and it’s implications in my life do i get the wake up call that i need to change a couple of things in my life inorder to progress.

I have indeed come to a sort of crossroads, where i have to evaluate the pros&cons of my decisions and how they impact my future goals & plans. Yet again if I worry too much about either my past or future i will miss out on the present.

I like the *Nike* slogan ‘just do it’. Mostly because it’s sticky, encouraging & amazingly simple.

Trajectory is currently taking place and i might as well jump in the moving band wagon. I feel like buying a one way ticket to a remote location, somewhere unheard of and starting all over again.

But then again i was advised it’s not good to go with feelings without logic. My heart argues that i need change, my brain tells me life is short and full of risks, yet my gut answers me-all that matters is that you do what makes you happy.

And that my *Dears* is my hope  for you, that whatever you are doing it’s making you happy, that you are loving yourself because no one will love you more than you and last but not least that you are following your passion!!

Love always

Jambu.
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