Intelligence

“According to Psychologists, there are four types of Intelligence:

1) Intelligence Quotient (IQ)
2) Emotional Quotient (EQ)
3) Social Quotient (SQ)
4) Adversity Quotient (AQ)

  1. Intelligence Quotient (IQ): this is the measure of your level of comprehension. You need IQ to solve maths, memorize things, and recall lessons.
  2. Emotional Quotient (EQ): this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others, keep to time, be responsible, be honest, respect boundaries, be humble, genuine and considerate.
  3. Social Quotient (SQ): this is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go further in life than those with a high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize on improving IQ levels while EQ and SQ are played down.

A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ.

Your EQ represents your Character, while your SQ represents your Charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs, especially your EQ and SQ.

Now there is a 4th one, a new paradigm:

  1. The Adversity Quotient (AQ): The measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life, and come out of it without losing your mind.

When faced with troubles, AQ determines who will give up, who will abandon their family, and who will consider suicide.

Parents please expose your children to other areas of life than just Academics. They should adore manual labor (never use work as a form of punishment), Sports and Arts.

Develop their IQ, as well as their EQ, SQ and AQ. They should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently of their parents.

Finally, do not prepare the road for your children. Prepare your children for the road.”

Must Read Quotes From Bruce Lee!

  • “It doesn’t matter if you were born as a legend, what matters is the legendary end. Think about it”
  • “Patience is not passive, on the contrary it is concentrated strength.”
  • “Sensitivity is not possible if you are afraid.”
  • “A wise man can always be found alone. A weak man can always be found in a crowd.”
  • “Don’t speak negatively about yourself, even as a joke. Your body doesn’t know the difference. Words are energy and they cast spells, that’s why it’s called spelling. Change the way you speak about yourself, and you can change your life.”
  • “What is true stillness? Stillness in movement.”
  • “The less confident we are in ourselves, the less we are in touch with ourselves and the world, the more we want to control.”
  • “Only the self-sufficient stand alone – most people follow the crowd and imitate.”
  • “A fight is not won by one punch or kick. Either learn to endure or hire a bodyguard.”
  • “Those who are unaware they are walking in darkness will never seek the light.”
  • “Don’t fear failure. Not failure but low aim, is the crime. In great attempts it is glorious even to fail.”
  • “In order to taste my cup of water you must first empty your cup.”
  • “If you think a thing is impossible, you’ll only make it impossible.”
  • “Use only that which works, and take it from any place you can find it.”
  • “It’s not what you give, it’s the way you give it.”
  • “Optimism is a faith that leads to success.”
  • “If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.”
  • “Obey the principles without being bound by them.”
  • “A quick temper will make a fool of you soon enough.”
  • “The possession of anything begins in the mind.”
  • “If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you’ll never get it done.”
  • “If you love life, don’t waste time, for time is what life is made up of.”
  • “The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering.”
  • “A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at.”
  • “I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.”
  • “Forget about winning and losing; forget about pride and pain.”
  • “Be self aware, rather than a repetitious robot.”
  • “A teacher is never a giver or truth; he is a guide, a pointer to the truth that each student must find for himself.”
  • “Simplicity is the shortest distance between two points.”
  • “Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless, like water.”
  • “I am learning to understand rather that immediately judge or to be judged.”
  • “To know, but to be as though not knowing, is the height of wisdom.”
  • “Never trouble trouble till trouble troubles you. I’ll not willingly offend, nor be easily offended.”
  • “Loneliness is only an opportunity to cut adrift and find yourself. In solitude you are least alone. Make good use of it.”
  • “I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.”
  • “Love and respect. Without respect, love cannot go long.”
  • “Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”
  • “Never try to copy a successful personality.”
  • “If you don’t want to slip up tomorrow, speak the truth today.”
  • “Mistakes are always forgivable, if one has the courage to admit them.”
  • “The medicine for my suffering I had within me from the very beginning but I did not take it. My ailment came from within myself, but I did not observe it, until this moment.”
  • “Life is never stagnation. It is constant movement, un-rhythmic movement, as we as constant change. Things live by moving and gain strength as they go.”
  • “We all have time to either spend or waste and it is our decision what to do with it. But once passed, it is gone forever.”
  • “The moment is freedom. I couldn’t live by a rigid schedule. I try to live freely from moment to moment, letting things happen and adjusting to them.”
  • “I treasure the memory of the past misfortunes. It has added more to my bank of fortitude.”
  • “I am happy, because I am growing daily and I am honestly not knowing where the limit lies.”
  • “You just wait. I’m going to be the biggest Chinese Star in the world.”
  • “All fixed set patterns are incapable of adaptability or pliability. The truth is outside of all fixed patterns.”
  • “If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else. It will spread into your work and into your life.”
  • “A wise man can learn more from a fooling question than a fool can learn from a wise answer.”
  • “Practice makes perfect. After a long time of practicing, our work will become natural, skillfull, swift and steady.”
  • “If you want to swim jump into the water. On dry land no frame of mind is ever going to help you.”
  • “My style? You can call it the art of fighting without fighting.”
  • “The most dangerous person is the one who listens, thinks and observes.”
  • “Education: to discover but not merely to imitate. Learning techniques without inward experiencing can only lead to superficiality.”
  • “Discipline must conform to the nature of things in their suchness.”
  • “Develop the tools, refine the tools, then dissolve the tools.”
  • “Do not correct a fool or he will hate you, correct a wise man and he will appreciate you.”
  • “The unfolding of the bare human soul…that is what interests me.”
  • “Obviously, if your kick does not commence, his punch will land first and your defense is useless.”
  • “Yielding will overcome anything superior to itself; it’s strength is boundless.”
  • “Be happy, but never satisfied.”
  • “Remember no man is defeated unless he is discouraged.”
  • “Do not allow negative thoughts to enter your mind for they are the weeds that strangle confidence.”
  • “Endurance is lost rapidly if one ceases to work at its maximum.”
  • “Preparation for tomorrow is hard work today.”
  • “It’s like a finger pointing away to the moon. Don’t concentrate on the finger or you will miss all the heavenly glory.”
  • “You can never invite the wind but you must leave the window open.”
  • “I am not teaching you anything. I just help you to explore yourself.”
  • “Life is wide, limitless. There is no border, no frontier.”
  • “Fortunately for me, my self-knowledge has transcended that and I’ve come to understand that life is best to be lived – not to be conceptualized. If you have to think, you still do not understand.”
  • “Simplicity is the key to brilliance.”
  • “When one has no form, one can be all forms; when one has no style, he can fit in with any style.”
  • “When one has reached maturity in the art, one will have a formless form. It is like ice dissolving in water.”
  • “Life’s battles don’t always go the the stronger or faster man. But sooner or later the man who wins, is the man who thinks he can.”
  • “The doubters said, ‘ Man cannot fly; the doers said, ‘Maybe, but we’ll try, and finally soared in the morning glow, while non-believers watched from below.”
  • “Relationship is the mirror in which you discover yourself – to be is to be related.”
  • “Self-knowledge involves relationship. To know oneself is to study one self in action with another person.”
  • “For it is easy to criticize and break down the spirit of others, but to know yourself takes a lifetime.”
  • “Defeat is not defeat unless accepted as a reality in your own mind.”
  • “Absorb what is useful, discard what is not, add what is uniquely your own.”
  • “Make at least one definite move daily toward your goal.”
  • “I cannot blindly follow the crowd and accept their approach.”
  • “Take things as they are. Punch when you have to punch. Kick when you have to kick.”
  • “To hell with circumstances; I create opportunities.”
  • “Knowledge will give you power, but character respect.”
  • “The man who is really serious with the urge to find out what truth is, has no style at all. He lives only in what is.”
  • Life is something for which there is no answer; it must be understood from moment to moment.”
  • “A good fight should be like a small play, but played seriously.”

50 Life Lessons From An 80 Year Old Man

  1. Have a firm handshake.
  2. Look people in the eye.
  3. Sing in the shower.
  4. Own a great stereo system.
  5. If you are in a fight, hit hard and hit first.
  6. Keep secrets.
  7. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
  8. Always accept an outstretched hand.
  9. Be brave. Even if you are not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
  10. Whislte.
  11. Avoid sarcastic remarks.
  12. Choose your life mate carefully.
  13. Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.
  14. Lend only those books you never care about.
  15. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all they have.
  16. When playing games with children, let them win.
  17. Give people a second chance, but not a third.
  18. Be romantic.
  19. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
  20. Loosen up, Relax. Except for rare life and death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
  21. Don’t allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It’s there for out convenience, not the caller’s.
  22. Be a good loser.
  23. Be a good winner.
  24. Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
  25. When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
  26. Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
  27. Keep it simple.
  28. Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
  29. Don’t burn bridges. You’ll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
  30. Live your life so that your obituary could read, No regrets.
  31. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
  32. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
  33. Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
  34. Take charge of your attitude. Don’t let someone else choose it for you.
  35. Visit friends and relatives when they are in the hospital; even if it is just for a few minutes.
  36. Begin each day with some of your favorite music.
  37. Once in a while, take the scenic route.
  38. Send a lot of valentine cards. Sign them, “Someone who thins you’re terrific.”
  39. Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
  40. Keep a notepad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m
  41. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
  42. Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
  43. Make someone’s day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.
  44. Become someone’s hero.
  45. Marry only for love.
  46. Count your blessings.
  47. Compliment the meal when you’re a guest in someone’s home.
  48. Wave at the children on a school bus.
  49. Remember that 80% of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
  50. Don’t expect life to be fair.

DON’T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF

God can bring good even out of your mistakes. Your finite mind tends to look backward, longing to undo decisions you have come to regret. This is a waste of time and energy, leading only to frustration. Instead of floundering in the past, release your mistakes to God.

Look to God for trust, anticipating that God’s infinite creativity can weave both good choices and bad into a lovely design.

Because we are human, we will continue to make mistakes. Thinking that you should live an error-free life is symptomatic of pride. Your failures can be a source of blessing, humbling you and giving you empathy for other people in their weaknesses.

Best of all, failure highlights your dependence on God. God is able to bring beauty out of the morass of your mistakes.

Trust God and watch to see what He can do.

20 PRO English TEST TIPS

I have compiled the most practical tips that you can use to  assess the four language skills: listeningreadingwriting and speaking.

How to smash the LISTENING section:

The Listening test consists of 4 sections. Before each section you will hear some instructions and you will have the time to read the questions. Then the section will start.

1. Do not copy the answers in the breaks between sections
After the test you will be given 10 whole minutes to copy all your answers to the Answer Sheet so use the time in between section to read the following section’s questions.

2. Don’t focus on spelling or grammar during the listening!
You can check them at the end of the test when you transfer the answers onto the answer sheet.

3. Read the Instructions and Questions very Carefully
Take the time to understand what you have to do, don’t rush!

4. Write Down Answers on the test Paper First
While you are listening, write down answers on the test paper first without worrying about spelling and grammar. It would be a distraction and you will have another 10 minutes to copy and finish your answer at the end of the listening section.

5. Do Check Spelling and Grammar
Make sure to check spelling and grammar before handing in your answer sheet. Don’t panic and save a few minutes for this very important task.

How to smash the READING section:

The reading skills required (prediction, finding specific information, identifying opinions etc.) are the same for both the Academic and general Training tests, but the type of test will be different. On the Academic paper you will be given three long academic texts that are similar to university readings while on the General Training paper, texts of a much more general nature like documents, newspapers and flyers are given to the candidates.

6. Check the instructions very carefully. Again
Some tasks require you to use words from the text in the answer; in others you should use your own words.

7. Don’t panic if you don’t know the meaning of some words
It is normal. If English is not your first language, you might be unfamiliar with some vocabulary, just move on and get a sense of the sentence.

8. Read. Read and Read
Prior to the test, make sure to read everyday for an hour or more. The more you read the broader your vocabulary will become and the easier the test will be.

9. Use your time very carefully
You will have one hour for the Reading test. Try and get each section finished in 20 minutes making sure you have at least 3-4 minutes at the end of each section to transfer and check your answers.

10. Don’t leave any blanks
Even if you don’t know the answer, attempt every question. There are no penalties for incorrect answers, so have a guess. Luck might be on your side, if not, you’ve got nothing to lose.

How to smash the WRITING section:

Whether you are taking the Academic or the General test, you have to complete two writing tasks and you will have 60 minutes to do so. For the Writing Task 1 of the Academic test, you need to write a summary of at least 150 words in response to a particular graph, table, chart, or process For the the Writing Task 1 of the General test, candidates are asked to write a letter to solve a given problem.
Task 2 of both tests requires you to write at least 250 words in response to a topic that you will be given.

11. Use the appropriate writing style
Use a formal language for essays and informal language for informal letters

12. Answer the question!
There is no right or wrong answer as long as you answer the question. Remember that your language skills are assessed not your ideas.

13. Be concise.
Short, correct sentences are the winners.

14. Practice
Before the test, use the official writing forms to practice and check what 250 words look like in your own handwriting

15. Don’t go off topic
What’s the test about? Make sure you write about that and stick to it for the entire test.

How to smash the SPEAKING section:

And at the end, you will be finally sitting in front of the Examiner and you will have to talk for about 20 minutes.

16. Communicate effectively
Remember that you are not being tested on your general knowledge but on your ability to communicate effectively.

17. Listen before opening your mouth
This should be a general life tip, but especially during the speaking test, you should stay focused and let the examiner ask his questions before you attempt your answer.

18. Keep on talking.
The more you talk, the higher the score. Obviously only if you have something to say, don’t just talk non sense.

19. Don’t go off topic!
If you do, it might seem to the examiner that you didn’t understand the question. So take a deep breath and answer carefully.

20. Talk well
Talk as fluently as possible and use all those words you’ve learnt, try to put them among your well-thought answers, show off your vocabulary.

Extra tip!

An extra tip that’s useful for the test is to avoid becoming a clock slave: don’t panic and avoid looking at the clock every 10 secs – you have time!!!

Will these tricks and tips help you smash the exam? The answer is YES and NO. Or better, you will need to do a lot of work and become very familiar with the exam, these pro tips are useful only if you have studied and prepared for the test and your general knowledge of the English language is at a good level.

And you? Have you passed the English test? What was your score? Let us know in the comments below!

GOLD NUGGETS ABOUT LEARNING ENGLISH

“Do you know what a foreign accent is? It’s a sign of bravery.” – Amy Chua

“It is astonishing how much enjoyment one can get out of a language that one understands imperfectly.” – Basil Lanneau Gildersleeve

“Language is not a genetic gift, it is a social gift. Learning a new language is becoming a member of the club – the community of speakers of that language.” – Frank Smith.

“Learning is a treasure that will follow its owner everywhere.” – Chinese Proverb

“That is what learning is. You suddenly understand something you’ve understood all your life, but in a new way.” – Doris Lessing

“To have another language is to possess a second soul.” – Charlemagne

“We can be whatever we have the courage to be.”— Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez

“Learning is not a spectator sport.” – D. Blocher

“I admire people who dare to take the language, English, and understand it and understand the melody” – ‍Maya Angelou

“There is no end to education. It is not that you read a book, pass an examination, and finish with education. The whole of life, from the moment you are born to the moment you die, is a process of learning.” – Jiddu Krishnamurti

“Language is the blood of the soul into which thoughts run and out of which they grow.‍” – Oliver Wendell Holmes

“What we learn with pleasure, we never forget.” – Alfred Mercier

“Reading is the key that opens doors to many good things in life. Reading shaped my dreams, and more reading helped me make my dreams come true.” – Ruth Bader Ginsburg

“Language is wine upon the lips.” – Virginia Woolf

“The expert in anything was once a beginner.” – Helen Hayes

“Step out of the history that is holding you back. Step into the new story you are willing to create.” – Oprah Winfrey

“Learning another language is not only learning different words for the same things, but learning another way to think about things.” – Flora Lewis

“Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body.” – Joseph Addison

“Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.” – William Butler Yeats

“It doesn’t matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius

“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.” – Samuel Beckett

“Language is power, life and the instrument of culture, the instrument of domination and liberation.‍” – Angela Carter

“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.” – C.S.Lewis

“Language exerts hidden power, like the moon on the tides.” – Rita Mae Brown

“A different language is a different vision of life.” – Federico Fellini

SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF

“Well-being is realized by small steps, but is truly no small thing.”

The truth is one we know well; the little things add up. Someone is a good person not because they say they are, but because they take good actions. One does not magically get one’s act together – it is a matter of many individual choices. It’s a matter of getting up at the right time, making your bed, resisting shortcuts, investing in yourself, doing your work. And make no mistake: while the individual action is small, it’s cumulative impact is not.

Think about all the small choices that will roll themselves out in front of you today. Do you know which are the right way and which are the easy way? Choose the right way, and watch as all these little things add up toward transformation.

15 Unique Ways to Practice Speaking English

Let’s be honest. You cannot claim to be fluent in English if you are not a fluent English speaker. Even if you have memorized the English dictionary, it will not matter if you cannot communicate in English. With that being said, we understand that speaking in English for non-native speakers can be intimidating.

Conversational English, especially, is challenging. In addition to the other ways English is confusing when you want to speak like native English speakers, it means you must be familiar with slang, contractions, and cultural idioms.

So, how do you move from the textbook and the computer screen grammar practice to actually speaking English? To put it simply – you speak it! To become a fluent English speaker, you must make every effort to speak English daily and often.

However, many foreign language students find themselves struggling to find opportunities to practice speaking English. That’s where I come in. Below, you will find 15 ways to practice speaking English.

1. Talk to Yourself

First things first, you are going to need to get used to talking to yourself. No, this will not make you crazy! In fact, you will probably find you feel more comfortable trying out new English words and phrases alone before you try them out in conversation with someone else. When you find yourself alone in your home or dorm, talk aloud about what you are doing, such as describing the meal you are cooking.

2. Listen to Yourself

If you do not have anyone to practice English conversations, look for English language apps that have a recording tool. Use the recorder to record yourself speaking English and then listen to it. Do you sound like the English speaker you are repeating? Take note of what sounds and words you are struggling with and practice speaking them aloud into the recorder.

3. Watch Yourself Talk

Another unique way to practice speaking and build your confidence is to use a mirror. Yes – it sounds strange. But, by looking at yourself speak in the mirror, you will be able to see how your mouth moves and forms words, as well as your body language.

4. Read A Blog

Another unique way to practice speaking English is to read blogs that inspire and motivate you to learn more, such as www.jambujoseph.wordpress.com . Reading blogs is one of the most fun and effective ways to help improve your English language skills. Blogs help to expand your vocabulary and expose you to different sentence structures, all while you enjoy some wonderful stories.

5. Read Along with Subtitles

Whenever possible, you should use subtitles. While subtitles also help you learn how to read in English, you can also use the subtitles to practice reading aloud. When you read aloud, you are speaking.

6. Imitate What You Hear on TV

Find some television shows or movies that you enjoy watching. After watching, imitate the way the characters speak English. As you will come to learn, the tone affects the meaning in English conversation. By paying attention to the character’s tone and body language, you will have a better understanding of how to communicate in real life.

7. Use Video Messaging to Practice Speaking

If you have friends or family members who speak English and live abroad, you should take advantage of the many video messaging tools, such as Skype and Facetime, to practice speaking. In situations with friends and family, you will need to explain that you want to speak in English because they may assume you feel more comfortable speaking your native language.

8. Speak in English to a Virtual Assistant

Set up any virtual assistant tools you use (such as Siri, Google, or Amazon Alexa) to speak in English. Not only will the virtual assistant speak in English, but you must also speak English to get a response. Additionally, this is a great way to improve enunciation.

9. Order Food in English

Whenever you have go out to eat, order your food in English. This actually applies to anytime you are speaking with a customer service representative. When you are out in public, make an effort to speak to your waiters or store clerks in English.

10. Narrate Your Day

Whether alone or with a speaking partner, spend time each day narrating your day aloud. By speaking about your day, you will build up your conversational English skills, as two common English questions are “How was your day?” and “What did you do today?”

11. Make Commentaries in English

For those that are passionate about sports, use English to commentate sports games. Listen to English sports announcers and then mimic them. In addition to sports, you can also commentate video games in English and share them online.

12. Use a Messaging App

Another unique way to practice speaking in English is to download and use Whatsapp. Whatsapp is a messaging tool used by more than 1 billion people all over the world. In addition to using the app for video messaging and English conversations, the app is also a great way to connect with other English learners to practice.

13. Sing in English

Look for musicians and bands that sing in English that you enjoy. As you become familiar with their songs, sing them aloud! You can start with karaoke that allows you to read the lyrics while singing along. Singing is a great way to build your vocabulary and learn how to pronounce words.

14. Try Tongue Twisters

Brave souls should try to master popular English tongue twisters. These are funny one-sentence poems that involve rhyming and alliteration. Their similar sounds make them difficult to speak, so it is a fun challenge for English learners.

15. Engage With An English Teacher To Polish-Up Your Speaking.

Of course, the best way to practice speaking English is to Speak more of it everyday and more so with a professional.  In this regard, a teacher’s role is believed to hold great importance. Teachers initiate learners to the whole learning process, and their feedback constitutes the significant step forward that triggers learners towards enunciating a language. Speaking directly to an English teacher either by phone, video call or one on one is a truly immersive experience that can be used to reinforce what has already been learned in the classroom or as a remedial tool to help learners who require additional support.

Learning English Is A Lifestyle and Not An Act

The phrase “learning English is a lifestyle not an act” emphasizes that learning a language, particularly English, requires a long-term commitment and a daily effort, rather than a one-time or sporadic activity. Here are some detailed meanings and examples of how this phrase can apply in different situations:

  1. Consistency is key: To learn English, one needs to make it a part of their daily routine. This means dedicating time each day to learn new vocabulary, practice speaking, listening, reading, and writing in English. Consistency is crucial to building language skills over time. For instance, one can listen to English podcasts on their daily commute, read English news articles, and watch English movies in their free time to consistently immerse themselves in the language.
  2. Language learning is a gradual process: Language acquisition is not an event or an act but a continuous process. Learning English requires a long-term commitment to build a solid foundation of grammar, vocabulary, and pronunciation. One needs to set realistic goals and practice regularly to achieve fluency. For example, setting a goal to learn five new English words each day, and using them in sentences can be a way to slowly and steadily build vocabulary.
  3. Learning English is a lifestyle choice: Learning English requires adopting a lifestyle that incorporates the language into everyday activities. It is not just about studying for a test or an exam but rather a continuous effort to improve communication skills. One can attend English-speaking events, join English language groups, and even engage in English conversations with friends and family members. By integrating English into their daily life, learners can achieve fluency in a more meaningful and effective way.
  4. A willingness to make mistakes: Learning a new language can be daunting, but making mistakes is a part of the learning process. Learners need to be willing to make mistakes and learn from them to improve their skills. For instance, speaking English with a native speaker, even if it’s not perfect, can be a valuable learning opportunity.
  5. Learning English as a lifelong journey: Learning English is not a one-time event but a lifelong journey. Even after achieving fluency, one can continue to learn new words, phrases, and nuances of the language. Learning English can be a fulfilling and enjoyable experience that opens doors to new opportunities, experiences, and relationships.

Overall, the phrase “learning English is a lifestyle not an act” emphasizes that language learning requires a long-term commitment, a willingness to make mistakes, and a dedication to integrating the language into everyday life. By making English a part of their lifestyle, learners can achieve fluency and continue to improve their skills throughout their lifetime.

How to Study for an English Exam: 10 Helpful Habits

The day of your English exam is creeping closer and closer. In almost all cases, you’ll be tested on four different skills, not to mention your grammar and vocabulary knowledge…so where do you even start? 

Whether you’re studying for TOEFL, IELTS, or another English language exam, prepare like a winner with these 10 study tips. 

1. Understand the exam content and format

The main English tests are split into the same different competencies (speaking, listening, reading and writing). Avoid nasty surprises by finding out the typical exam questions for these competencies beforehand, and the time you will have to complete each question. 

You should also figure out the logistics before the day of your exam, including: 

  • The smaller details about the exam, such as how many times you will hear test recordings (if there are any test recordings in the first place) or what types of topics you will write about.
  • Where the test center is located, or whether you can take it online (if you’d prefer to). 
  • What you can bring to the test center on the day. 

Knowing all about your exam will help you with your next steps: establishing a focus and creating a solid plan.

2. Focus on your weaknesses

Before studying for your English exam, ask yourself: what areas am I weakest in?

Most of the time, all four language skills are weighted equally in an English language exam, so you shouldn’t spend much time on areas where you’re already strong. Put more of your time into improving your weaknesses.

If you’ve taken a similar exam in the past, look through it carefully and make notes on where you went wrong. Or, you can check your current skill level by taking a practice test right away. Either way, you will notice where you perform the worst out of listening, reading, writing and speaking. 

Many students consider listening the hardest part of the TOEFL exam, mainly because you have to respond to information that you hear only once. If you need to work on your listening skills quickly, then listening exercises with an English exam specialist will certainly help you prepare.

Wherever you need improvement, focus more of your study schedule on getting better, and you’ll certainly receive a better overall score for your exam. 

3. Make a practical study schedule (right now!)

There’s nothing worse than cramming last minute for an exam, and feeling “I should have prepared better for this!” If you don’t already have a study schedule in place, start one right now

Take a diary, an excel spreadsheet, or even just a big piece of paper that you can put on your wall and stick post-its on. Work backward from the day of your exam and list the days you have remaining. Split up your time wisely, focusing on your weakest areas, and try to fit in two or three sessions per day. According to research, the ideal work schedule is to work for 52 minutes and take a 17-minute break. Here’s an example of an effective day of studying:

  • 11.00-11.30: Vocabulary
  • 12.30-1.30: Writing – Write a 3-page journal entry in your target language.
  • 14.00-15:00: Listening – Listen to an English podcast and take notes of new vocabulary.
  • 15.30-16.30: Speaking – Chat with an English-speaking friend, exchange partner or English tutor. 

A study plan breaks down a huge amount of scary material into smaller, more manageable chunks, and you won’t be afraid that you’ve missed something. Plus, there’s nothing more satisfying than ticking “to-dos” off your schedule. When they’re all done, you’ll be confident knowing you worked hard and smart for your exam. 

4. Prepare faster with a tutor

Although the rest of the study techniques in this article are free, purchasing a package of private online lessons before your exam works wonders. A 1-on-1 tutor, is the most efficient way to sharpen your performance before an exam.

You can find many tutors who specialize in English language examsThese tutors know exactly what it takes to pass the English language exams from the experience of coaching students like you to success! They’ll be able to help you put your plan together, provide resources and focus on where you need to improve, and will enhance your speaking skills with 1-on-1 lessons (if that’s what you need). You can read the reviews and testimonials of each tutor to see if they suit your needs, and how they’ve helped learners just like you. 

Whether you need a quick boost of knowledge before your exam, or if your exam is months away, you can grow in confidence with professional tutors.

5. Expand your vocabulary

To ace an English language exam you need to show off an impressive range of vocabulary. One decades-old technique is flashcards, which drums new words into your head through repetition, repetition, repetition. Create your own by writing the word on one side, and the definition and an example sentence on the other. Then test yourself to see if you remember the definition and example. 

If you’ve got some extra minutes to spare, then you can use flashcards! Here are some of my favorites:

  • Quizlet: Create your own flashcards or use ready-made decks  to study English.
  • Preply: Import words your tutor shared in your online lessons, or add any word you want to learn! Download on the App Store or get it on Google Play.
  • Drops: Choose your topic and take fun, fast-paced games with colorful images to help you learn new words.

6. Write a daily journal in English

Writing a daily journal is not just great for your mind… it’s also a fantastic way to strengthen your ability to form sentences. 

Writing a journal is a great exercise to help you think in your target language and form sentences quickly. You’ll also spot which important, daily-use words are missing from your vocabulary. This means you can then look them up and add them to your flashcard app to memorize later. 

You should also bear in mind that both the IELTS and TOEFL exams include a section where you will be asked to write about your opinion, or describe something. This is where your journal will come in handy, as you’ll write about things, people, or events in your own life, as well as your opinion on them. 

A journal is also a great tool to stay motivated. Imagine looking back through a month of journal entries and seeing the progress you’ve made! The topics you write about in your journal will also give you great ideas for what to discuss when you practice your speaking skills.

7. Practice speaking regularly

You won’t find a greater language fluency “hack” than conversation. There’s something about real-life conversation that helps your language skills level up fast: you need to create sentences spontaneously which forces you to think about the right vocabulary, and you also receive listening practice and real-time feedback. 

One study by the University of Wisconsin-Madison found that language skills of learners who practice speaking exceed those who learn from comprehension exercises only. This is likely because our memories prioritize human-to-human experiences with emotions tied to them. Although flashcards and other study techniques are useful, in a live conversation, you get to implement all of the words and phrases you’ve practiced over time. 

8. Read as much as you can

Get into reading English material as much as possible. Reading allows you to take in the language at your own pace, and it’s also a fun and interesting way to develop your knowledge. Not just of the English language, but other subjects too! 

A little bit of reading every day or two helps a lot. You could read academic journals, books, or newspapers (materials that the IELTS Academic test is based on) or texts you often encounter in daily life: magazines, newspapers, novels or advertisements (which the IELTS General Training test is based on). Your reading material could be fact, fiction, or anything in between. You could also dive into some classic stories in English, where we have an entire list based on your current English level.

While you read, don’t be afraid to make a mess of your books and texts. Scribble down notes, definitions, and translations. This will help you recognize familiar words and how they are used in real sentences and expressions.

9. Don’t forget to listen!

Listening is not as active as speaking, reading or writing, so it’s probably not as difficult or important… right?

Thinking this way is a huge mistake, as research shows that when we communicate, we spend about 40-50% of the time listening. Compare that to the 25-30% speaking, and you’ve got a skill that definitely needs to be developed for your English exam. 

You can practice your listening skills in two ways: active listening or passive listening. Active listening means giving your full, committed attention to a podcast, YouTube video, or movie and writing notes as you listen. You can practice active listening while in conversation with an English tutor or language exchange partner, and take notes whenever you learn a new word or spot any gaps in your vocabulary. 

Passive listening is where you listen to a podcast or YouTube video while doing other activities, like cleaning your room or walking the dog. It still counts as listening practice, but it’s less focused and can be done in your “resting” times. For more practical ways to practice your listening, check out this article on English speaking exercises. 

Once you’ve topped up all the listening skills you need with these study habits, you will need to put everything you’ve learned into practice with the test material. 

10. Take a practice test

In our first tip, we recommended familiarizing yourself with the exam material, and understanding the type of answers that examiners want to see. But it’s not enough to just “know” what will get you the highest score. You need to put this into practice yourself. 

Fortunately, learning resources and official practice papers can be found for any of the tests online. Once you have downloaded the official TOEFLIELTS, or other relevant practice tests, sit somewhere without distractions, set a timer on your phone, and get to work on putting everything you’ve learned into practice. When you’ve finished, compare your work with best practice resources and answers from past exams. 

One tip is to try and simulate the exact experience of the exam date. If you want to take it a step further, you can drink a cup of coffee before you take a practice test. The adrenaline from the caffeine will produce a  similar feeling to the nerves you will have on the day. By simulating the exact experience, you will feel more calm and prepared when exam day comes. 

Sharpen your English skills

There’s an old Chinese proverb that says “I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand”. This means that the best approach to truly understand something is to practice regularly — not just learn about it in theory. The same principles apply to your English exam. 

Combine the expert guidance of a tutor with the helpful habits in this article, and you’ll be on your way to conquering the English exam. Good luck!

When The Student Is Ready The Teacher Will Appear

The phrase “when the student is ready the teacher will appear” can be interpreted in a variety of ways, but at its core, it emphasizes the importance of timing and readiness in the process of learning and growth. Here are some detailed meanings and examples of how this phrase can apply in different situations:

  1. The importance of being receptive to learning: The phrase suggests that when a person is truly open and receptive to learning, the right teacher or mentor will present themselves at the right time. For example, if a student is struggling with a particular subject in school and feels frustrated and resistant to learning, they may not be ready to receive help or guidance. However, if the student begins to approach the subject with a more open and curious mindset, a teacher or tutor may appear to offer them the support and resources they need to succeed.
  2. Trusting the timing of the learning process: The phrase also implies that the learning process unfolds at its own pace, and that it’s important to trust the timing of when new knowledge or insights will emerge. For example, a person may have a desire to learn a new skill or pursue a new passion, but if they rush into it too quickly without proper preparation or foundation, they may struggle to make progress. However, if they take the time to build a strong foundation and develop their skills gradually, the right opportunities and teachers may present themselves along the way to guide them on their journey.
  3. The role of synchronicity in learning: The phrase also suggests that there may be a deeper sense of synchronicity or serendipity at work in the process of learning and growth. For example, a person may meet a new teacher or mentor in a chance encounter or unexpected circumstance, and feel a strong sense of resonance or connection that inspires them to learn and grow in new ways.

Overall, the phrase “when the student is ready the teacher will appear” emphasizes the importance of readiness, openness, and trust in the process of learning and growth. It suggests that when we approach new challenges and opportunities with an open and receptive mindset, the right teachers and resources will appear to guide us on our path.

Best Motivational Short Stories About Personal Growth, Mindset, and Productivity

“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” — Nelson Mandela

Motivational short stories have the power to inspire us, shift our perspectives, and help us overcome challenges to become the best version of ourselves.

These stories can stay with us for a lifetime, providing valuable insights and lessons.

Elephant and the Rope Motivational Short Story

The elephant and the rope story is a metaphorical tale about how limiting beliefs and conditioning can hold us back from reaching our full potential.

In the story, a man comes across an elephant that is tied to a small rope.

Despite the fact that the elephant could easily break free from the rope, it does not even try to do so.

The man is curious and asks the trainer nearby why the elephant doesn’t attempt to break free.

The trainer explains that when the elephant was young, it was tied to the same rope and was not strong enough to break free.

As a result, the elephant became conditioned to believe that it was not capable of breaking the rope, even though it could do so easily as an adult.

The story is often used as a metaphor for how our own beliefs and conditioning can hold us back from achieving our full potential. Just like the elephant, we can become so conditioned to our own limitations that we may not even try to break free from them.

The lesson of the elephant and the rope is to recognize the limiting beliefs and conditioning that hold us back and to challenge them in order to achieve our full potential.

Empty Your Cup Motivational Short Story

The Zen Story of the Empty Cup is a parable that emphasizes the importance of having an open mind and being receptive to new ideas and experiences.

In the story, a scholar seeks out a Zen master to learn from him. The scholar proudly shows the Zen master all that he knows, but the master pours tea into the scholar’s cup until it overflows, demonstrating that the scholar’s mind is already full and cannot accept anything more.

The Zen master then tells the scholar that if he wants to learn, he must first empty his cup – that is, let go of his preconceptions and be open to new ideas and experiences.

The story is often used as a metaphor for personal growth and the importance of having an open mind. It emphasizes that we must let go of our preconceptions and be receptive to new ideas if we want to learn and grow.

The lesson of the story is to approach life with an open mind and a willingness to learn, rather than assuming that we already know everything.

Flea in the Jar Motivational Short Story

The story of the flea in the jar is a metaphorical tale about the limitations that we place on ourselves and how these limitations can become ingrained in our thinking over time.

In the story, a group of fleas are placed in a jar with a lid on it. The fleas initially try to jump out of the jar, but they keep hitting their heads on the lid.

Eventually, the fleas stop jumping as high and learn to live within the confines of the jar.

One day, the lid is removed from the jar, and the fleas are free to jump as high as they want.

However, even though they are no longer confined by the lid, the fleas continue to jump only as high as the lid used to be, as this has become the limit that they have imposed on themselves.

The story is often used as a metaphor for how our own beliefs and limiting thoughts can hold us back from achieving our full potential. Just like the fleas, we can become so used to living within certain limitations that we may not even realize we are capable of breaking free from them.

The lesson of the flea in the jar is to recognize the limitations we place on ourselves and to challenge them in order to reach our full potential.

Happiness is Within You Motivational Short Story

The “Happiness is Within You” story is a fable about a man who travels to a far-off land in search of happiness. He meets a wise old man who tells him that happiness is not found in distant places, but rather within oneself.

The wise man tells the traveler to seek out a certain tree in a nearby forest, which is said to hold the secret to true happiness.

The traveler searches for the tree, but when he finds it, he is disappointed to see that it looks like any other tree.

The wise man appears again and tells the traveler to cut the tree down and open it up. Inside, the traveler finds nothing but plain, unremarkable wood. Confused and frustrated, he asks the wise man what this means.

The wise man tells him that the true secret to happiness is not in external objects or circumstances, but rather in our own perception and attitude.

Happiness is not found in material things or in achieving external goals, but rather in cultivating an inner sense of peace, contentment, and gratitude.

The story is often used as a metaphor for the idea that true happiness comes from within, and that external factors can only provide temporary pleasure or satisfaction.

The lesson of the story is to focus on cultivating inner peace and contentment, rather than seeking happiness in external objects or circumstances.

Life is a Race Motivational Short Story

In this version, the story revolves around a young athletic boy who was hungry for success and measured his success only by winning.

He participated in a running competition and won two races, feeling proud and important.

He then pleaded for another race and was presented with two new challengers, an elderly frail old lady and a blind man.

As the race began, the boy noticed that the elderly lady and the blind man were struggling to run. Instead of rushing ahead, he slowed down and ran alongside them, encouraging them to keep going.

Together, they reached the finish line and the boy realized that the true victory was in helping others and enjoying the journey, rather than just winning.

The story is often used as a metaphor for the importance of slowing down, helping others, and savoring life’s moments.

It emphasizes that life is not just about winning races or achieving goals, but about enjoying the journey and being kind to others.

The lesson of the story is to appreciate the journey, help others along the way, and find joy in the process.

Life is Like a Cup of Coffee Motivational Short Story

The story goes like this:

A group of people were sitting in a coffee house, discussing life. As they talked, the conversation turned to the subject of life being like a cup of coffee.

One person said, “Life is like a cup of coffee. It all depends on how you make it.”

Another person said, “Yes, but you can’t control the water temperature, or the quality of the coffee beans.”

A third person added, “But you can control the amount of coffee and the strength of the brew.”

Then an older man, who had been listening quietly to the conversation, spoke up. He said, “Life is not like a cup of coffee, it’s the coffee cup that matters.

The cup is what holds the coffee and shapes its experience. And just like the cup, we need to focus on what’s around us, on what we have, and appreciate it.”

The group fell silent, pondering the old man’s words. The lesson of the story is that, like a cup of coffee, life is what we make of it.

We can choose to focus on what we have and appreciate it, or we can focus on what we lack and be discontent.

Ultimately, the cup that holds our life experiences is what matters, not the coffee inside.

Potato, Egg, or Coffee Bean Motivational Short Story

The story goes like this:

A young woman went to her mother and told her about the problems she was facing in life. She said she was tired of fighting and struggling and didn’t know how to keep going.

The mother took her to the kitchen and filled three pots with water. She placed each pot on a burner, turned on the heat, and put a potato in one pot, an egg in the second, and coffee beans in the third.

After a while, she turned off the burners and fished out the potato, egg, and coffee beans, and asked her daughter to observe them carefully.

The potato was soft and had become very weak. The egg, which had been fragile, now had a hardened shell inside. But the coffee beans had transformed the water into a rich and aromatic coffee.

The mother then explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity – boiling water. However, each of them had reacted differently.

The potato went in strong, firm, and hard, but in boiling water, it became soft and weak. The egg had been fragile and had a thin outer shell, but in boiling water, it had become hard inside.

The coffee beans, on the other hand, had changed the water and created something new.

The mother explained that we all face adversity, and how we react to it depends on us. We can either become weak, hard, or transform the situation into something positive.

The young woman realized that she had a choice – to be like a potato, an egg, or a coffee bean.

Puppies for Sales Motivational Short Story

The “Puppies for Sale” story is a fable about a man who sells puppies for a living.

One day, a young boy comes to the man’s shop and asks how much the puppies cost.

The man tells the boy the price, but adds that there is one puppy that he can have for free.

The boy is excited and asks to see the free puppy.

The man brings out the puppy, who is missing a leg and has a limp.

The boy asks why the puppy is different from the others, and the man explains that the puppy was born with a deformity and will never be able to run and play like the others.

The boy looks at the puppy for a moment and then turns to the man and says, “That’s the puppy I want.”

The man is surprised and asks the boy if he understands that the puppy will never be able to run and play like the others.

The boy responds, “I know he can’t run and play like other puppies, but I can love him and take care of him just like any other puppy.”

The story is often used as a metaphor for the value of compassion and acceptance.

It emphasizes that we should not judge others based on their physical appearance or abilities, but rather on their intrinsic worth and capacity for love.

The lesson of the story is to cultivate compassion and acceptance, and to value others for who they are, not just what they can do.

Rocks, Pebbles, Sand Motivational Short Story

The rocks, pebbles, and sand story is a metaphorical tale about the importance of prioritization and time management.

In the story, a teacher holds up a jar and fills it with rocks until they reach the top.

The teacher then asks the students if the jar is full, and they respond yes. However, the teacher then pours pebbles into the jar, which fill the spaces between the rocks.

The teacher again asks the students if the jar is full, and they respond yes. Finally, the teacher pours sand into the jar, which fills the remaining spaces between the rocks and pebbles.

The story is often used as a metaphor for how we prioritize and manage our time.

The rocks represent the most important tasks or goals in our lives, while the pebbles and sand represent the less important tasks or distractions.

If we fill our time with pebbles and sand first, there may not be enough time left for the rocks.

However, if we prioritize the rocks and then fill in the gaps with the pebbles and sand, we can accomplish our most important tasks or goals first and still have time for other tasks.

The lesson of the rocks, pebbles, and sand story is to prioritize our time and focus on the most important tasks or goals first in order to achieve success and fulfillment in our lives.

Self-Appraisal Motivational Short Story

The Self-Appraisal story is a parable that emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and self-reflection in personal and professional growth.

The story goes that a young man was seeking guidance from a wise elder on how to improve himself.

The elder gave him a task to complete, asking him to spend a week observing himself and writing down everything that he did that he felt was good, bad, or indifferent.

The young man completed the task and returned to the elder, presenting him with a long list of both positive and negative behaviors he had observed in himself.

The elder then gave him another task, asking him to spend the next week observing others and writing down everything that he saw that was good, bad, or indifferent.

When the young man returned with this second list, the elder compared the two lists and pointed out that the things that bothered him most in others were the same things he had observed in himself.

The elder used this realization as a starting point for the young man to work on himself and become more self-aware.

The story highlights the importance of taking the time for self-reflection and self-appraisal in order to identify areas for personal growth and development.

By understanding and addressing our own flaws, we can become more effective and successful individuals.

Sharpen Your Axe Motivational Short Story

The “Sharpen Your Axe” story is a fable about a man who is tasked with chopping down a tree.

The man sets to work using a dull axe, and despite his best efforts, he makes very little progress.

A wise old man comes by and asks the man why he is struggling. The man explains that he is trying to chop down the tree, but his axe is too dull.

The wise old man suggests that the man take a break and sharpen his axe.

The man is hesitant to take a break, feeling that he doesn’t have time to waste.

But the wise old man insists, explaining that sharpening the axe will actually make the task easier and more efficient.

The man finally takes a break and sharpens his axe.

When he returns to the task of chopping down the tree, he finds that it is much easier and faster with a sharp axe, and he is able to complete the task in no time.

The story is often used as a metaphor for the importance of taking breaks and investing time and effort into self-care, skill-building, and preparation.

It emphasizes that taking time to sharpen our tools and skills can actually save us time and effort in the long run, and make us more effective and efficient in our tasks.

The lesson of the story is to prioritize self-care and skill-building, and to not be afraid to take breaks or invest time and effort into preparation.

The Butterfly Motivational Short Story

“The Butterfly” is a motivational short story about the process of transformation and growth.  Sometimes this story is referred to as “You are Made to Fly.”

In the story, a man finds a cocoon with a small opening and notices a butterfly struggling to emerge.

The man decides to help the butterfly by widening the opening, but the butterfly continues to struggle and cannot fly properly.

The man soon realizes that the struggle to emerge from the cocoon is an important part of the butterfly’s development.

The effort and resistance of the struggle are necessary for the butterfly’s wings to become strong and for it to develop the ability to fly.

The story is often used as a metaphor for personal growth and the importance of facing challenges and struggles in order to achieve our full potential.

Just like the butterfly, we may encounter obstacles and difficulties in our lives, but these challenges can help us become stronger and more resilient.

If we avoid or eliminate all struggles, we may miss out on the growth and development that comes from overcoming them.

The lesson of the butterfly story is to embrace the struggles and challenges in our lives, as they are often necessary for our growth and development.

We should trust the process of transformation, even when it is difficult or uncomfortable, as it can lead to beautiful and meaningful outcomes.

The Fisherman Motivational Short Story

The story of “The Fisherman” is a metaphorical tale about the pursuit of happiness and the importance of living a simple, fulfilling life.

In the story, a successful businessman visits a small fishing village and meets a fisherman who is returning from a day of fishing.

The businessman asks the fisherman why he doesn’t fish for longer each day and use the extra time to grow his business.

The fisherman responds that he is content with his simple life, and that he fishes only enough to provide for his family and to spend time with them.

The businessman is confused by the fisherman’s contentment and explains that if he worked harder and saved more money, he could eventually retire and spend his days relaxing on a beach just like the fisherman.

The fisherman responds by asking why he would need to work so hard and wait so long to enjoy the simple pleasures of life when he can already do so now.

The story is often used as a metaphor for the pursuit of happiness and the importance of living a simple, fulfilling life.

It suggests that we often become so focused on achieving success and accumulating wealth that we forget the simple pleasures and joys of life that can be found in spending time with loved ones, pursuing hobbies, and enjoying the present moment.

The lesson of the fisherman story is to prioritize the things that truly bring us happiness and fulfillment in life, rather than pursuing a never-ending quest for more money, possessions, or success.

It reminds us to appreciate the simple pleasures of life and to focus on the things that matter most to us.

The Group of Frogs Motivational Short Story

The “Group of Frogs” story is a metaphorical tale that highlights the importance of perseverance and support.

In the story, a group of frogs decides to climb a tall tree. As they begin their climb, the other animals around them start criticizing and mocking them, telling them that they will never make it to the top.

Despite the discouragement, some of the frogs continue to climb while others give up and fall back down.

As the climb continues, the criticism and discouragement from the other animals only get louder.

But one frog, determined to reach the top, perseveres and eventually makes it to the top of the tree.

The other animals are amazed and congratulate the frog on his achievement.

When the other frogs ask the successful frog how he managed to persevere despite the criticism and discouragement, he reveals that he is actually deaf and couldn’t hear the negative comments.

He thought the other animals were cheering him on and supporting him.

The story is often used as a metaphor for the importance of perseverance, support, and positive thinking.

It emphasizes that negative comments and criticism can be a hindrance to success, but with perseverance and a positive mindset, we can overcome obstacles and achieve our goals.

The lesson of the story is to stay focused on our goals, believe in ourselves, and surround ourselves with positive influences.

The Retiring Carpenter Story Motivational Short Story

The retiring carpenter story goes like this:

A carpenter who had been working for a company for many years announced to his boss that he was ready to retire.

The boss was sorry to see such a good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house before he left.

The carpenter agreed, but it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work anymore. He resorted to using inferior materials and taking shortcuts wherever possible.

When the carpenter finished his work, the boss came to inspect the house. He then handed the front door key to the carpenter and said, “This is your house, my gift to you.”

The carpenter was shocked and embarrassed. If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it all differently.

The moral of the story is that every day we build our own lives, and we should always do our best work, even when no one is watching.

The Saint and the Scorpion Motivational Short Story

Once, a saint was walking by a riverbank when he saw a scorpion drowning in the water. The saint decided to help the scorpion and reached out to grab it.

However, as soon as the saint touched the scorpion, it stung him.

Despite the pain, the saint did not let go and instead gently pulled the scorpion out of the water.

As he did so, the scorpion stung him again and again.

A passerby saw the saint struggling with the scorpion and asked why he was helping it when it was only causing him pain.

The saint replied, “It is the nature of the scorpion to sting, and it is my nature to help. Why should I give up my nature to help just because it causes me pain?”

The story teaches us that it is important to help others, even if they may not appreciate it or even harm us in return. It is our nature to be compassionate, and we should not give up on that just because it may be difficult or uncomfortable.

The Starfish Motivational Short Story

The “Starfish Story” is a fable about a man walking along a beach that is covered in starfish that have been washed ashore. As the man walks, he notices a young girl picking up starfish one by one and throwing them back into the ocean.

The man approaches the girl and asks why she is bothering to throw the starfish back into the ocean, as there are too many for her to make a difference.

The girl responds by picking up another starfish and throwing it into the ocean, saying, “I made a difference to that one.”

The story is often used as a metaphor for the power of individual action and the importance of making a difference in the world, even if we can’t solve every problem.

It emphasizes that every small act of kindness and compassion can make a difference to someone, and that we should not be discouraged by the scale of the problems we face.

The lesson of the story is to focus on the good we can do in the world, and to take action in our own lives to make a positive difference, no matter how small.

The Tale of the Pencil Motivational Short Story

The Tale of the Pencil is a metaphorical story that emphasizes the idea that everyone has unique strengths and weaknesses that can be used to create something beautiful and meaningful.

In the story, a pencil maker tells the pencil five important lessons as it goes through life.

First, the pencil maker says that everything that happens to the pencil is part of its sharpening process.

Second, the pencil maker reminds the pencil that it can always correct its mistakes.

Third, the pencil maker tells the pencil that what’s inside it – the lead – is what’s most important.

Fourth, the pencil maker says that the pencil will be useful only if it allows itself to be held and guided by the hand that holds it.

Finally, the pencil maker reminds the pencil that eventually it will be left behind, but the marks it leaves behind will make a difference.

The story is often used as a metaphor for personal growth and the idea that everyone has unique strengths and weaknesses that can be used to create something meaningful.

It emphasizes that we should accept ourselves for who we are, learn from our mistakes, focus on what’s most important, be guided by others, and make our mark on the world in a positive way.

The Two Shoe Salesman Motivational Short Story

The Two Shoe Salesman story is a well-known parable that illustrates the power of perspective and attitude.

The story goes that two shoe salesmen were sent by a shoe company to a foreign country to assess the market for their product.

The first salesman arrived and immediately sent a message back to the company saying, “There is no potential here – nobody wears shoes.”

The second salesman arrived and sent a message back saying, “This is a fantastic opportunity – nobody wears shoes!”

The story demonstrates how two people can look at the same situation and interpret it completely differently based on their mindset and attitude.

The second salesman had a positive outlook and saw the potential in the situation, while the first salesman had a negative outlook and saw only the obstacles.

This story is often used to illustrate the power of a growth mindset and the importance of maintaining a positive attitude in order to succeed in any situation.

Onward and Upward

Motivational short stories have the power to inspire, uplift, and transform us. They remind us that no matter what challenges we face in life, we have the strength and resilience to overcome them.

By reading and reflecting on these stories, we can tap into our own inner strength and find the courage to pursue our dreams, overcome obstacles, and become the best version of ourselves.

So let us continue to seek out and share these stories, and let them guide us on our journey towards greatness.

55 Ways In Which Learning The English Language Can Make You Rich

As an English language teacher, I cannot guarantee that learning English will make you rich, but it can certainly provide you with many opportunities for personal and professional growth. Here are some ways in which learning English could potentially help you become successful:

  1. Opens up opportunities for international business partnerships
  2. Increases chances of employment with multinational corporations
  3. Allows for participation in global conferences and events
  4. Facilitates communication with tourists and visitors from English-speaking countries
  5. Provides access to a wider range of information and resources online
  6. Enables better understanding of English-language movies, books, and music
  7. Enhances ability to communicate with English-speaking colleagues and clients
  8. Boosts confidence when speaking in public
  9. Improves chances of getting a promotion or salary increase
  10. Increases chances of being accepted into an English-speaking university
  11. Makes it easier to travel to English-speaking countries
  12. Enables effective communication with English-speaking medical professionals
  13. Facilitates communication with English-speaking lawyers and legal experts
  14. Improves job prospects in fields such as journalism and translation
  15. Provides access to English-language academic journals and research
  16. Improves communication skills in general, which is useful in any profession
  17. Increases chances of success in job interviews
  18. Enables better understanding of English-language technology and software
  19. Facilitates communication with English-speaking suppliers and vendors
  20. Provides access to English-language training and development resources
  21. Improves chances of being selected for international exchange programs
  22. Enables participation in English-language volunteer programs
  23. Increases chances of being hired by English-speaking charities and NGOs
  24. Facilitates communication with English-speaking government officials
  25. Improves chances of obtaining funding from English-speaking investors
  26. Enhances ability to network with English-speaking professionals
  27. Provides access to English-language mentoring and coaching
  28. Enables participation in English-language competitions and contests
  29. Enhances ability to negotiate with English-speaking partners
  30. Improves chances of obtaining scholarships for further study
  31. Facilitates communication with English-speaking customer service representatives
  32. Enables participation in English-language sports and fitness programs
  33. Increases chances of being selected for English-language cultural exchange programs
  34. Enhances ability to write effective emails and letters in English
  35. Improves chances of securing English-language sponsorships
  36. Provides access to English-language self-help and personal development resources
  37. Improves understanding of English-language news and current events
  38. Enables participation in English-language online communities and forums
  39. Increases chances of being selected for English-language internships
  40. Facilitates communication with English-speaking mentors and coaches
  41. Improves chances of being selected for English-language talent shows and competitions
  42. Enhances ability to communicate with English-speaking musicians and artists
  43. Improves chances of being published in English-language journals and magazines
  44. Provides access to English-language job boards and recruiting websites
  45. Increases chances of being selected for English-language study abroad programs
  46. Enhances ability to communicate with English-speaking fashion designers and models
  47. Improves chances of being selected for English-language writing programs and workshops
  48. Provides access to English-language digital marketing resources and tools
  49. Facilitates communication with English-speaking scientists and researchers
  50. Improves chances of being selected for English-language theater and film productions
  51. Enhances ability to communicate with English-speaking chefs and restaurateurs
  52. Increases chances of being selected for English-language beauty pageants
  53. Improves chances of securing English-language sponsorships for sports and events
  54. Provides access to English-language online courses and certifications
  55. Enhances ability to communicate with English-speaking photographers and videographers

3 WAYS TO BUILD CONFIDENCE IN SPEAKING ENGLISH

Learning to speak English is no picnic. Between all the new words, grammar, pronunciation, and colloquialisms, it’s easy for a student to start feeling insecure about their command of the language even if they’re doing well in their English school classes. 

Unfortunately, this insecurity often gets in the way of learning a second language because it makes the student too shy to actually use English in a conversation, therefore depriving them of some much-needed practice. This only gets worse if the student is suffering from a speech impediment such as stuttering. 

The good news is, you can develop your English-speaking confidence over time. In order to help you do just that, I have prepared a list of 3 ways to become more confident when speaking a new language. Read on to learn more. 

HOW TO BE CONFIDENT WHILE SPEAKING ENGLISH?

First off, it’s important to note that you’re not alone. Being insecure about your ability to speak a foreign language is a common difficulty many English students face. It’s also a difficulty that countless people have overcome in the past, and you’re no exception! 

By using these 3 techniques, you’ll be speaking English confidently in no time:

1. READ OUT LOUD

One of the best ways to practice speaking fluidly and clearly is by reading out loud. You can do this regardless of what your English level may be. Simply grab a short article and practice reading it in front of a mirror and listening to the way you articulate the words. 

Once you’ve built up some confidence that way, you can begin reading aloud to a family member or a friend. As your English improves, you can graduate to longer and more complex texts. 

2. LEARN IN SMALLER GROUPS

Even native English speakers can get nervous when they have to speak in front of a large audience. This is one of the major reasons why enlisting in an English language school like Popodoo that keeps the number of students in each class low is so important. 

When the class is small, not only will the English teacher be able to devote more time to individual students, the students themselves will get to know each other better and share stories of funny miscommunications. This will all serve to create a more relaxed learning environment.

3. PLAY MULTIPLAYER GAMES THAT RELY ON COMMUNICATION

If you’re into video games, a great way to practice your English and build up your confidence is by playing online games that require you to verbally communicate with the other members of your team. This way, you’ll be having fun while also getting used to talking to others. 

If video games don’t interest you, you can also join online conversation groups that are specifically designed to enable you to talk to native or near-native English speakers from the comfort of your home. 

Shopping Quotes!

  1. “Whoever said money can’t buy happiness simply didn’t know where to go shopping.” – Bo Derek

This quote suggests that shopping can bring happiness to people who enjoy it, regardless of whether or not money can actually buy happiness.

  1. “I always say shopping is cheaper than a psychiatrist.” – Tammy Faye Bakker

The idea behind this quote is that shopping can be therapeutic and can help alleviate stress, anxiety, or other emotional problems.

  1. “Shopping is my therapy.” – Unknown

Similar to the previous quote, this one suggests that shopping can help people feel better by providing a temporary escape from their problems.

  1. “Shopping is a woman thing. It’s a contact sport like football. Women enjoy the scrimmage, the noisy crowds, the danger of being trampled to death, and the ecstasy of the purchase.” – Erma Bombeck

This quote is a humorous take on shopping, suggesting that women enjoy the adrenaline rush that comes with finding a good deal or buying something they really want.

  1. “I love shopping. There is a little bit of magic found in buying something new. It is instant gratification, a quick fix.” – Rebecca Bloom

This quote highlights the instant gratification that comes with shopping, suggesting that it can provide a quick boost of happiness.

  1. “Shopping is my cardio.” – Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City

This quote suggests that shopping can be a form of exercise, or at least an alternative to it.

  1. “The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it.” – Oscar Wilde

This quote suggests that giving in to the temptation to shop can be the only way to satisfy the desire to buy something.

  1. “When in doubt, go shopping.” – Unknown

This quote suggests that shopping can be a way to distract oneself or fill time when feeling uncertain or indecisive.

  1. “The best things in life are free. The second best are very expensive.” – Coco Chanel

This quote suggests that although some of the best things in life are free, expensive items can also be enjoyable or worthwhile.

  1. “Shopping is not about buying things, it’s about spending time with friends and family.” – Anonymous

This quote suggests that shopping can be a social activity that brings people together.

  1. “I always say shopping is like a treasure hunt, and there’s always something new to discover.” – Rachel Roy

This quote highlights the excitement and thrill of discovering new things while shopping.

  1. “When women are depressed, they eat or go shopping. Men invade another country. It’s a whole different way of thinking.” – Elayne Boosler

This quote is a humorous take on the different ways men and women cope with stress or depression.

  1. “I shop, therefore I am.” – Anonymous

This quote suggests that shopping is an important part of one’s identity or sense of self.

  1. “I love to go shopping and see what catches my eye.” – Victoria Beckham

This quote highlights the pleasure that comes from finding something that catches one’s attention or sparks joy.

  1. “I like my money right where I can see it…hanging in my closet.” – Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City

This quote suggests that shopping can be a way to invest in oneself or one’s wardrobe.

  1. “I’m a shopaholic on a budget.” – Unknown

This quote suggests that shopping can be enjoyable even when one is limited by financial constraints.

  1. “Who needs a therapist when you can go shopping?” – Unknown

Similar to other quotes, this one suggests that shopping can be therapeutic or a form of self-care.

How Changing Your Language Can Change Your Life!

“All our words from loose using have lost their edge.” — Ernest Hemingway

The words we use and the words we choose can shape our moments and our lives.

Have you ever experienced a great leader who never gets stuck?  They are always asking things like, “What’s the opportunity?” or “What the next step?” or “How can we use this?”

They use their words to create a better experience in every moment.

Your Language Reflects Your Personality

It turns out that our language reflects fundamental dimensions of personality.  In the book, 59 Seconds: Think a Little, Change a Lot, Richard Wiseman says that research shows that things like handwriting analysis and graphology don’t work.

Instead, it’s the words we use that provide the greatest insight into real character.

Changing Your Language, Changes Your Life

I’m a believer that language is empowering and you can use this.  I believe the key is from finding the words that move you and make you … and avoid the words that paralyze or break you.

Changing your language, changes your life.

We live in the age of insight.  It’s easy to browse the Web to find and explore new ways to say things or express ourselves more fully.

10 Ways to Use the Power of Language

Here are examples of ways to use words to shape your life:

  1. Find interesting words to express specific concepts.  I’ve always been a fan of expanding my vocabulary, and learning new languages.  I love it when a word perfectly expresses an idea.  For example, ikigai roughly translates to “the reason for which you wake up in the morning.”
  2. Choose metaphors that evoke your best imagery.  What does life mean to you?  Is it a tragedy or a comedy?  Maybe it’s a sitcom.  For me, it’s more like an epic adventure.  For you, maybe it’s more like a dance.  The people that dance with life, find a way to go with the flow, and bend instead of break.  It’s the willow way.
  3. Study Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). In simple terms, NLP is a way to program success.  It’s a tool for personal excellence.  It was popularized by Tony Robbins as a way to model and replicate the success of others.   According to Wikipedia, you can think of neuro-linguistic programming as “(‘neuro’), language (‘linguistic’) and behavioral patterns that have been learned through experience (‘programming’) and can be organized to achieve specific goals in life.”   If you study NLP, you can learn ways to dramatically improve your precision and accuracy of language.  You can then use it to reshape your thinking, feeling, and doing.
  4. Quotes.  I am a fan of quotes (did you notice my Great Quotes collection?).  As Sean Platt of Writer Dad says, “Life is better with the right words.” It’s so true, especially when we find just the right quote, that says it just the right way.  One of the reasons why I build out these quotes collections is to put the wisdom of the ages and modern sages right at our finger tips.  Quotes are “wisdom that sticks.”
  5. One-liner reminders.  This is similar to quotes, but in this case, the idea is to create some pithy prose that makes an idea stick.  It’s a great way to turn insight into action.  In fact, one way I remind myself to take what I learn and apply it is the one-liner reminder:  “Turn insight into action.”  Related to this, I also use the reminder, “Find three take aways.”   I use one-liner reminders to build new habits or practice new skills.  For example, the way I learned to improve my influence was “ask, don’t tell.”  It helped me to start asking better questions, and to pose better questions to help bring others along.
  6. Ask better questions.  You can use questions to build a wondering mind, and to explore new ideas.  People that get stuck or limit themselves tend to ask limiting questions, or they don’t ask questions at all.  Asking questions puts you in a more resourceful state.  Your mind is a powerful problem solver, but you need to ask it the right questions.  Here is a set of 101 Questions that Empower You to get you started.
  7. Model the leader.  Leaders tend to have a way with words.   The words they use help express conviction.  The words they use help express vision and opportunity.  Here are some of the words some of my favorite leaders use in their vocabulary:   learning moment, leadership opportunity,  challenge, win, excellence, connection, conviction, vision, etc.    Rob White of Mind Adventures is a great example of using inspiring words. mental models, and mantras for personal empowerment and self-leadership.
  8. Leverage patterns and pattern languages.  Patterns create a shared vocabulary.  If you haven’t explored patterns and pattern languages before, your world is about to rock.   Patterns are simply named problem and solution pairs.  The benefit is that you can build a simple language around the expert knowledge within a domain.  For example, Christopher Alexander developed pattern languages to share architectural solutions.  The beauty is you can use a single word to express a hundred-word concept.  In software development, one of the ways we rapidly share expertise is through patterns.  Beyond software, a great example of patterns in practice is the collection of Fearless Change: Patterns for Introducing New Ideas, which creates a vocabulary for driving change leadership.   I also have a post on The Power of Patterns.
  9. Make it a mantra.    According to Wikipedia, a mantra is “a sound, syllable, word, or group of words that is considered capable of ‘creating transformation.’  One of my mantras is, “stand strong when tested.”  Another is, “lead by example.”
  10. Choose your words to use your words.   In nearly every scenario where you say you “HAVE TO” do something, there is really a choice.   The choice may not be attractive, but that’s exactly why you are choosing the choice that you are.  Empower yourself by swapping out more “HAVE TO”s with “CHOOSE TO”s.   You will gradually break the ties that bind you, including your own.

Shape your words, shape your life.

Always remember that YOU are your most important meaning maker in your life.

Choose your words and use your words with skill.

WHAT ARE THE DIFFICULTIES OF LEARNING ENGLISH AS A SECOND LANGUAGE?

Learning a new language is one of the hardest things your brain can do. Not only do you have to mentally transfer linguistically complex structures between the two languages, you also need to learn how to think in a different language.

For this reason, learning English takes a lot of hard work and dedication, and is best done as a part of a specialized course that has been optimized to solve the challenges students face in an effective manner. 

Here are the 4 biggest challenges English students face:

1. SPELLING

Many words that are otherwise unrelated and are spelled differently sound the same when spoken (for instance, “pair” vs “pear”). This isn’t a big problem in speech as people can usually understand what you mean from the context of what you’re saying, but grasping these spelling differences is vital if you want to be an effective written communicator.

2. PRONUNCIATION

English isn’t a phonetic language, which means words are spelled differently from the way they’re spoken. Words that are spelled exactly the same may be spoken completely differently (for example, root, plant, rug, bag, chatter etc.) Understanding these words is crucial in order to understand both written and spoken English.

3. IDIOMS AND SLANG

This area tends to be especially problematic for students because it’s hard to teach in the classroom. Slang encompasses all the casual language that’s used in day-to-day speech. It isn’t necessarily grammatically correct, and may even sound nonsensical if you don’t know the context it’s spoken in.

The best way for students to master slang and colloquialisms is through talking to native speakers, listening to pop culture (movies, TV, etc.), and doing other things to immerse themselves in the English language. This will serve a natural learning process that will help them pick up on cues such as voice tone and nonverbal cues. 

4. VARIATIONS OF THE LANGUAGE

When it comes to the sheer number of native and non-native speakers, English is the biggest language in the world. Over time, this has caused many variations of it to appear and evolve differently in different parts of the world. Accents, dialects, local phrases, slang, and other variations all play a role in this. 

This can be a serious problem for English students who encounter distinctive variants such as Scottish English for the first time. Being aware of these differences beforehand and taking them into account when communicating is crucial in order to avoid confusion. 

6 Incredible Benefits of Learning English

1. Cognitive Flexibility or Stretching Your Brain

One of the greatest benefits of learning any second language is cognitive flexibility or, in other words, how stretchy your brain is.

People who speak two languages must learn to identify which language they need to speak and when they should speak it. They must be able to easily switch between the two languages.

In adults, cognitive flexibility shows itself when we try to describe objects.

When you learn a language, you are learning more words and making more associations between words. This is helpful when communicating in English, but it can also be helpful for communicating in your native language.

In his paper on cognitive flexibility and language, author Gedeon explains that for adult learners, flexibility displays itself in the associations we make with words. Understanding a joke or choosing a descriptive word can both be signs of cognitive flexibility.

So, pick up your textbook or open those English-learning apps and get studying.

Not only will you learn English but you will also improve your brain’s flexibility in other areas.

2. Cultural Awareness and Traveling the World

Learning a second language can also teach you about a second culture, as language is a key aspect of culture.

When you begin learning English, you will immerse yourself in the culture of English-speaking countries.

In order to learn English, you may start to watch movies or shows made in America, England and other countries. Or, you may practice English by speaking to a native speaker, which will help you begin to understand their culture.

You may also learn about other cultures through travel.

Learning English allows you to travel to countries across the globe and interact with the people and the cultures there. As you do, you will also learn more about what makes your culture unique.

The more you travel and the more you learn, the more unique your perspective will be.

Don’t miss the opportunity to experience new cultures around the world!

3. Confidence, Life Improvement and Long-term Learning

Language learning boosts confidence.

The beginning stages of learning English may be challenging, but they will help you improve your confidence.

When you learn a language, you need to accept that you will make mistakes. It’s important to practice anyway and take risks until you see improvement.

Be proud of yourself for trying even when you do make mistakes! You’ll build confidence in your English-speaking abilities but also in yourself.

Learning a language can also lead to improved learning in other areas.

You’ll create patterns of learning that can be applied to the rest of your life. A research report from the University of London entitled “Learning, Continuity and Change in Adult Life” showed that continued learning (such as language learning) through adult life leads to a happier lifestyle.

4. Creativity and English Entertainment

Learning a second language can help you think more creatively.

As we mentioned before, learning English can help your brain become more flexible. This flexibility can lead to increased creativity in problem-solving and in the way you interact with the world around you.

You can also practice creativity by engaging in more art. Because English is spoken by so many people around the world, it’s one of the primary languages of entertainment.

Many movies, television shows, songs and books were originally created in English.

By learning the language, you can experience art and entertainment in its native language. Engaging with creative media will help make you more creative.

5. Connection: Building Relationships Through English Learning

One of the great things about learning English is that it connects you to people around the world. English is a social language, and learning is a social skill.

As you begin studying English, you may practice by having one-on-one conversations with English speakers or other students learning English. You may join study groups or find a pen pal. You will meet English speakers in classes and in your travels.

The Universiti Sains Malaysia conducted a study to ask students if they felt they could learn English through Facebook. The results showed that students did consider Facebook to be an essential learning tool.

Other social media sites can also be a great place to practice English and make connections with people around the world who are also learning English.

6. Success in Business and Education

Finally, learning English can lead to greater success.

English is often the primary language used in academia. This means that studying English can open up a world of possibilities for your future.

You can attend a prestigious (good/impressive) school taught in English, you can take classes on almost any subject imaginable and your own academic pursuits can be obtained.

The business industry also relies heavily on the English language.

Many jobs require English fluency. In fact, the demand for employees who can speak more than one language has doubled in recent years, according to the New American Economy, a research organization.

Even when English isn’t required, it’s a valuable skill that puts you ahead of the competition.

Knowing English can lead to promotions at work and better opportunities. This can lead to more money and a better job.

By learning English, you will expand your world and your opportunities.

You’ll benefit from personal success, knowing that you accomplished your goal and changed your life for the better. There are so many reasons to study English. What’s your motivation?

50 Ways To Fuel A Conversation

  1. Be the first to say hello.
  2. Introduce yourself to others.
  3. Take risks and anticipate success.
  4. Remember your sense of humor.
  5. Practice different ways of starting a conversation.
  6. Make an extra effort to remember people’s names.
  7. Ask a person’s name if you’ve forgotten it.
  8. Show curiosity and sincere interest in finding out about others.
  9. Tell others about the important events in your life. Don’t wait for them to draw it out.
  10. Demonstrate that you are listening by restating their comments in another way.
  11. Communicate enthusiasm and excitement about your subjects and life in general.
  12. Go out of your way to try to meet new people wherever you are.
  13. Accept a person’s right to be an individual with different ideas and beliefs.
  14. Let the natural person in you come out when talking with others.
  15. Be able to succinctly tell others – in a few short sentences – what you do.
  16. Reintroduce yourself to someone who is likely to have forgotten your name.
  17. Be ready to tell others something interesting or challenging about what you do.
  18. Be aware of open and closed body language.
  19. Smile, make eye contact, offer a handshake, and go find the approachable person.
  20. Greet people that you see regularly.
  21. Seek common interests, goals, and experiences with the people you meet.
  22. Make an effort to help people if you can.
  23. Let others play the expert.
  24. Be open to answering common ritualistic questions.
  25. Be enthusiastic about other people’s interests.
  26. See that the time is balanced between giving and receiving information.
  27. Be able to speak about a variety of topics and subjects.
  28. Keep up to date on current events and issues that affect our lives.
  29. Be willing to express your feelings, opinions, and emotions to others.
  30. Use “I” when you speak about your own feelings and personal things, rather than ‘you’.
  31. Visually show others that you are enjoying your conversation with them.
  32. Be ready to issue invitations to others to join you for other events/activities to further the relationship.
  33. Find ways to keep in touch with friends and acquaintances you meet.
  34. Seek out others’ opinions.
  35. Look for the positive in those you meet.
  36. Start and end your conversations with the person’s name and handshake or warm greeting.
  37. Take the time to be friendly with your neighbors and coworkers.
  38. Let others know that you would like to get to know them better.
  39. Ask others about things that they have told you in previous conversations.
  40. Listen carefully for free informations.
  41. Be ready to ask open-minded questions to learn more.
  42. Change the topic of conversation when if has run its course.
  43. Always search for the things that really get another excited.
  44. Compliment others about what they are wearing, doing, or saying.
  45. Encourage others to talk to you by sending out positive signals.
  46. Make an effort to see and talk to people you enjoy.
  47. When you tell a story, present the main point first and then add the supporting details.
  48. Include everyone in the group in conversation whenever possible.
  49. Look for signs of boredom or lack of interest from you listener.
  50. Prepare ahead of time for each social or business function.

Children Learn What They Live

If a child lives with criticism,

He learns to condemn.

If a child lives with ridicule,

He learns to be shy.

If a child lives with shame,

He learns to feel guilty.

If a child lives with tolerance,

He learns to be patient.

If a child lives with encouragement,

He learns confidence.

If a child lives with praise,

He learns to appreciate.

If a child lives with fairness,

He learns justice.

If a child lives with security,

He learns to have faith.

If a child lives with approval,

He learns to like himself.

If a child lives with acceptance & friendship,

He learns to find love in the world.

"in pursuit of GREATNESS"