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7 Steve Jobs quotes that can change your life

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He came, he saw, he conquered…and he left behind some words to live by:

1. “I’m convinced that about half of what separates successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance.”

Everyone says they go the extra mile. Almost no one actually does. Most people who do go there think, “Wait…no one else is here…why am I doing this?” And they leave, never to return.

That’s why the extra mile is such a lonely place.

That’s also why the extra mile is a place filled with opportunities.

Be early. Stay late. Make the extra phone call. Send the extra email. Do the extra research. Help a customer unload or unpack a shipment.

Don’t wait to be asked — offer. Don’t just tell employees what to do — show them what to do, and work beside them.

Every time you do something, think of one extra thing you can do…especially if other people aren’t doing that extra thing.

Sure, it’s hard. But that’s what will make you different.

And over time, that’s what will make you incredibly successful.

2. “My favorite things in life don’t cost any money. It’s really clear that the most precious resource we all have is time.”

Deadlines and time frames establish parameters, but usually not in a good way. Most people given two weeks to complete a task will instinctively adjust their effort so it actually takes two weeks — even if it shouldn’t.

So forget deadlines, at least as a way to manage your activity. Tasks should only take as long as they need to take. Do everything as quickly and effectively as you can. Then, use your “free” time to get other things done just as quickly and effectively.

Average people allow time to impose its will on them; exceptional people impose their will on their time.

3. “My model for business is The Beatles. They were four guys who kept each other’s kind of negative tendencies in check. They balanced each other, and the total was greater than the sum of the parts. That’s how I see business: Great things in business are never done by one person, they’re done by a team of people.”

Some of your employees drive you nuts. Some of your customers are obnoxious. Some of your friends are selfish, all-about-me jerks.

Stop whining. You chose them.

If the people around you make you unhappy, it’s not their fault. It’s your fault. They’re in your professional or personal life because you drew them to you — and you let them remain.

Think about the type of people you want to work with. Think about the types of customers you would enjoy serving. Think about the friends you want to have.

Then change what you do so you can start attracting those people. Hardworking people want to work with hardworking people. Kind people like to associate with kind people.

Exceptional employees want to work for exceptional bosses. (Here’s what exceptional bosses look like.)

Be the best you can be, and work to surround yourself with people who are even better.

4. “Sometimes when you innovate, you make mistakes. It is best to admit them quickly, and get on with improving your other innovations.”

Ask most people why they have been successful. Their answers will be filled with personal pronouns like “I” and “me.” Only occasionally will you hear “we.”

Then ask them why they failed. Most will revert to childhood and instinctively distance themselves, like a kid who says, “My toy got broken…” instead of, “I broke my toy.” They’ll say the economy tanked. They’ll say the market wasn’t ready. They’ll say their suppliers couldn’t keep up.

They’ll say it was someone or something else.

And by distancing themselves, they don’t learn from their failures.

Occasionally, something completely outside our control will cause us to fail. Most of the time, though, it’s us. And that’s OK. Every successful person has failed. Numerous times. That’s why they’re successful now.

Embrace every failure. Own it, learn from it, and take full responsibility for making sure that next time, things will turn out differently.

5. “Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.”

Lou Dematteis / Reuters

Don’t know what you’re passionate about? No problem. Pick something interesting. Pick something financially viable — something people will pay you to do or provide.

Then work hard. Improve your skills, whether at managing, selling, creating, implementing…whatever expertise your business requires. The satisfaction and fulfillment of small victories will give you the motivation to keep working hard. Small victories will motivate you to further develop your skills.

The satisfaction of achieving one level of success will spur you on to gain the skills to reach the next level, and the next, and the next.

And one day you will wake up feeling incredibly fulfilled — because you’re doing great work, work you’ve grown to love.

6. “Innovation distinguishes between a leader and a follower.”

Ideas without action aren’t ideas.

They’re regrets.

Every day, most people let hesitation and uncertainty stop them from acting on an idea. (Fear of the unknown and fear of failure are often what stop me, and they may be what stop you, too.)

Think about a few of the ideas you’ve had, whether for a new business, a new career, or even just a part-time job.

In retrospect, how many of your ideas could have turned out well, especially if you had given it your absolute best? Would a decent percentage have turned out well?

My guess is, probably so — so start trusting your analysis, your judgment, and even your instincts a little more.

You certainly won’t get it right all the time, but if you do nothing and allow your ideas to become regrets…you will always get it wrong.

7. “Bottom line is, I didn’t return to Apple to make a fortune. I’ve been very lucky in my life and already have one. When I was 25, my net worth was $100 million or so. I decided then that I wasn’t going to let it ruin my life. There’s no way you could ever spend it all, and I don’t view wealth as something that validates my intelligence.”

Money is important. Money does a lot of things. (One of the most important is to create choices.)

But after a certain point, money doesn’t make people happier. After about $75,000 a year, money doesn’t buy more (or less) happiness. “Beyond $75,000…higher income is neither the road to experience happiness nor the road to relief of unhappiness or stress,” says a study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

And if you don’t buy that, here’s another take: “The materialistic drive and satisfaction with life are negatively related.” (In layman’s terms, “Chasing possessions tends to make you less happy.”)

Think of it as the bigger house syndrome. You want a bigger house. You need a bigger house. (Not really, but it sure feels like you do.) So you buy it. Life is good…until a couple months later, when your bigger house is now just your house.

New always becomes the new normal.

That’s because “things” only provide momentary bursts of happiness. To be happier, don’t chase as many things. Chase experiences.

Someday you won’t remember what you had… but you’ll never forget what you did.

5 Nuggets for February.

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1) “Someday is Today”
Stop procrastinating and creating excuses for why you can’t have what you want. Take control. Announce to yourself “someday is today” everyday,  to seize the day and eradicate an excuse mentality.           
2) “Have More Fear if Regret Than Failure”
Remind yourself that the feeling of regret is much more worse than trying something (even if it doesn’t work out) and living with no regrets.
3) “I Only Have Good Days”
Remember the only thing in the world we have control over is our perspective. You can choose to adapt a consistently positive perspective and find the good in everything.
4) “Opportunities Lie Within Every Obstacle”
It can be tough to dig deep and find the positive,  especially when confronted by challenges. But if you choose the positive,  you will find the opportunity and nuggets of wisdom in every obstacle that presents itself in your life.
5) “Live With Passion and Purpose”
Stop asking “what should I be doing” and start understanding “who you want to be” What do you want your legacy to be?  As you reflect, you will  begin to understand your purpose.

The Anatomy of J.A.M.B.U

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DONOY

Still winning coz I never quit
Still feels like the first night together
Still giving praise&glory to the one&only
Still the lastborn, greying up, over pouring with wisdom
Still blessed, spreading my democracy
Still got game, turning heads whenever I may be
Still making it rain
Still got the rhymes, flowing with a poetic touch
Still enjoying the journey
Still got the finger that turns everything into gold
Still taking the heat but reigning supreme
Still the boss, calling them shots
Still dreaming big, living large, making it count
Still the hustler, keeping it fresh, reinventing myself
Still reaching beyond the stars, thriving yonder
Still in control,  taking the lead, blazing the trail

Still the Jambu you have known before,  I never change.

Happy New Year Everyone!!!

Mad love

Jj.

Carrot vs. Stick Motivation

You cannot change what you refuse to confront

Some people use sticks to motivate other people.   They even use sticks to motivate themselves.

It’s limited.

If you want to flourish for the long run, you need to use carrots to inspire other people and yourself to operate at a higher level.

While a stick is negative reinforcement, a carrot is positive reinforcement.

Rather than whip yourself with a stick, you can find the right carrots to pull you toward your goals and aspirations.  And, the best carrots draw upon your inspirations, from the inside out.

In the book, Cracking the Flourishing Code, Pat Black shares key insight into why we should avoid sticks, and focus on the right carrots instead.

Do the Carrot and the Stick Really Get the Same Result?

The carrot is more of a “pull” approach to motivation, while the stick is more of a “poke, push, or prod” approach.  With the carrot you move towards something, while with the stick, you move away from something.

Via Cracking the Flourishing Code:

“The carrot and the stick refer to that old idiom about how to get a donkey to move.  It was said that you could dangle a carrot in front of him or hit him with a stick from behind, but the result ended the same: the donkey moved forward.  Do the carrot and the stick really get the same result”

People Have a Deep-Seated Need for Growth and Achievement

We’re achievers at heart.

Via Cracking the Flourishing Code:

“This question has mainly been studies in the context of management and how to get others (employees) to do something.  The Center for Advanced Research in Ann Arbor, MI, and HR consultant Towards Watson ran studies recently that showed that a high ratio of positive feedback correlates with high performance and job satisfaction.  Frederick Herzberg, who researched employee motivation during the 1950s and 1960s, found that people are motivated by the most intrinsic factors such as interesting work, challenge, and increasing responsibility.  He concluded that people have a deep-seated need for growth and achievement.”

The Stick Mindset

Sticks don’t work well.  They are short-lived (they last while the stick is there) and they don’t help us realize our full potential.  Also, they don’t drive us from a good place.

Via Cracking the Flourishing Code:

“These studies apply not only to how to get others to do something but how we get ourselves to do something.  People with a ‘stick’ mindset determine their actions out of fear and avoidance of pain.  They set their goals and priorities to get away from something, whether it’s debt or health challenges or loneliness.  This doesn’t work well for a couple of reasons.”

“First of all, the unconscious mind does not deal well with negative statements.  It absorbs information through images.  So if you say, ‘I don’t want to be a loser,’ it gabs the image of loser first and concentrates on that.  It can’t come up with an image of ‘not loser’ (or ‘not fat’ or ‘not lonely’ or ‘not healthy’) by itself.

The other reason is more subtle.  If you motivate yourself by the fear of something bad, you’ll only get part way to a goal.  For example, a dieter who loses a few pounds may feel less pain about her weight.  Since the pain is lessened, she is not motivated to keep on her diet.  Think about a worker who is just motivated by ‘not losing her job.’ How effective and creatively productive can she be?”

The Carrot Mindset

Carrots generate anticipation, excitement, and possibility.

Via Cracking the Flourishing Code:

“People with a ‘carrot’ mindset, on the other hand, move toward what they want.  Because they focus consciously on the desired end, they have given their unconscious a clear image and destination to work toward.  Rather than the fear and anxiety of a stick mindset (which reduces productivity and creativity), a carrot mindset generates feelings of anticipation, excitement, and possibility.”

The Best Carrot:  Do Something Meaningful for Yourself and Your World

The secret of lasting motivation.is to connect your carrots to directing your life, making a meaningful impact, and leading a life of learning.

Via Cracking the Flourishing Code::

“It’s interesting that the most powerfully motivating carrots are not external things like money or frame.  Author Daniel Pink has reviewed decades of research on motivation.  In his book, Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us, he concludes that the key to high performance and satisfaction is our deep human need to direct our own lives, to learn and create new things, and to do something meaningful for ourselves and our world.”

If you want to motivate yourself and others more effectively, find more carrots and lift others up from the inside out.

Getting what you want!

How To Ask More Effectively

According to Tony Robbins here are the steps get whatever you want:

Ask specificallyAsk someone who can help youCreate value for the person you’re askingAsk with focused, congruent belief1.  Ask Specifically

To get what you want, you have to know what you want.  In detail.  You have to be specific.   Tony Robbins writes:

“You must describe what you want, both to yourself and someone else.  How high, how far, how much?  When, where, how, with whom? If your business needs a loan, you’ll get it — if you know how to ask.  You won’t get it if you say, ‘We need more money to expand into a new product line.  Please lend us some.’  You need to define precisely what you need, why you need it, and when you need it.  You need to be able to show what you’ll be able to produce with it.  You need to be able to show what you’ll be able to produce with it.”

All too often, we ask the wrong person.   To get what you want, you have to ask somebody who can actually help you.  Tony Robbins writes:

“It’s not enough to ask specifically, you must ask specifically of someone who has the resources — the knowledge, the capital, the sensitivity, or the business experience.  Let’s say you’re having trouble with your spouse.  Your relationship is falling apart.  You can pour out your heart.  You can be as specific and as honest as humanly possible.  But if you seek help from someone who has as pitiful a relationship as you do, will you succeed?  Of course not.

Finding the right person to ask brings us back to the importance of learning how to notice what works.  Anything you want — a better relationship, a better job, a smarter program for investing your money — is something some already does.  The trick is to find those people and figure out what they do right.  Many of us gravitate toward barroom wisdom.  We fine a sympathetic ear and expect that to translate to results.  It won’t unless the sympathy is matched by expertise and knowledge.”

3.  Create Value For the Person You’re Asking

People will be more likely to help you if you create value for them in some way, shape, or form.  Tony Robbins writes:

“Don’t just ask and expect someone to give you something.  Figure out how you can help them first.  If you’ve had a business idea and need money to pull it off, one way to do it is to find someone who can both help and benefit.  Show them how your idea can make money for you and for them as well.  Creating value directly doesn’t always have to that tangible.  The value you create may only be a feeling or a sensibility or a dream, but often that’s enough.  If you came up to me and said you needed $10,000, I’d probably say, ‘So do a lot of other people.’  If you said you needed the money to make a difference in people’s lives, I might begin to listen.  If you specifically showed me how you wanted to help others and create value for them and yourself, I might see how helping you could create value for me as well.”

4.  Ask with Focused, Congruent Belief

You have to be convincing.  If you don’t believe in what you’re asking for, why should anybody else.  Tony Robbins writes:

“The way to ensure failure is to convey ambivalence.  If you aren’t convinced about what you’re asking for, how can anyone else be?  So when you ask, do it with absolute conviction.  Express that in your words and your physiology.  Be able to show that you’re sure of what you want, you’re sure you’ll succeed, and you’re sure you will create value, not just for you but for the person you’re asking as well.”

If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.  But change your approach, or who you’re asking.  Tony Robbins writes:

“That doesn’t mean asking the same person.  It doesn’t mean asking in precisely the same way.  Remember, the Ultimate Success Formula says you need to develop the sensory acuity to know what you’re getting, and you have to have the personal flexibility to change.  So when you ask, you have to change and adjust until you achieve what you want.  When you study the lives of successful people, you’ll find over and over again that they kept asking, kept trying, kept changing — because they knew that sooner or later they would find someone who could satisfy their needs.”

What’s the Hardest Part of the Formula?

The hardest part is getting specific.  Tony writes:

”What’s the hardest part of the formula?  For many people it’s the part about asking specifically.  We don’t live in a culture that puts a great premium on precise communication.  It may be one of our biggest cultural failings.  Language reflects a society’s needs.  An Eskimo has several dozen words for ‘snow.’  Why? Because to be an effective Eskimo, you have to be able to make fine distinctions between different kinds of snow.  There is snow you can fall through, snow you can build an igloo out of, snow you can run your gos in, snow you can eat, snow that’s ready to melt.  I’m in California.  I practically never see snow, so the one word I have for it is enough for me.”

So if you aren’t getting what you want, start asking more effectively keep trying until you succeed.

Questions to ask this March 2014.

Fundamental Questions.
Fundamental Questions.

We Africans rarely get to make a truly mindful assessment of who we are, what’s shaped us and why we hope to change. If we did that first, we’d probably be more capable of making wise resolutions and keeping them. We’d become more conscious of the web of relationship and mutual obligation that holds us together and that makes our freedom truly worth cherishing. And we might just end up being better humans.

So I invite you, whatever your stage of life, to explore these questions. Ask them of yourself. Talk with family and friends about them. Write and share your reflections. Feel free to adapt and revise the questions to suit your circumstances. And let me know on the comment below – what the experience is like for you and those close to you.

If you make it your first resolution to consider these questions well, your other resolutions will almost certainly end up being more honest, more meaningful to you and more useful to others. Enjoy reflecting!!!

Who you are

1. Think of something (an activity, a job) to which you’re really committed and that takes up a lot of your time. Why do you do it? Do you consider it time well spent? Why or why not? What would make you stop being involved?

2. Who or what do you consider your community? What do you do for the community? What would you expect the community to do it for you?

3. To whom or what do you feel responsible? What does that entail? What happens when you don’t meet that responsibility?

4. Are you a good worker? A good citizen? A good person? How do you distinguish among them? Which is most important to you?

Influences

5. Who’s influenced you, and how do you pass it on?

6. What individuals and institutions do you admire and why (current or past)?

7. What/whom don’t you admire and why?

8. What and whom do you love?

Aspirations

9. What would it mean for you to be successful? How important is recognition, through money or esteem? What about unheralded acts or contributions?

10. What would it mean for you fail? Who or what will make that judgment for you and about you?

11. What kind of person do you want to be right now?

12. What should — and shouldn’t — be written in your obituary?

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Ustadh Yusuf.

8 Qualities That Men Love in a Woman

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RJ

Look, we won’t lie – looks always matter, but there’s a lot more to a woman that can drive a man crazy. Here’s a list of qualities that men say they find attractive in women:

1. Confidence: Men love being with a woman who is sure of herself. There’s nothing sexier than a woman who can stand up for herself, and who is comfortable with who she is rather than one that constantly seeks reassurance.

2. A Sense of Humor: While most women look for a guy who can make them laugh, its no different on the other side. A woman who’s funny, lighthearted, and doesn’t get upset when a man playfully teases her, is something every man hopes for.

3. Intelligence: Men do look past your beauty and looks. It is a huge turn-on for men when a woman is being opinionated, smart, and witty. Having a partner with whom they can have real conversations, rather than someone who thinks it’s cute to act like a bimbo is what most men look for.

4. Not Being Materialistic: Every woman wants a man who pampers her and makes her feel special, and men love doing it. But he’d rather be with a woman who doesn’t expect him to treat her like a diva all the time than one who wants him only for his paycheck or lavish gestures.

5. Playfulness: There’s nothing like a little bit of childish playfulness. Men find it really hot when a woman can switch from being mature to a not-so-uptight playful mood relatively easily.

6. Sensuality: This is another quality men absolutely love about women-the fact that they can look their absolute worst and still be sexy. Sensuality isn’t hard to pull off – it’s the air of sexy confidence that drives men crazy!

7. Independence: A woman who constantly clings on to a man like there’s no tomorrow is every man’s nightmare. But being with a women who’s driven and knows where she is headed, lets him have his own space when he needs it is a big turn-on for men.

8. Supportive: Knowing that his partner has his back is a big emotional boost for  a man. A little bit of encouragement and belief will make him want you for a long time to come.

☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆★☆

I have been blessed to find that special ♡someone♡ and I wish the same for you♥

Jambu.

10 Reasons to Stop Working So Hard

 

It’s time to add up all the ways in which working ridiculous hours hurts you and the people around you–and put a stop to the madness.

1. Quantity kills quality.

You want to be excellent at what you do. But the more tasks you take on, the smaller your chance of doing an excellent job at any of them. Cutting as many items off your task list as you can ups the odds that you’ll do a killer job on the things that matter most.

2. Sleep matters.

“The way to a more productive, more inspired, more joyful life is getting enough sleep,” Arianna Huffington said in a 2011 TED talk. She would know. She fainted from exhaustion and broke her cheekbone and is now something of a sleep evangelist. “I was recently having dinner with a guy who bragged that he’d gotten only four hours’ sleep the night before,” she continued. She considered retorting: “If you had gotten five, this dinner would have been a lot more interesting.”

3. You suck when it counts.

I can tell you from experience that going into a meeting tired and distracted means you will suck in that meeting. You’ll be bad at generating new ideas, finding creative solutions to problems, and worst of all you’ll suck at listening attentively to the people around you. That disrespects them and wastes their time as well as yours.

4. Your mood is a buzzkill.

The kind of irritability and impatience that goes with being overworked and behind schedule will cast a black cloud over the people around you both at work and at home. If you’re an employee, it will damage your career. If you’re a small business owner, it will harm your business.

5. Your judgment is impaired.

The research is conclusive: sleep deprivation impairs decision-making. As a leader, poor judgment is something you can’t afford. Crossing some tasks off your to-do list, handing them to someone else, or finishing some things late is well worth it if it means you bring your full concentration and intelligence to the tough decisions your job requires.

6. You’re setting a bad example.

The work schedule and tone you set for yourself will likely be mirrored by the smartest and most ambitious of your employees. What kind of leaders and bosses do you want them to be? Do you want the benefit of their brightest ideas and best judgment? Then don’t create an environment where everyone vies to see how many hours they can work without falling over.

7. There will always be more work.

If you run your own business, there’s always a new project to start, a new customer to pursue, or a new technology to try out. You’ll never be out of new work to do. And if you work for someone else, getting a lot done will lead to being given more tasks. That can be a good thing, but only if you have the time and energy to do them with excellence.

8. You’re hurting your relationships.

Somewhere along the way my husband sat me down and insisted that I make some time to talk with him every day. I’m blessed not only with a strong marriage but an unusually outspoken spouse. There may be people in your life feeling as shut out as he was who haven’t come out and said so. Don’t wait until it’s too late.

9. You’re screwing up your health.

Did Mita Diran know she was risking her life by working so hard? It seems clear from her tweets that she didn’t, and if she had, she’d have made a different choice. I’m sure you’re smart enough not to work 30 hours straight, but do you let your work schedule interfere with things like healthy eating and regular exercise, not to mention sleep? If so, then it’s possible you’re shortening your life by overwork. Is it worth it?

10. Most of the work is less important than you think.

A few years ago, hospice worker Bronnie Ware famously published the top five regrets she heard from her dying patients. Those who’d had careers all regretted the number of hours they spent at work. But many of her patients also spoke of dreams they wished they’d fulfilled.

Put those two items together and there’s a lesson: If something will help you fulfill a lifelong dream, it’s worth spending long hours. If not, then it isn’t. So ask yourself: In 10 years, will I care about this? If the answer is no, then it’s probably time to quit and go get some rest.

From Inc.com

3 Essential Skills Every Entreprene​ur Should Cultivate

If there is no struggle, there is no progress.

If you’re an entrepreneur, you’ve got your hustle on. You don’t work  normal hours, every day is spent on your business and you’re doing all  you can to make it go. You know how to work hard, but there are other  skills that great entrepreneurs need too. In Seth Godin’s new book The Icarus Deception (Portfolio, 2013) he shares three essential skills every great entrepreneur needs.

1. Quiet your lizard brain. Whether you know it or not, we all have what Godin refers to as a lizard brain. He says, “The lizard is a physical part of your brain, the  pre-historic lump called the amygdala near the brain stem that is  responsible for fear and rage and reproductive drive.”

Godin has written a lot about this in previous books including Linchpin and  Poke the Box and cites author Steven Pressfield for further explanation  — “As Pressfield describes it, the lizard brain is the resistance. The  resistance is the voice in the back of our head telling us to back off,  be careful, go slow, compromise. The resistance is writer’s block and  putting jitters and every project that ever shipped late because people  couldn’t stay on the same page long enough to get something out the  door. The resistance grows in strength as we get closer to shipping, as  we get closer to an insight, as we get closer to the truth of what we  really want. That’s because the lizard hates change and achievement and  risk,” Godin says in The Icarus Deception.

Quieting the lizard brain is a constant struggle for entrepreneurs.  It is a skill that needs to be developed. But as we tune into the  frequency of what we feel is the right decision and tune out the lizard  brain we will be able to truly test our business plans and hypothesis.

2. Think like an artist. Most of us put ourselves in one of three categories. Godin breaks it  down into being either the chef, cook or bottle washer. Chefs run the  show, they hire and fire, make plans and big decisions for their  subordinates. Chefs have all the power. Cooks are the executors; they  get it done. Bottle washers are often disrespected. They are the grunts  on the front line in the trenches doing the dirty work. Which one are  you at this particular day and time?

In The Icarus Deception, Godin challenges us to think beyond the norm and become artists.

“It’s not art if the world (or at least a tiny portion of it) isn’t  transformed in some way. And it’s not art if it’s not generous. And most of all, it’s not art if there’s no risk. The risk isn’t the risk of  financial ruin (though that might be part of it). No, the risk is the  risk of rejection. Of puzzlement. Of stasis. Art requires the artist to  care, and to care enough to do something when he knows it might not  work.”

Thinking like an artist instead of like chefs, cooks and bottle  washers opens up a whole new world of possibilities for change, progress and success.

3. Connect the disconnected. Connecting people on the surface might feel like old-school networking events where  everyone just exchanges business cards. Godin writes about “The  Connected Economy” and explains that the era where we needed to care  about catering to the masses is gone. It’s about connecting people who  are disconnected — then connection becomes a function of art. The  opportunity in the Connection Economy is about finding the problem  (where are people disconnected).

This is an essential skill that might require significant effort, he says:

“How much connection did you just make? That’s one way to measure  whether or not the work you did made a difference. When you make a  daring comment at a meeting, when you produce a video or app or an idea  that spreads, when more people visit your farm stand because they can’t  get enough of the way you engage…Boring and safe rarely lead to  connection. Connection happens when humility asserts itself.”

Your Sweet Honey!

M. R. W

Keep remembering
When the rains wipe the smile off my face
Yours puts mine right back on
When the clouds are dark on wet days
You brighten mine like the sun
When the day seems long and dreary
Day dreaming of you makes it worthwhile
When am all tired and weary
Knowing that you are there I can walk an extra mile
When the days seem long and never ending
Or the work load keeps pending
and the machines quit the mending
with all the emails am sending
and no time is bending
your love I will keep remembering…..

Ressie

May you live every day of your life.
 

Love is strong yet delicate
It can be broken
To truly love is to understand this
To be in love is to respect this

It’s hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does.
The best and most beautiful things in the world can’t be seen, nor touched, but are felt in the heart.
Love is like sunshine. It brings a golden glow to its beholder’s face. And a warm feeling all over their body. It awakens souls and opens eyes. And when its over, it leaves billions of small memories called stars. To remind the world, that it still exists.
When you love someone, it’s something.
When someone loves you, it’s another thing.
When you love the person who loves you back, it’s everything.
The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and to be loved in return.
Love is like the wind, you can see it but you can’t feel it.
A love that is denied only goes stronger.
Love people, use things. Don’t use people, don’t love things.
Don’t fall in love with someone you can live with, fall in love with the one you can’t live without.
Love isn’t finding the perfect person, it is finding the imperfect person and seeing how they are perfect.
If you love someone put their name in a circle not a heart because hearts can break but circles go on forever.

Inspirational Quotes

IMG_1702“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow.’” — Mary Anne Radmacher

  1. “Do not follow where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  2. “I want to be all used up when I die.” — George Bernard Shaw
  3. “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” — Maya Angelou
  4. “If you cannot do great things, do small things in a great way.” — Napoleon Hill
  5. “If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance.” — George Bernard Shaw
  6. “If you’re going through hell, keep going.” — Winston Churchill
  7. “It is never too late to be who you might have been.” — George Eliot
  8. “Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.” — Lao-Tzu
  9. “Let him who would move the world, first move himself.” – Socrates
  10. “Life is a great big canvas, and you should throw all the paint you can on it.” — Danny Kaye
  11. “Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.” — Maya Angelou
  12. “Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” — George Bernard Shaw
  13. “Smile, breathe and go slowly.” — Thich Nhat Hanh
  14. “That which does not kill us makes us stronger.” — Friedrich Nietzsche
  15. “The first and best victory is to conquer self. To be conquered by self is, of all things, the most shameful and objectionable.” – Plato
  16. “Turn your wounds into wisdom.” — Oprah Winfrey
  17. “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” — Mark Twain
  18. “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  19. “Whatever you do, you should do it with feeling.” — Yogi Berra
  1. “Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow.’” — Mary Anne Radmacher
  2. “Do not follow where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  3. “I want to be all used up when I die.” — George Bernard Shaw
  4. “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” — Maya Angelou
  5. “If you cannot do great things, do small things in a great way.” — Napoleon Hill
  6. “If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance.” — George Bernard Shaw
  7. “If you’re going through hell, keep going.” — Winston Churchill
  8. “It is never too late to be who you might have been.” — George Eliot
  9. “Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.” — Lao-Tzu
  10. “Let him who would move the world, first move himself.” – Socrates
  11. “Life is a great big canvas, and you should throw all the paint you can on it.” — Danny Kaye
  12. “Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.” — Maya Angelou
  13. “Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” — George Bernard Shaw
  14. “Smile, breathe and go slowly.” — Thich Nhat Hanh
  15. “That which does not kill us makes us stronger.” — Friedrich Nietzsche
  16. “The first and best victory is to conquer self. To be conquered by self is, of all things, the most shameful and objectionable.” – Plato
  17. “Turn your wounds into wisdom.” — Oprah Winfrey
  18. “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” — Mark Twain
  19. “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  20. “Whatever you do, you should do it with feeling.” — Yogi Berra

OUR LIFE’S PURPOSE!

“To draw, you must close your eyes and sing.” — Pablo Picasso

Which creative type are you … a Dreamer, a Doer, or an Incrementalist?

I was reading the book, Making Ideas Happen: Overcoming the Obstacles Between Vision and Reality, by Scott Belsky.  In the book, he explains three types of creative people: Dreamers, Doers, and Incrementalists.

The Dreamers are ideas people.  They dream things up.  The Doers execute.  They make ideas happen.  The Incrementalist can play either role.  They can dream up new ideas or help execute ideas.  While the Incrementalist sounds like the ideal scenario, the challenge is they are often stretched thin across multiple projects, because of their rare ability.  They often don’t get to go as deep as they want.

What I like about this frame is that it matches my experience.  I’ve seen a tendency for people to be either great dreamers, great doers, and in rare cases, great at both.  What I’ve also seen is that when people know their strengths, and the strengths of others, they can pair up more effectively:  Dreamers pair up with Doers, Doers pair up with Dreamers, and Incrementalists pair up with both.

The Dreamer

The Dreamer is an idealist.  They dream up new ways, new things, and new possibilities.  Belsky writes:

“As entrepreneurs, Dreamers often jump from one new business idea to another.  Even within an existing business, they are always imagining something new … The Dreamers in the not-for-profit world are idealists — and they are likely to become engaged in new projects at the expense of completing current ones.  Similarly, Dreamer artists are always starting new projects, often considering massive undertakings with a long-term grandiose vision.”

The Doer

The Doer gets things done.  They execute ideas.  They make things happen.  Belsky writes:

“Doers don’t imagine as much because they are obsessively focused on the logistics of execution.  Doers get frustrated when, while  brainstorming, there is no consideration for implementation.  Doers often love new ideas, but their tendency is to immerse themselves in the next steps needed to truly actualize an idea.  While Dreamers will quickly fall in love with an idea, Doers will start with doubt and chip away at the ida until they love it. (or, often, discount it.)  As Doers break an idea down, they come action-oriented organizes and valuable stewards.  An idea can only become a reality once it is broken down into organized, actionable elements.  If a brilliant and sexy idea seems intangible or unrealistic, Doers will become skeptical and appropriately deterred.”

The Incrementalist

The Incrementalist plays both roles.  They can drive like a Doer and they can dream like a Dreamer.  Belsky writes:
”Then there are the Incrementalists — those with the ability to play the role of both Dreamer and Doer.  Incrementalists shift between distinct phases of dreaming and doing.  When imagine runs amok in the Dreamer phase, the Incrementalist begins to feel impatient.  The developing sense of impatience brings on the Doer phase, and the idea at hand is pushed in execution.  And when the time comes to pull back and dream again, the return is a welcome relief from being buried in the managerial mindset.  Thus, an Incrementalist is able to bask in idea generation, distill the Action Steps needed, and then push ideas into action with tenacity.”

When it comes to collaboration, Belsky calls Incrementalists, the universal donor, because, while a Dreamer and Doer are best paired with each other, Incrementalists can pair up with either one.

The challenge for you is to figure out how what role you like to play the most and to pair up with others to bring out your best, while, at the same time, helping others flourish.

When people flourish it’s contagious.

Passion

So i decided to buy a diary late last year in an attempt to *organize my 2013* so as not to be as errattic as *2012*

The news is that as of today i only managed to scribble one or two notes until the 25’th of Jan. For me that’s commendable because i have never gone past the first week, but then again that is easily the most pathetic attempt of keeping a diary log.

Fastforward to today, so much has changed, so many things have come to pass(the abundance of grey hair on my head notwithstanding) but i am gratefull for God Almighty for bringing me thus far. Just as it could have been better, it could have well been worse and thats why i decided not long ago to live in the *NOW* in true allegiance to my mantra of *make everyday count*

Feels good writting, just pouring my thoughts into paper and sharing with the world. Over time I have nurtured the bookworm aspect of me and ended up treasuring it to the point I feel empty if I don’t constantly feed my brain on something/anything. It’s a valuable trait that i wished i had adopted much earlier in life-as they say knowledge is the key to success.

It’s also funny how i have learnt so much about others and very little about myself. Only when i stand in the mirror and contrast the wealth of knowledge garnered overtime and it’s implications in my life do i get the wake up call that i need to change a couple of things in my life inorder to progress.

I have indeed come to a sort of crossroads, where i have to evaluate the pros&cons of my decisions and how they impact my future goals & plans. Yet again if I worry too much about either my past or future i will miss out on the present.

I like the *Nike* slogan ‘just do it’. Mostly because it’s sticky, encouraging & amazingly simple.

Trajectory is currently taking place and i might as well jump in the moving band wagon. I feel like buying a one way ticket to a remote location, somewhere unheard of and starting all over again.

But then again i was advised it’s not good to go with feelings without logic. My heart argues that i need change, my brain tells me life is short and full of risks, yet my gut answers me-all that matters is that you do what makes you happy.

And that my *Dears* is my hope  for you, that whatever you are doing it’s making you happy, that you are loving yourself because no one will love you more than you and last but not least that you are following your passion!!

Love always

Jambu.
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Exuberating Confidence

My Mentor
My Mentor

Top 10 Confidence Quotes

  1. “A ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what ships are for.” – William Shedd
  2. “Knock the ‘t’ off the ‘can’t.’” — Samuel Johnson
  3. “Life marks us all down, so it’s just as well that we start out by overpricing ourselves.” — Mignon McLaughlin
  4. “Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” — Anaïs Nin
  5. “Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent.” — Eleanor Roosevelt
  6. “The man of genius inspires us with a boundless confidence in our own powers.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  7. “They can do all because they think they can.” – Vergil
  8. “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.”— Henry S. Haskins
  9. “When you have confidence, you can have a lot of fun. And when you have fun, you can do amazing things.” — Joe Namath
  10. “Whether you think you can or think you can’t – you are right.” — Henry Ford

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

17 Counterintuitive Things Successful People Do

Success
Success

1) They pick fights to test others resolve in their own beliefs.

in business you can’t turn over the reins to someone who doesn’t know how to defend their own ideas and plans.

2) Isolate yourself to re-energize

if you charge when you are by yourself you need to seek out isolation from time to time.

3)Purposefully offend

Sometimes the only way to get someones attention is to call him or her out

4)Hyper self critical

of your own standards and choices

5)Peacock

Don’t give others the option not to see you or hear your message.

6)Repeat mistakes enough times until we really learn the lesson

We hardly learn anything truly worthwhile one try.

7)Seek out rejection to get dis-sensitized to the fear of it

Once we lose the fear of rejection, we more easily go after what we want, and thus get more of it.

8)Ignore consensus

when your own data and foresight is convincingly contrary to the wisdom of the crowd

9)Expect nothing in return for helping your peers

10)Quit those en devours you will never win at and take a new swing at the plate

don’t double down on a losing effort by not knowing when to walk away.

11)Play possum with your competitors

Don’t be so eager to show off your strengths until it’s the perfect time to strike

12)Get C’s instead of A’s

If you excel in non-traditional environments (like Entrepreneurs) & can justify the opportunity cost of your time.

13)Become indifferent to slights

Because time and energy are too valuable to waste on petty matters

14)Self Sabotage yourself when you find yourself mired in complacency

Don’t ever get too comfortable  with the status quo, always be willing to blow it up and start all over again to truly create something better

15)Abstain from work which others can do for you

Delegate every task that others can do 80% as well as you, and focus on those items that only you can achieve that have big payoffs.

16)Plot and scheme your next couple moves ahead

know where you are going far in advance of making your first move.

17)Underestimate demand for your products and services

Don’t ever assume people want what you got, and you will always have the appropriate amount of urgency and hustle to validate what you are trying to achieve.

Valentines Quotes

Never let your sense of morals prevent you from doing what is right.

Broken Hearts and Loss

  • ‘Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. – Alfred Lord Tennyson
  • Hearts will be practical only when they are made unbreakable. – The Wizard of Oz
  • How come we don’t always know when love begins, but we always know when it ends? – L.A. Story
  • If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on, is to remember them. Buildings burn, people die, but real love is forever. – The Crow
  • If you love something, set it free; if it comes back it’s yours, if it doesn’t, it never was. – Richard Bach
  • Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop. – Unknown
  • That’s why they call them crushes. If they were easy, they’d call them something else. – Sixteen Candles
  • The hottest love has the coldest end. – Socrates
  • The love that lasts the longest is the love that is never returned. – William Somerset Maugham
  • To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful. – Bess Myerson
  • Who do you turn to when the only person in the world that can stop you from crying, is exactly the one making you cry? – Unknown

Falling in Love

  • A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears. – Woodrow Wyatt
  • Do you ever put your arms out and just spin and spin and spin? Well, that’s what love is like. Everything inside of you tells you to stop before you fall, but you just keep going. – Practical Magic
  • Do you want to know the easiest way to fall in love? Just associate with all your pleasant experiences with someone, and disassociate from all the unpleasant ones. — Richard Bandler
  • Fate exists but it can only take you so far, because once you’re there, it’s up to you to make it happen. – Can’t Hardly Wait
  • Love is like a butterfly, it settles upon you when you least expect it. – Unknown
  • To be loved, be lovable. – Unknown
  • Wise men say, only fools rush in. But I can’t help falling in love with you. – Elvis Presley

Fear

  • If you love someone you say it, you say it right then, out loud. Otherwise the moment just … passes you by. – My Best friend’s Wedding
  • I would rather have eyes that cannot see; ears that cannot hear; lips that cannot speak, than a heart that cannot love. – Robert Tizon
  • Tell her that you love her. You’ve got nothing to lose, and you’ll always regret it if you don’t. – Love Actually
  • You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.- Barbara De Angelis
  • What is love … Oh baby, don’t hurt me … Don’t hurt me no more. – Haddaway

Fun

  • If love is the answer, can you please repeat the question? – Unknown
  • Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience. – Samuel Johnson
  • My husband and I fell in love at first sight… maybe I should have taken a second look. – Crimes and Misdemeanors
  • Nothing spoils the taste of peanut butter like unrequited love. – Charlie Brown
  • Swoon. I’ll catch you. – The English Patient
  • You are what I never knew I always wanted. – Fools Rush In
  • You can’t put a price tag on love, but you can on all its accessories. – Melanie Clark
  • Your heart is my piñata. – Chuck Palahniuk

Kissing

  • A kiss isn’t worth anything until you give it to somebody else. – Unknown
  • For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul. – Judy Garland
  • Kiss me. Kiss me as if it were the last time. – Casablanca
  • There have been five great kisses since 1642 B.C. (before then couples hooked thumbs) … and the precise rating of kisses is a terribly difficult thing, often leading to great controversy.  Well, this one left them all behind. – The Princess Bride
  • What do you want to marry me for anyhow? … So I can kiss you anytime I want. – Sweet Home Alabama
  • You know, that moment when you kiss someone and everything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and that person. And you realize that that person is the only person that you’re supposed to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this gift. And you want to laugh and you want to cry because you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared that it will go away all at the same time. – Never Been Kissed

Love and Life

  • A life filled with love must have some thorns, but a life empty of love will have no roses. – Unknown
  • All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone to make us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope, all the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, someone perfect is searching for us. – The Wonder Years
  • Beginnings are usually scary and endings are usually sad, but it’s everything in between that makes it all worth living. – Hope Floats
  • Life is messy. Love is messier. – Catch and Release
  • Love doesn’t just sit there like a stone; it has to be made – like bread, remade all the time, made new. – Ursula K. LeGuin
  • Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away. – Elbert Hubbard
  • Love makes life so confusing, but without love would you really want to live? – Unknown
  • The rules of fair play do not apply in love and war.- John Lyly
  • The secret of love is seeking variety in your life together, and never letting routine chords dull the melody of your romance.- Unknown

Significance and Meaning

  • I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. – Roy Croft
  • No one is perfect until you fall in love with them. – Unknown
  • The greatest possession we have costs nothing, it’s known as love. – Brian Jett
  • There are four questions of value in life… What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same. Only love. – Don Juan DeMarco
  • To be able to say how much you love is to love but little.- Petrarch
  • To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world. – Unknown
  • We cannot do great things on this Earth, only small things with great love. – Mother Teresa
  • What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet. – William Shakespeare
  • You will see a lot of things, but they will mean nothing to you, if you lose sight of the thing you love. – At First Sight

The Power of Love

  • All you need is love, love, love is all you need. – The Beatles
  • Faith makes all things possible. Love makes them easy. – Unknown
  • I will find you. No matter how long it will take, no matter how far. – The Last Of The Mohicans
  • Let your heart guide you. It whispers so listen carefully. – The Land Before Time
  • Love has given me wings, so I must fly. – A Knight’s Tale
  • Love is like a knife, it can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that will last a lifetime. – Unknown
  • Suddenly the world seems such a perfect place, suddenly it moves with such a perfect grace, suddenly my life doesn’t seem such a waste, it all revolves around you. – Moulin Rouge
  • Take love, multiply it by infinity and take it to the depths of forever.. and you still have only a glimpse of how I feel for you. – Meet Joe Black
  • The best love is the kind that weakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that’s what you’ve given me. That’s what I hope to give to you forever. – The Notebook
  • When a man loves a woman, he can’t keep his mind on nothing else. – Percy Sledge
  • When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace. – Jimi Hendrix

True Love

  • Don’t say we aren’t right for each other, the way i see it is … we aren’t right for anyone else. – The Cutting Edge
  • Have you never met a woman who inspires you to love? Until your every sense is filled with her? You inhale her. You taste her. You see your unborn children in her eyes and know that your heart has at last found a home. Your life begins with her, and without her it must surely end. – Don Juan DeMarco
  • I am someone else when I’m with you, someone more like myself. – Original Sin
  • I wonder how many people never get the one they want, but end up with the one they’re supposed to have. – Fried Green Tomatoes
  • Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman, but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man. – Unknown
  • This kind of certainty comes but once in a lifetime. – Bridges of Madison County
  • True love cannot be found where it does not truly exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. – Kissing A Fool
  • True love is like a fine wine, the older the better. – Fred Jacob
  • True love is when your heart and your minds are saying the same thing.- Leanna L. Bartram
  • Trying to make someone fall in love with you is about as pointless as trying to control who you fall in love with. – Unknown
  • You’re not perfect sport, and let me save you the suspense, this girl you met, she isn’t perfect either. But the question is whether or not you’re perfect for each other. – Good Will Hunting
  • We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. – Unknown

General

  • A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. –Mignon McLaughlin
  • An immature love says I love you because I need you, but a mature love says I need you because I love you. – Unknown
  • I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. – Mother Teresa
  • I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I’ve ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours. – The Notebook
  • In these dreams I’ve loved you so, that by now I think I know what it’s like to be loved by you. I will love being loved by you. – The King and I
  • I’ve been saying it so long to you, you just wouldn’t listen. Every time you said ‘Farm Boy do this’ you thought I was answering ‘As you wish’ but that’s only because you were hearing wrong. ‘I love you’ was what it was, but you never heard. – The Princess Bride
  • Love comforteth like sunshine after rain. – William Shakespeare
  • Summer romances begin for all kinds of reasons, but when all is said and done, they have one thing in common. They’re shooting stars, a spectacular moment of light in the heavens, fleeting glimpse of eternity, and in a flash they’re gone. – The Notebook
  • The heart has its reasons that reason does not know.- Pascal
  • The mark of a true crush, Is that you fall in love first, and grope for reasons afterward. -Shana Alexander
  • What will NY152 say today, I wonder. I turn on my computer, I wait impatiently as it boots up. I go online, and my breath catches in my chest until I hear three little words: You’ve got mail. I hear nothing, not even a sound on the streets of New York, just the beat of my own heart. I have mail. From you. – You’ve Got Mail
  • When they ask me what I liked best, I’ll tell them it was you. – City Of Angels

 

Visionary
Visionary

 

“Cowardice asks the question – is it safe? Expediency asks the question – is it politic? Vanity asks the question – is it popular? But conscience asks the question – is it right? And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular; but one must take it BECAUSE it is right.“
– Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

 

 

Personal Development Quotes.

Character
  • “A good criterion for measuring success in life is the number of people you have made happy.” — Robert J. Lumsden
  • “A good heart is better than all the heads in the world.” — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
  • “A man who finds no satisfaction in himself will seek for it in vain elsewhere.” — La Rochefoucauld
  • “Ability may take you to the top, but it takes character to stay there.” — William Blake
  • “Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Be humble always and identify with the common man; even when success and achievements want to make you proud.”  — Bishop Leonard Umumna
  • “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” — Dr. Seuss
  • “Everybody wants to be somebody; nobody wants to grow.” — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
  • “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.” — Reinhold H. Niebuhr
  • “I do not think there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance.  It overcomes almost everything, even nature.” – John D. Rockefeller
  • “I don’t have to be what nobody else wants me to be and I am not afraid to be what I want to be.” — Muhammad Ali
  • “I praise loudly; I blame softly.” – Queen Catherine II
  • “I studied the lives of great men and women, and I found that the men and women who got to the top were those who did the jobs they had in hand, with everything they had of energy and enthusiasm and hard work.” — Harry S. Truman
  • “I will speak ill of no one and speak all the good I know of everybody.” — Andrew Jackson
  • “Insist on yourself. Never imitate.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “It is your attitude, not your aptitude, that determines your altitude.”  — Zig Ziglar
  • “I’ve never seen a monument erected to a pessimist.” — Paul Harvey
  • “Knowledge will give you power, but character respect.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want.” — Jim Rohn
  • “Let this be the criteria by which you measure all things: Is this an act of love?” – Unknown
  • “Optimists are right.  So are pessimists.  It’s up to you to choose which you will be.” — Harvey Mackay
  • “People tend to think that happiness is a stroke of luck, something that will descend like fine weather if you’re fortunate. But happiness is the result of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly.” — Elizabeth Gilbert
  • “The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will.”  — Vince Lombardi
  • “The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.” — Jimmy Johnson
  • “The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows it under his feet.” – James Oppenheim
  • “The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” — William Arthur Ward
  • “The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions.” – Confucius
  • “The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges.” — Martin Luther King Jr.
  • “The way to gain a good reputation, is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear.” – Socrates
  • “What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others.” – Confucius
  • “We are what we frequently do.” – Aristotle
  • “We first make our habits, and then our habits make us.” — John Dryden
  • “What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.” – Confucius
  • “What you habitually think largely determines what you will ultimately become.” — Bruce Lee
Effectiveness
  • “All fixed set patterns are incapable of adaptability or pliability. The truth is outside of all fixed patterns.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way round or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.” — Benjamin Franklin
  • “Fear less, hope more, eat less, chew more, whine less, breathe more, talk less, say more, hate less, love more, and good things will be yours.” — Swedish Proverb
  • “For it matters not how small the beginning may seem to be.  What is once well done, is well done forever.” — Henry David Thoreau
  • “Forget yourself and start to work.” — Gordon B. Hinckley
  • “Fortunate is the person who has developed the self-control to steer a straight course towards his objectives in life, without being swayed from his purpose by either commendation or condemnation.” — Napoleon Hill
  • “He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much.” — Bessie Anderson Stanley
  • “In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins, not through strength, but through persistence.” – Buddha
  • “Life is a series of problem-solving opportunities.  The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you depending on how you respond to them.” — Rick Warren
  • “People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing.” — Dale Carnegie
  • “Put your heart, mind, intellect, and soul even to your smallest acts.  This is the secret of success.” – Swami Sivandanda
  • “Striving for success without hard work is like trying to harvest where you haven’t planted.” — David Bly
  • “Success is doing ordinary things extraordinary well.” — Jim Rohn
  • “Success is every minute you live.  It’s the process of living.  It’s stopping for the moments of beauty, of pleasure; the moments of peace.  Success is not a destination that you ever reach.  Success is the quality of the journey.” — Jennifer James
  • “Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.” — Winston Churchill
  • “Success is not measured by what a man accomplished, but by the opposition he has encountered and the courage with which he has maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.” – Charles Lindberg
  • “Success is not so much what we have, as it is what we are.” — Jim Rohn
  • “Success is not the key to happiness.  Happiness is the key to success.  If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.” — Albert Schweitzer
  • “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become.” — Jim Rohn
  • “Success is the sum of small efforts repeated day in and day out.” — Robert Collier
  • “Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome while trying to succeed.” — Booker T. Washington
  • “Success it the progressive realization of worthwhile, predetermined, personal goals.” — Paul J. Meyer
  • “Success often comes to those who dare to act.  It seldom goes to the timid who are ever afraid of the consequences.” — Jawaharlal Nehru
  • “Successful and unsuccessful people do not vary greatly in their abilities.  They vary in their desire to reach their potential.” — John Maxwell
  • “Successful leaders see the opportunities in every difficulty rather than the difficulty  in every opportunity.” — Reed Markham
  • “The best rules to form a young man are: to talk little, to hear much, to reflect alone upon what has passed in company, to distrust one’s own opinions, and value others that deserve it.” — Sir William Temple
  • “The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering.” — Bruce Lee
  • “The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.” — Steven Covey
  • “The man who will use his skill and constructive imagination to see how much he can give for a dollar, instead of how little he can give for a dollar, is bound to succeed.” – Henry Ford
  • “The secret of success is consistency of purpose.” — Benjamin Disraeli
  • “The test of a successful person is not an ability to eliminate all problems before they arise, but to meet and work out difficulties when they do arise.  We must be willing to make an intelligent compromise with perfection lest we wait forever before taking action.  It is still good advice to cross bridges when we come to them.” — David Schwartz
  • “There is only one way to succeed in anything, and that is to give it everything.” — Vince Lombardi
  • “To be successful, you must decide exactly what you want to accomplish, then resolve to pay the price to get it.” — Bunker Hunt
  • “To go beyond is as wrong as to fall short.” – Confucius
Emotional Intelligence
  • “Don’t let the negativity given to you by the world disempower you. Instead give to yourself that which empowers you.” — Les Brown
  • “Energy and persistence conquer all things.” – Benjamin Franklin
  • “Enthusiam is the steam that drives the engine.” – Napoleon Hill
  • “Enthusiasm spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment.” — Norman Vincent Peale
  • “Flaming enthusiasm, backed by horse-sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success.” — Dale Carnegie
  • “Nothing is so contagious as enthusiasm.  It moves stones, it charms brutes.  Enthusiasm is the genius of sincerity, and truth accomplishes no victories without it.” — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
  • “People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing … that’s why we recommend it daily.”  — Zig Ziglar
Empowerment
  • “Action is the foundational key to all success.” — Tony Robins
  • “Always bear in mind that our own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing.” — Abraham Lincoln
  • “Anything in life worth having is worth working for.” — Andrew Carnegie
  • “Do, or do not. There is no try.” – Yoda
  • “Do not be tense, just be ready, not thinking but not dreaming, not being set but being flexible. It is being ‘wholly’ and quietly alive, aware and alert, ready for whatever may come.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “Don’t be afraid your life will end; be afraid that it will never begin.” — Grace Hansen
  • “Don’t dream it. Be it!” — Richard O’Brian
  • “Follow your bliss!” — Joseph Campbell
  • “Follow your dream as long as you live, do not lessen the time of following desire, for wasting time is an abomination of the spirit.” – Plato
  • “Follow your honest convictions, and stay strong.” — William Thackeray
  • “For every mountain there is a miracle.” — Robert H. Schuller
  • “I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul.” — William Ernest Henley
  • “I don’t count the days, I make the days count!” — Muhammad Ali
  • “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” — Henry David Thorough
  • “If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else. It will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.” — Bruce Lee
  • “If you are going through hell, keep going.” — Winston Churchill
  • “If you can imagine it, you can create it.  If you can dream it, you can become it.” — William Arthur Ward
  • “If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it.  If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.” — Nora Roberts
  • “In life, as in a football game, the principle to follow is: Hit the line hard.” — Theodore Roosevelt
  • “It does not matter how slowly you go so long as you do not stop.” – Confucius
  • “It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.” – Seneca
  • “It takes a strong fish to swim against the current.  Even a dead one can float with it.” — John Crowe
  • “Kites rise highest against the wind – not with it.” — Winston Churchill
  • “Knowledge without follow-through is worse than no knowledge.” — Henry Charles Bukowski
  • “Leap and the net will appear.” — Julia Cameron
  • “Live out your imagination, not your history.” — Stephen Covey
  • “May you live all the days of your life.” — Jonathan Swift
  • “Never be afraid to tread the path alone.  Know which is your path and follow it wherever it may lead you; do not feel you have to follow in someone else’s footsteps.” — Eileen Caddy
  • “People are always blaming circumstances for what they are.  I don’t believe in circumstances.  The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want and if they can’t find them, make them.” — George Bernard Shaw
  • “The history of the world is the history of a few people who had faith in themselves.” — Swami Vivekananda
  • “The man who moved a mountain was the one who began carrying away small stones.” — Chinese Proverb
  • “The secret of success is to be ready when your opportunity comes.” — Benjamin Disraeli
  • “There are two primary choices in life:  to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.”  — Denis Waitley
  • “To hell with circumstances; I create opportunities.” — Bruce Lee
  • “To move the world we must first move ourselves.” – Socrates
  • “We will either find a way or make one.” – Hannibal
  • “Whatever you vividly imagine, ardently desire, sincerely believe, and enthusiastically act upon must inevitably come to pass.” — Paul J. Meyer
Influence and Impact
  • “Dependent people need others to get what they want.  Independent people can get what they want through their own efforts.  Interdependent people combine their own efforts with the efforts of others to achieve their greatest success.” — Stephen Covey
  • “It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed.” — Napoleon Hill
  • “Keep away from small people who try to belittle your ambitions.  Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you too can become great.” — Mark Twain
  • “Many hands and hearts and minds generally contribute to anyone’s notable achievements.” — Walt Disney
  • “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.” — Oprah Winfrey
  • “Try to forget yourself in the service of others.  For when we think too much of ourselves and our own interests, we easily become despondent.  But when we work for others, our efforts return to bless us.” — Sidney Powell
  • “Virtue is not left to stand alone. He who practices it will have neighbors.” — Confucius
Learning and Growth
  • “A master lives in the world of transformation, not the world of loss and gain.” — Dr. John Demartini
  • “Be not afraid of growing slowly; be afraid only of standing still.” — Chinese Proverb
  • “Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one.” — Chinese Proverb
  • “Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life.” — Herbert Otto
  • “Collect as precious pearls the words of the wise and virtuous.” – Abd El-Kader
  • “Develop success from failures.  Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.” — Dale Carnegie
  • “Do not despise the bottom rungs in the ascent to greatness.” – Publilius Syrus
  • “Don’t fear failure.  Not failure, but low aim, is the crime. In great attempts it is glorious even to fail.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Don’t let the fear of striking out hold you back.” — Babe Ruth
  • “Each problem that I solved became a rule which served afterwards to solve other problems.” — Rene Descartes
  • “Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed on an equal or greater benefit.” — Napoleon Hill
  • “Every day do something that will inch you closer to a better tomorrow.” — Doug Firebaugh
  • “He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.” — Muhammad Ali
  • “I don’t measure a man’s success by how high he climbs but how high he bounces when he hits bottom.” — George Patton
  • “I like a state of continual becoming, with a goal in front and not behind.” — George Bernard Shaw
  • “If we do not plant knowledge when young, it will give us no shade when we are old.” — Lord Chesterfield
  • “If you aren’t making any mistakes, it’s a sure sign you’re playing it too safe.” — John Maxwell
  • “If you learn only methods, you’ll be tied to your methods, but if you learn principles you can devise your own methods.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “If you want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate.” — Thomas Watson, Sr
  • “In order to succeed you must fail so that you know what not to do the next time.” — Anthony J.  D’Angelo
  • “It is true that the mental aspect of kung-fu is the desired end; however, to achieve this end, technical skill must come first.” — Bruce Lee
  • “It is wise to keep in mind that neither success nor failure is ever final.” — Roger Babson
  • “I’ve always tried to go one step past wherever people expected me to end up.” — Beverly Sills
  • “Never walk away from failure.  On the contrary, study it carefully and imaginatively for its hidden assets.” — Michael Korda
  • “Only those who risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.” — T.S. Eliot
  • “Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do.” – Confucius
  • “Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors.” — African Proverb
  • “So go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can.  Because that’s where you will find success. On the far side of failure.” — Thomas J.Watson, Sr.
  • “Success is a journey, not a destination.” — Ben Sweetland
  • “That which does not kill us makes us stronger.”  — Friedrich Nietzsche
  • “The fact is, that to do anything in the world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in and scramble through as well as we can.” — Robert Cushing
  • “The highest reward for one’s toil is not what one gets for it, but what one becomes by it.” — John Ruskin
  • “The men who try to do something and fail are infinitely better than those who try to do nothing and succeed.” — Lloyd Jones
  • “The real voyage of discovery consists of not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.” – Proust
  • “The successful man will profit from his mistakes and try again in a different way.” — Dale Carnegie
  • “There are no secrets to success.  It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.” — Colin Powell
  • “There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth — not going all the way, and not starting.” – Buddha
  • “Those at the top of the mountain didn’t fall there.” — Marcus Washling
  • “To climb steep hills requires a slow pace at first.” – Shakespeare
  • “To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom.” — Bertrand Russell
  • “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.” — Mark Twain
  • “Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.” — Ronald Osborn
  • “We learn wisdom from failure much more than from success; we often discover what will do, by finding out what will not do; and probably he who never makes a mistake never made a discovery.” — Samuel Smiles
  • “We must never be afraid to go too far, for success lies just beyond.” — Marcel Proust
  • “We only become what we are by the radical and deep-seated refusal of that which others have made of us.” — Jean-Paul Sartre
  • “What would you attempt to do if you knew you would not fail?” — Robert Schuller
Productivity
  • “A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Art calls for complete mastery of techniques, developed by reflection within the soul.” — Bruce Lee
  • “For anything worth having one must pay the price; and the price is always work, patience, love, self-sacrifice.  No paper currency, no promises to pay, but the gold of real service.” — John Burroughs
  • “Great works are performed not by strength but by perseverance.” — Samuel Johnson
  • “If you don’t have daily objectives, you qualify as a dreamer.”  ~ Zig Ziglar
  • “If you go to work on your goals, your goals will go to work on you.  If you go to work on your plan, your plan will go to work on you.  Whatever good things we build end up building us.” — Jim Rohn
  • “If you want to be happy, set a goal that commands your thoughts, liberates your energy, and inspires your hopes.” — Andrew Carnegie
  • “It’s not the daily increase but daily decrease. Hack away at the unessential.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Make a success of living by seeing the goal and aiming for it unswervingly.” — Cecil B. De Mille
  • “Motivation is what gets you started.  Habit is what keeps you going!” — Jim Ryun
  • “Never let your work drive you.  Master it and keep it in complete control.” — Booker T. Washington
  • “No one ever attains very eminent success by simply doing what is required of him; it is the amount and excellence of what is over and above the required that determines the greatness of ultimate distinction.” — Charles Kendall Adams
  • “Nothing ever comes to one that is worth having except as a result of hard work.” — Booker T. Washington
  • “Obstacles are those frightful things you can see when you take your eyes off your goal.” — Henry Ford
  • “One must have strategies to execute dreams.” — Azim Premji
  • “People with goals succeed because they know where they’re going.” — Earl Nightingale
  • “Perpetual optimism is a force multiplier.” — Colin Powell
  • “Sometimes our best is simply not enough.  We have to do what is required.” — Winston Churchill
  • “Success equals goals … all else is commentary.” — Brian Tracy
  • “Success is 20% skills and 80% strategy.  You might know how to read, but more importantly, what’s your plan to read?” — Jim Rohn
  • “The bad news is time flies. The good news is you’re the pilot.” — Michael Althsuler
  • “The merit in action lies in finishing it to the end.” — Genghis Khan
  • “The path to success is to take massive determined action.” — Anthony Robbins
  • “The question for each man to settle is not what he would do if he had means, time, influence, and educational advantages, but what he will do with the things he has.” — Hamilton Wright Mabie
  • “The reward of a thing well done is to have done it.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “The seat of freedom is reserved for the man who lives by his own work, and in that work, does what he wants to do.” — George Robin Collingwood
  • “Unless you are willing to drench yourself in your work beyond the capacity of the average man, you are just not cut out for positions at the top.” — J.C. Penny
  • “We are either progressing or retrograding all the while; there is no such thing as remaining stationary in this life.” — James Freeman Clarke
  • “What we hope to do with ease, we must learn first to do with diligence.” — Samuel Johnson
Self-Awareness
  • “After all, all knowledge simply means self-knowledge.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Fear comes from uncertainty; we can eliminate the fear within us when we know ourselves better.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Heed the still small voice that so seldom leads us wrong, and never into folly.” — Marquise du Deffand
  • “In learning to know other things, and other minds, we become more intimately acquainted with ourselves, and are to ourselves better worth knowing.” — Philip Gilbert Hamilton
  • “Know thyself means this, that you get acquainted with what you know, and what you can do.” – Menander
  • “Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” – Aristotle
  • “Make it thy business to know thyself, which is the most difficult lesson in the world.” — Miguel de Cervantes
  • “No one can see their reflection in running water. It is only in still water that we can see.” — Taoist Proverb
  • “Our business in life is not to get ahead of others, but to get ahead of ourselves.” — Zig Ziglar
  • “Pay no attention to what the critics say; no statue has ever been erected to a critic.” — Jean Sibelius
  • “The easiest person to deceive is one’s own self.” — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
  • “The most difficult thing in life is to know yourself.” – Thales
  • “The only journey is the journey within.” — Rainer Maria Rilke
  • “To become different from what we are, we must have some awareness of what we are.” — Bruce Lee
  • “To conquer oneself is the best and noblest victory; to be vanquished by one’s own nature is the worst and most ignoble defeat.” – Plato
  • “To know oneself is to study oneself in action with another person.” — Bruce Lee
  • “We see the world, not as it is, but as we are.” – Talmud
  • “When you know yourself and your opponent, you will win every time. When you know yourself but not your opponent, you will win one and lose one. However, when you do not know yourself or your opponent, you will be imperiled every time.” — Sun Tzu
  • “What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself.” — Hecato
Strengths
  • “Exert your talents, and distinguish yourself, and don’t think of retiring from the world, until the world will be sorry that you retire.” — Samuel Johnson
  • “I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.” — Bruce Lee
  • “I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate.” — George Burns
  • “I learned that the only way you are going to get anywhere in life is to work hard at it.  Whether you’re a musician, a writer, an athlete or a businessman, there is no getting around it.  If you do, you’ll win — if you don’t you won’t.” — Bruce Jenner
  • “I refer to my hands, feet and body as the tools of the trade. The hands and feet must be sharpened and improved daily to be efficient.” — Bruce Lee
  • “If we all did the things we are capable of, we would astound ourselves.” — Thomas Edison
  • “It’s not that I’m so smart; it’s just that I stay with problems longer.” — Albert Einstein
  • “Practice all movements slow and fast, soft and hard; the effectiveness of Jeet Kune-Do depends on split-second timing and reflexive action, which can be achieved only through repetitious practice.” — Bruce Lee
  • “The happiest life is that which constantly exercises and educates what is best in us.” – Hamerton
  • “Use what talents you possess: the woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.” — Henry Van Dyke
Thinking
  • “A fresh mind keeps the body fresh. Take in the ideas of the day, drain off those of yesterday. As to the morrow, time enough to consider it when it becomes to-day.” — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
  • “A man’s dreams are an index to his greatness.” — Zadok Rabinwitz
  • “All men who have achieved great things have been great dreamers.” — Orison Swett Marden
  • “All successful men and women are big dreamers.  They imagine what their future could be, ideal in every respect, and then they work every day toward their distant vision, that goal or purpose.” — Brian Tracy
  • “Champions aren’t made in the gyms.  Champions are made from something they have deep inside them — a desire, a dream, a vision.” — Muhammad Ali
  • “Choose the positive. You have choice, you are master of your attitude, choose the positive, the constructive. Optimism is a faith that leads to success.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water my friend.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Enter every activity without giving mental recognition to the possibility of defeat.  Concentrate on your strengths, instead of your weakness … on your powers, instead of your problems.” — Paul J. Meyer
  • “Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.” — Albert Einstein
  • “I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination.  Imagination is more important than knowledge.  Knowledge is limited.  Imagination encircles the world.” — Albert Einstein
  • “If you think you can do a thing or think you can’t do a thing, you’re right.” — Henry Ford
  • “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” — Albert Einstein
  • “Is is in the small decisions you and I make every day that create our destiny.” — Tony Robbins
  • “It is the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief.  And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen.” — Claude M. Bristol
  • “It’s amazing what ordinary people can do if they set out without preconceived notions.” — Charles F. Kettering
  • “No great improvements in the lot of mankind are possible until a great change takes place in the fundamental constitution of their modes of thought.” — John Stuart Mil
  • “No man is ever whipped until he quits — in his own mind.” — Napoleon Hill
  • “Nothing can stop the person with the right mental attitude from achieving his goals. Nothing on earth can help the person with the wrong mental attitude.” – Thomas Jefferson
  • “Our greatest battles are that with our own minds.” — Jameson Fran
  • “Real difficulties can be overcome; It is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.” – Theodore N.Vail
  • “Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.” — Les Brown
  • “Some of the world’s greatest feats were accomplished by people not smart enough to know they were impossible.” — Doug Larson
  • “That some achieve great success, is proof to all that others can achieve it as well.” — Abraham Lincoln
  • “The biggest temptation is to settle for too little.” — Thomas Merton
  • “The difference between success and mediocrity is all in the way you think.” — Dean Francis
  • “The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short, but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.” – Michelangelo
  • “The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be.” — Marcel Pagnol
  • “The revelation of thought takes men out of servitude into freedom.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “The spirit of the individual is determined by his dominating thought habits.” — Bruce Lee
  • “The winners in life think constantly in terms of I can, I will, and I am.  Losers, on the other hand, concentrate their waking thoughts on what they should have or would have done, or what they can’t do.” — Dennis Waitley
  • “Thoughts and ideas are the source of all wealth, success, material gain, all great discoveries, inventions and achievements.” — Mark Victor Hansen
  • “‘What is’ is more important than ‘what should be.’ Too many people are looking at ‘what is’ from a position of thinking ‘what should be’.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Whatever we think about and thank about, we bring about.” — Wayne Dyer